Please help, girl advice welcomed?

I want to break up with my girlfriend, but i don't want to hurt her. We have been going out 5 months and i just can't take all the emotional stuff. one day she called me and started crying because she thought i was mad at her and i wasn't mad at all. So i need to know when, where, and how to break up with her.Please help, girl advice welcomed?
as long as you stay away from the ';its not you its me'; crap it should be fine. And dont do it over email or text.Please help, girl advice welcomed?
whatever u do DONT do it in a public place like school. maybe face to face or on the phone. and say i don't think it's working out and i think we should just be friends.
Tell her you need to end it, no matter what you do it's going to be bad so you may as well get it over with so she can begin to get over it.
First if I were you I would make sure that you are not in public because if she sarts to cry people will start thinking that you are a jerk. When you tell her make sure that you keep eye contact and that you are very calm when you say that you don't want to date her anymore. You then might want to explain to her why you are breaking up with her. I would then Tell her that you still want to be friends if she wants to. I would then tell her that you are sorry that it didn't work out and that there is a guy out there for you but I am not that guy. Just make it sound nice, because you don't want to hurt her feelings anymore than what you are going to. Best of luck, and I hope everything goes well.
Telll her 'You don't seem happy in a relationship. You're callin me cryin, and being really emotional. And it's making me emotional. I think we should break up, it's the best for the both of us. I want us both happy.' Yadda Yadda Yadda.
Uh, sounds like you are a good guy...





But umhm...


When: ASAP -- Not before the new year, you'll mess her last days of 07 realllly sad.


Where: I really don't know.


Just talk to her, and tell her that you think the relationship isn't working, and that you don't want to break her heart but you think she deserves better, and someone who loves her, because you care about her. =]





Good Luck...
Just do it.... Dont stay in a relationship that doesnt make you happy.
Just honestly tell her that the relationship isn't working out. She deserves to know.
so it soon and do it in person, just be honest
I think it's best that you go to her as soon as possible and bluntly tell her that you really like her, but you're exhausted from jumping through so many hoops and you think it's best that, for now, you be friends. (If she asks for a specific reason as to why you are breaking up with her, gently tell her that her emotions are just too much for you.) Also remind her that if she needs help resolving some of her emotional issues, you'll be there (as her friend) to help her through them.
do it as fast and as soon as possible.





She's emotionally messed up, and the longer you wait the worse it's gonna be.





Don't worry about hurting her feelings. If you're too nice about it, she won't get the ';loud and clear'; message that you need to send her.
You are in quite a pickle. Here's the thing:





When you break up with your girlfriend, you ARE going to hurt her. Rejection hurts. There's nothing you can do about that. What you CAN do is be gentle, kind and understanding when she hears the news.





Also, be honest. Tell her that you ';can't take all the emotional stuff';, just like you told us. When she asks what you mean by that, tell her. She might raise her voice. Don't raise yours.





In a few weeks, she will probably realize that you had to do what was best for you, and she'll be thankful that you were so honest and kind when you did it.





Good luck.
just break up with her... tell her you feel lik you should break up.... and write her a note saying why, and if there is any chance of you two getting back together and give it to her





if you want to be friends with her, tell her
Please, please, please, PLEASE don't use generic break-up lines like ';it's not you, it's me';, they just hurt that much more. Don't do it by text or by IM, or email if avoidable. The best way to do it would probably be in person, but if you don't feel confident doing that, then call her and ask her if you can have an honest conversation, then just tell her the truth. If you really don't want to hurt her, just tell her simply and honestly (it'll hurt her either way if she really likes you, but the kinder you are the less it will hurt). Good luck!
Whatever you do, don't do it over the phone or in a text or email. Do it face to face, and just be honest with her.
Instead of breaking up with her why don't you try talking to her?





Ask her why she thinks you're mad at her. Try to find out why she's emotional. Maybe she misinterprets what you say or do or she's going through a tough time. Don't let a misunderstanding break up a relationship that might have lasted otherwise.





But if talking to her doesn't help, just gently break it to her that you want to end the relationship.
I think honesty might work best, but if you really don't think this would work, you could always try being subtly obnoxious until she dumps you or isn't really upset when you dump her.