Sunday, August 22, 2010

What do I do next? Need advice about a girl?

This girl I've been talking to just recently broke up with her bf after a 6 month relationship. We hung out and everything went well. Cuddled and talked. We talk everyday and we're going to hang out again. I don't think she's wanting to jump into another relationship right off, but I think she enjoys hanging around e and talking to me. So should I just play it day to day or push the issue. What are some ideas to show ehr I care but at the same time not be too pushy about the relationship?What do I do next? Need advice about a girl?
just ride it out if somethings going to flourish from this it will, go slow though ,you dont need to be the one she hooks up with for all the wrong reasons,she probally still has feelings for her ex, women have a hard time letting go,give her time and dont push you might set your self up for heartache and pain,but let her know your there for her,your actions will show her you care,women are good at letting men know what they want wait for the signals youll know soon enough.What do I do next? Need advice about a girl?
Just be her friend and be there for her.


Dont push anything on her, you dont want her to think your a creep and lose her interest in you.


Give her time.


You can cuddle and flirt with her to let her know that your into her, but wait until she makes that decision, or wait until its been a while since she broke up with ehr boyfriend to make sure that shes over him.


You dont want to date someone that isnt over their ex yet. It could make the relationship complicated and it could end quickly.


Just wait it out for now and give her time.
Don't push it. Most girls will make it obvious when they want things to go further. You said you've been cuddling - that's a VERY good sign. Simply put, girls just don't snuggle up to guys for extended periods of time if they have no intention of ever taking things further. Unless they are very naieve, but considering this girl has been in a previous relationship she is unlikely to be naieve.





Good luck, hopefully there are some great experiences ahead for the both of you.
Don't push her into it..no need for that, especially if she's just out of a relationship. Show her that you care with casual things. Call her or text her outta nowhere saying something nice. When you are with her, try to observe your body language. When you talk to her, don't look nowhere else but her face, in the eyes would be most appropriate lol Unless you wanna show her you want a kiss so you stare at her lips ;) hahahha I still believe all girls like a gentleman and want to be treated nice. When you feel you two are progressing, try to make the next step..whatever that is, depends in what ways you've been progressing haha Good luck :D
Let her know that you really care about her and you're not the type to push her into a relationship if she doesn't want to. At some point you could ask her if she would be interested in going out with you officially, and if this question bothers her well it's up to you where to lead it. My bf stuck by me for a few months before I decided that I really wanted another relationship and that was going to be with him after all. It's worth being patient.
Play it day to day. If you are there listening to her and having fun with her then eventually she will grow to liking you around all the time, which also means she wont want any other girls around you the way she is...so then it might spark into something more.


I wouldnt start pushing it because she might not want anything right now and will feel like she doesnt want to hurt your feelings and just start to grow apart from you.


Have patients.
I think it's cool to open about the fact that you like her so that she knows you'd be excited about that sort of thing but you've got to keep your guard up cause you could just be a rebound. Girls can seem real interested but really only just want you for the right now till they are really ready to move on. To be 100% available to her. Just because she might be fragile right now doesn't mean she can't hurt you. Not saying she will, but it's just dangerous to see a girl who just broke it off with someone.
you should deffinitely take it day by day. If she wants to date you, then she'll push the issue.. but chances are she doesn't want to jump into another relationship this soon. to show you care, just show interest in her. ask her about her how her day was, and call her ';just to hear her voice';. since you've hung out, cuddled, and talked, she probably likes you too. I just wouldn't push the issue.
take it day by day but just let her no u like her when i brok up with my bf of 2 years 1 of my m8s was there 4 me an he was a really nice guy but i didn't think he like me anymore then a m8 an i started going out with another guy only to find that he did i was kinda gutted but my partner now is very caring an loves me good luck
whoa dude you need to slow your role. is she just broke up after a 6 month relationship, well you need to let that marinate for like a month ( minimum ) cause if you ask her out soon, yeah she'll prolly go out with you, but i garuntee she will still have feelings for her ex. and trust me bro. you do NOT want that. WAIT patience is a virtue
Nothing to worry about cause you already have her.......


Why be in a hurry???


True love can wait.....


and sincere/serious guys take things slow.....





Spending time with her, staying by her side, being someone to talk to and being a good listener are enough to make her feel she's cared....





You can have her as your girl soon.....


Take it easy.....


Don't worry.....
waddup man,





i can say i had that problm b4. my last ex


shes not rushin ovious she just got out of one, but if she likes


you nd yu like her but takin slow... going on dates like movies,bowling, out to eat, or the park are good places to go be open wit her tell her she looks pretty everytime yu see her, wen yus are goin for walks hold her hand ,cuddle wit her watchin movies nd have funn bro. dont go in for kisses or the bees nd the birds for sure cus that will mess wit her emotions nd prb think yu dont understand her situation. just take it slow nd have fun !
She may be a little cautious. Sounds like you are on the right track. Give her time like you have been doing. Ask her about her day and really listen to her...we girls love that.


Also you could give her little notes and cards that say things like...I'm thinking of you, I'm here if you want to talk, you know that kind of stuff...nothing too heavy. She will let you know when she wants more.
Try something slow and simple, like mention not having anyone to go to the movies or take her to the mall, something nice and slow. You can try to hold hands with her or something like that and if she doesn't like it you can play it off as a joke.
definitely just take it day by day, you sound like a nice guy. the nicest thing you can do is be a real friend to her and listen and be sympathetic about her break up- get a close friendship with her and she might fall for you before you even bring it up!
What is the issue that you want to push?


You have her friendship at the moment, you kiss and cuddle, you talk every day.


She knows you care, so just keep doing what you are doing.


Show her respect and do not push her for anything she is not prepared to give.
tell her how you feel.


but calmly.. dont make it a big deal.


DONT ask her to be in a relationship with you...


just let her know you care about her, but dont want to rush her into anything..


that might actually make her like you more, cause it shows


youre a gentleman and truly care by giving her time and space...


;)





good luck!
Just keep hanging out with her and tell her you r there for her if she ever needs to talk or needs a place to go. That will make her feel safe and secure and that she can trust you. give it a couple weeks, a moth or two might be a good idea. good luck!!


hope this hepls!!


cori =)
Just make her feel that you are there for her, and that you are interested. Ask her about it and see how she feels. Communication is key! If there is no communication[about stuff like this] it's doomed. =[ Make sure you make eye contact when she speaks when answering this question too.
Just be her friend for right now. Don't push her into a relationship. She's smart not to date just yet because she knows she isn't ready. Be there for her as a friend, have fun, and you will be the next guy she dates. Be patient.
I think you should play it day by day.did you know her before her and her bf brokeup? has she said anything to you thats like deep? something that she wouldnt tell to a friend? I dont know this kind of a hard question lol. I would just chill with this one.
Just try to get closer for right now you don't want to be a rebound but one day when yall talking ask her what she think of you? If she says anything about being more than friends than thats you're que. :)
Girls can get crushed wen they are out of a relationship just give her some time


she will come around


continue talkin and haning just dont move to fast


if the feelings there u guys will be tron in a relationship soon


good luk


love bee
Happened the same to me. This is what u should do, if she just broke up with her bf, wait about a month, but try to flirt with her if she flirts bak, u can move up and build on that.
well a 6 mnth relationshipp means she obviously cared about the guy. Give her some time to get over that but be there for her. Show her a good time, movies, picnics, just little nice things.
i think that the best thing to do is just keep doing what you are doing. If you guys are always chilling with each other, just keep chilling and eventually something might spark. but just give her time.
The best thing you can do is be her friend and give her time to heal when the time is right you will know it
You don't want to be the transition guy.Go slow slow slow.Give her time to resolve her feelings with the other guy.And if she talks a lot about her old boyfriend her heart is still with him.
Don't push it yet.





Be steady with her.





You can flirt.


Pushing her in a loving way is good.
Dont push the issue before being sure that she has atleast a small liking for you . ask her after she gets over her breakup.
play it day 2 day cuz she just got out of a relationship you dont want to push her just yet... let her call the shots


gooood luckkk=]

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