also, how long should i get to know her before asking her out? and how can i know if she's interested in me too?How should I flirt with a girl without being overbearing? + other advice needed! PLEASE HELP!?
Ask her if shed like to go over to the library and study, just be yourself, and you will see if the attraction is mutual. You can ask her to lunch for the next day, just watch how she acts in response, nervous answers can mean shes possibly attracted, definate answers can go either way and negitive ones, listen to the words and how their said, just because shes busy and mean Im not interested in studying with you or I am truly busy. Just watch her eyes, they can be the window to the soul. Good luck!How should I flirt with a girl without being overbearing? + other advice needed! PLEASE HELP!?
Talk to her until she can openly joke about serious things with you, things like family, work, and friends, that's when you should ask her out. To flirt with her, just study together, if she says no, take it and ask her later, not the next day but next week. Also you could just be someone she wants to be around, be funny but not disrespectful, point out flaws in the classroom, or laugh about nothing. be mysterious, lend her a pen and write your name on it so every time she uses it she'll think of you.
The whole point of college is you don't have to 'go on dates', because you all live on Campus anyway, so, that means you are probably fine just to visit at the dorm,or, if she lives at another dorm, sometimes you can transfer meal tickets and eat with her at her dorm cafeteria- then maybe party later with her and especially her friends.. yes, studying together too, or just advising each other on career paths etc, but don't make it an excuse to try and get in her pants. You have the rest of your life to get around to doing that.... Trying to find a spouse or soul mate in college is just creepy, and you aren't there for that.
ask her some questions about herself, like if she lives on campus and if she's been studying french for awhile. you know, general stuff. when the next test comes up ask her if she wants to study together. if you feel awkward the first time get other people from your class to come. go to a public place, like the college campus center or something. if that study session goes well, ask her if she wants to get coffee after class or soemthing to eat. or one day just compliment her, tell her you like her shirt or hair or something, that's a cute way to flirt that will make her want to talk to you.
You should def ask her to study with you. That'll give you a chance to start conversation. Just compliment on something, like her outfit or her hair. Laugh and joke with her too. Wait after a few sessions to ask her out. You'll know if she's interested if she flirts back.
Also, if she agrees to go out with you that'll give you an idea that she's interested. Just go with the flow and be yourself.
i would definetely ask her to study with you. then you can ask her to get like a smoothie with you or something.
I would say hang out for about a month and a half to two months. then ask her out!
you can definetely tell if she likes you if she giggles and looks away when you talk to her!
hope it works out!
-AnDi%26lt;3
Hmm, That Seems Like A Tough One, If You Don't Know Her Too Well Just Get To Know Her. Small Talk, About Things She Likes And What Not, Yeah; Studying Should
Be A Good Way To Get To Know Her Too.
Just Get To Know Her A Bit More, And See If You Guys Flirt Often, Then Go For
It, And Ask Her, Usually When Girls Are Interested In Guys, They Stare At Them A Lot.
Trust Me(;
Ask her to study with u. Wen u guys study together ull b able to feel sum kinda chemistry if she's interested. Also tell her thngs like u look really cute today, ya no compliments women luv that. If she into u ull kno wen the right time iz to ask her out. If u dnt by than.. Juss ask me lol and ill help. Good luck sweetie.
talk to her casually first. get to know her a little bit. then start to give her little hugs, little suggestions, but make it really light and jokingly. then when you feel like you know her enough, ask her out. just take your time.
just say look nice to day
just dont use a pick-up line
yea man I feel ya, I am in sort of the same situation. I practice talking to everyone I see and getting comfortable with that first. I couldn't approach a girl I like until this week, so that's a mile stone for me. Also when you like a girl, you might like her based on her looks/personality but that is no sure sign to know if she likes you back unless you can feel it or she says it. For instance, some people think playing with her hair and staring are signs, but there are other reasons, she might just be zoning out or be nervous. I know that a few girls like me because I felt a connection with them that is incredible and when you feel that you just know it's right. And I am willing to bet she felt it too because when i started talking to her she was really happy to talk to me.
So the answer to your question: you don't need to know how to flirt because when you have that connection (it can occur as a feeling in your gut or a feeling you get when you look into her eyes) you flirt naturally with her without even thinking about it.
It is really hard to start talking to a girl and getting her to like you if you don't have mad skills with women. So if you don't then talk to her to practice.
Also if you want to ask a girl out, you can do it after you know she likes you back and she won't reject you, if she was busy she might subtly hint she wants you to ask again another time. ( I guess). And if you ask her out when you didn't feel an attraction feeling then she is likely to say no.
Good luck.
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