Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Need girl advice thanks?

Is this girl flirting with me or...?





Well one day she said i was cute


and she always wants me to spell her lip gloss


and she messeswithmy hair and when she gets a haircut she always wants me to feel it? so is she flirting or...?





im usually good at telling if she is or not but she does it in a way like shes flirting but i cant have her so idk please help thanks!Need girl advice thanks?
yeah shes flirting.


girls like to play are to get so that might be where the you cant have her thing comes in.Need girl advice thanks?
Sounds like she's definitely flirting with you. The only thing I'd watch for is if she acts that way around anyone else. I've known some girls to be naturally flirtatious and not even realize what they're doing. But if you're the only one she pays attention to, then yes, the flirting is there.
yea. she is :P good luck

Can i have girl advice?

i know this girl and she has been really mean to me


do i hit her?Can i have girl advice?
whatevz you need to do to keep the pimp hand strong.








clickity clickity woo wooCan i have girl advice?
WTF is wrong with some of you guys tonight? Why all the questions about hitting women?





If you hit her, I hope she kicks your balls so far up your a$$ they never drop down! Seriously, be a MAN - surely you can handle your own against a girl without violence. Men are always talking how they are the stronger sex - prove it by picking on someone your own size. No wonder some women are lesbians with men like you out there.
No....


I was made fun of and picked on all threw elementary school, middle and high.


You want to really make her mad... dont hit her...


but ignore her.... laugh at her when she says something to you! Look at her like shes stupid.


If she jokes you, try to put the joke on her and make fun of yourself with it.


dont show her that your scared of her... dont put your head down when she looks at you!


If she hits you... than, self defence!!! Take the damn cafetirea trays or a chair and beat her ***...


'but if all shes doing is talking... than f*** her... dont waste your time on poeple like that.





You have to also not worry about people think about you. I stopped careing about people and there **** in the 5th grade. Once someone sees that they arent getting under your skin anymore.... the fun of being mean stops...
No you don't! Yes people say this all the time, and its so true! Violence is not the answer to solving problems, and two wrongs do NOT make a right. If i were you i would just ignore her and let her get bored of being mean to you and then she will stop.





good luck hopefully this helps =)
I can honestly answer from experience, I used to be mean to tons of people. The best thing to do is kindly ask her to stop, and if she doesn't you have to hurt her a lil. Like just blow up on her. Yell! Just don't cuss
Haha. I'm sorry. That's really funny. I hate some girls and want to hit them but I don't. I don't think it should go to that level. Just ignore her.
No. Not unless she's beating you up and you are trying to defend yourself. Hitting her wouldn't solve the problem, and certainly wouldn't make her treat you any better.
NO YOU SHOULD NOT HIT HER! This could get you in serious trouble! If she has been really mean, just ignore her, some girls are just really catty. Or date her best friend drives us girls nuts- only joking don't do that.
Uh, it depends do you like time behind bars where you're served c*ck meat sandwiches? You dumbass.
No.....why would you ever want to hit someone????? talk to her instead.....physical abuse is just stupid, and gives you a bad rep.
Giggity Giggity.





Go ahead. But I wouldn't. Just ignore her.
OOOOOOOK. are you a guy???





lemme say this. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO





DONT HIT A GIRL YOU RETARD.
be really nice to her and make her fall in love with u then have sex with her and after that ignore her. trust me its hilarious
No NEVER hit a girl no matter what she does or says.
you cant hit her! that abuse !!
no dont hit her u can yell and call hera bitchor do whatever u need 2 do but no hitting or violance
no way! u just need to ignore it and walk away cuz u hafta be the bigger person in the situation!
Are you retarded?
not if you want any girls to ever talk to you again
no you shouldn't hit a girl -.-
Sure....If you are a total ASSHOLE !!!!
you always hurt the one you love
you never hit a girl...wow
why on earth would you do that :S
hell yea! knock that bit*h out!
lol no
nope. dont get violent with ur actions just tell her off
Ummm....NO!!!!!!!!! That is so mean if she is hurting you talk to her! Peace man!!!!
of course u dont just b***h her out
no . get your sister after her or any other girl you know.

Dating a homeless girl - Advice?

So...would it not be awesome to date a homeless girl?





I mean, after the date, or whatever, you could literally drop her off, well, anywhere!





Thoughts?Dating a homeless girl - Advice?
LOL...what have you been smoking to come up with such a random funny question? Thanks for the fun!Dating a homeless girl - Advice?
random...... but kinda funny.
but CRAIGGERS!, I have a home.. ?
that is rlly sick, do u want ot b dropped of in this weather? didnt think so

Girls, any advice for a guy that has won the affections of his dream girl??

I really want her to love me, and I know she currently likes me a lot. I could see myself marrying her, and she has been my dream girl since I met her! How can I not screw up??Girls, any advice for a guy that has won the affections of his dream girl??
Always make sure she feels special, that is the most important thing. Don't take her for granted. Don't smother her either.Girls, any advice for a guy that has won the affections of his dream girl??
Well first of all you should always be yourself and let her know what you stand for. Don't rush things, take your time and get to know her more and she knows you too. Then if you both realize that you would want to take it to the next level of the relationship then go for it.
Do not smother her. Act chill and most of all be yourself! When the time is right you can tell her some of your feelings but let her get to where you're at. This may take a while and above all...if she's really the one? You can wait :)
do u really not know how to not screw up???
Don't let her control you. Be true to yourself.
dont screw ne1 else.
turn on the charm but don't annoy her wit6h it girls don't like that (trust me) if she looks sad go up to her and give .


her a hug and tell her it will be ok


. also ask her on a date!!
lick er, and sticker,
just think before you talk. don't scare her off. don't tell her your ideas of marriage or anything like that until you are both on the same level - meaning, she loves you back.





just be patient and take it easy. treat her well.





and again, really be careful with what you say to her so as to not scare her off. but you can keep showing her that you love her through your actions
Be faithful!!!


and give her lots of presents :P
I am 36 have dated 2 women for 3 yrs each. One woman whom i have a child with for 7 yrs and I have been married for 2 yrs. The single biggest thing you can do to screw up a relationship is take her for granted. She is a woman and does not react to anything the way a man would react to it. There is a line from a song that sums it up wonderfully for me. ';Speak to her softly...it's something you get used to.'; Women are emotional where as we tend to look at things from a rational point of view. Things are not always so cut and dry with a woman. Listen to her. She doesn't always want you to fix her problems she just wants you to listen and understand. It's the little things that women appreciate. Remember something minor like what she was wearing when you first met or notice that she got her hair cut. Be patient when you talk to her. Don't raise your voice in anger if possible and whatever you do never, ever lay your hands on a woman. I never have and never would myself. Make her the feel like the center of your world if you really love her. Remember...men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears. Good luck!
Don't make abrupt or drastic relationship jumps. Let her catch up with you and take the relationship slowly.
A good rule of thumb is treat her how you'd like to be treated. If you want her to respect you, then respect her. If you want her to show you that you're special, show her that she's special. If you want her to be honest with you, be honest with her... etc... Good luck!
If she really likes her she will love you for who you are. Just be yourself...
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  • Ive been known as a nerd and school and I can't seem to talk to any girl. Need Advice?

    Find a fellow nerd.Ive been known as a nerd and school and I can't seem to talk to any girl. Need Advice?
    Be more confident, change your clothing style if you need to. Talk to people!Ive been known as a nerd and school and I can't seem to talk to any girl. Need Advice?
    Have you tried asking someone out?
    change your whole look...i guess you can be smart without dressing like it....keeep people guessing. suprise everyone by wearing a coll outfit and ditch the glasses..oh yea get your hair braided in cornrows..lol dont do that one
    Relax for starters hun- if you act nervous, then [mean] girls will probably laugh or something horrible like that.





    Focus on your strong points- Things that you can use to your advantage. Intelligence is a lovely and unusual quality to have, and people find it fascinating.





    Just start with the basic smiling and making eye contact, then a hello to break the ice, and then a genuine compliment- everyone loves a compliment honey!





    It gets easier, I promise...Have fun, and good luck x
    It sucks, I can relate :O





    I know this one guy who's kind of a hot nerd though... so just be hot :D

    Signs to tell if a boy/girl likes you (Advice columnist looking for answers)...?

    I run an advice column ^ at school and I'm constantly being asked ';What are a few signs that this guy/girl likes me?'; I'm sick of responding with what I think, so I wanted to know what other people think. How do you know if someone likes you? How do you act when you like someone? (11 points guarantee for best answer! I thumbs up everyone!)Signs to tell if a boy/girl likes you (Advice columnist looking for answers)...?
    People that like you will look at you more than people who don't. They'll talk to you mroe. They'll notice stuff like that you have a new haircut or got new glasses.





    The shy ones will always look away when you catch them looking at you.

    Need girl advice: i met a girl on the bus, wants me bad, but was playing hard get, and giving mixed signals?

    i offered to carry her purse for her, and she blew a whistle. thats a clear sign that shes into me, and other guys forget it, right? but then i wanted to be a gentleman, and tried to help her with her pull over jacket as it was hot. well, turns out it was not her jacket, but her shirt! my bad..... i thought she understood, but then i guess she was at her stop, and had to hurry off. i thought this was a chance i cant pass up, so i started to follow her, when----wham! she sprayed pepper spray in my eyes! could this have been a mistake? maybe she was trying to spray her mouth with breath spray and got confused? should i be more forward and aggressive if i see her again, or play mr. cool and let her come and get it?Need girl advice: i met a girl on the bus, wants me bad, but was playing hard get, and giving mixed signals?
    She's clearly begging for you to pursue her. May I suggest a dozen roses, but just to be original get them in black instead of red. Also, women love it when men they don't know wait for them outside of their workplace to walk them to the bus, so be sure to rifle through her trash to find out where she works. Don't forget to invite me to the wedding!Need girl advice: i met a girl on the bus, wants me bad, but was playing hard get, and giving mixed signals?
    Poked you in the eye, huh? In some cultures, that's called courting. Thanks for the ten . . .

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    haha thanks for sharing
    Yea, buddy, let her come and get it.


    Man u have a problem. Just another man who thinks that ALL women want his penis. Trust me, her aim was meant for you and there was NO breath spray in or around her purse.
    Haha. (:
    That is sooo funny.
    OMG LMAO she doesnt like u if she sprayed pepper spray in yo eye.
    lol...

    Need advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?

    She is 7 months pregnant and we had sex (which was weird, thank God I was drunk) can she get pregnant again?Need advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?
    NopeNeed advice, I have been dating a girl that is pregnant ( I am not the father) for a couple weeks and?
    No she cannot get pregnant if she is already pregnant.
    i dont think she can but if she was drunnk too..thats bad lol
    No. She cannot get pregnant again. But it is weird that you had sex with someone who is pregnant with another man's baby. Kinda creepy actually.
    Silly, silly boy!


    She can't concieve if she's already pregnant!
    Dumb ***!

    [LADIES ADVICE]How do you keep a girl interest? (guys too if you want)?

    I can only talk to the girl over the net, txt, and calls, because she lives too far. Btw, she is going to visit me during school breaks + she is moving down where I live for college


    How do you keep a girl interested in the meantime?[LADIES ADVICE]How do you keep a girl interest? (guys too if you want)?
    for me, distance is the most interesting thing ever...


    my boyfriend and i were separated for more than a year, since he moved to Argentina for a while. first it was excruciating, but then, we arranged phone dates, and kept texting and instant messaging.


    with this, you will not get her love, but her FRIENDSHIP, and when she moves to the place you are now, your relationship will be stronger and longer lasting, because you will be more than boyfriend and girlfriend, you will be the best best friends ever.


    Try to talk about everything, keep her updated with what you do with your life, ask her about what she has been up to... show her that you care and even though you are apart, you spend -INVEST- time on her, your friendship and your relationship.


    best wishes!:D[LADIES ADVICE]How do you keep a girl interest? (guys too if you want)?
    im your girl for this one. me and my bf were in a long distance relationship for 11 1/2 months (now live together happily) and it was extremely hard because you can only talk so much and then you are just repeating yourself. one thing my bf did is he would mail me random letters and cards. one time he just wrote in big letters i love you and mailed it to me. its the sweetest thing ever, and so much better then a text trust me, she will love it. also send a little beanie baby or flower here and there.
    It's evident that you are keeping her interested with the communication the two of you already have. I would suggest email, because that's a huge way I stay in contact with people I care about, and it's a portal to say much more about you or your day than you can in a text. Plus it's exciting to get a long message from a friend. I love those. Other than that, stay true to yourself, and you should be fine.
    Bro... Great Question... Women are very hard to keep interested for long periods of time when you aren't with each other. So what you need to do is make sure she knows where you are at with her(how you feel about her). Make sure you stay in contact with her, like if you're supposed to call, you better call. Don't leave her in the dark about anything, so make sure you let her know that you will be honest with her and if she has any questions that you will answer truthfully. You should have no problem keeping a girl interested that way. If you're looking for more of an edgy way to do it... I teach Players 101 to my buddies... Drop me an email or just tell me if you want to know the shady *** way to do it... Good luck!
    just talk to her. me and my boyfriend are dealing with a long-distance relationship right now and its tough but its totally worth it. just keep her filled in. let her know how college is going, what you're doing, etc,. make sure she knows you want to keep in touch.
    dont worry about it, when she moves close to you she will have you as the closest connection so you are set. just keep interacting. when she is close to you things will be much easier
    Send her gifts, letters (romantic ones), send pictures of you and call her everyday..you must talk to her on daily basis and make sure she knows you like her and her ONLY
    Tell her about how great it will be when she comes to keep excitement





    send pics


    tell her how much you care
    be funny and understanding
    be funny ii love funny :D and dont be a creep like why are u ignoring my text. y didn tu text me back..etc...i hate that ****
    get webcams (my gf resuses =P) and then just whip it out

    I need girl advice please?

    I'm in college and I met this girl at the bus stop. She started talking to me and now I really like her but how do I let her know. I look into her eyes while she's talking and I smile. But I dont want to freak her out or anything. Any advice. ThanksI need girl advice please?
    Whatever they say, every girl likes to be told she is admired. I reckon you should just tell her that you are attracted to her, that you think she is pretty or interesting or whatever, but don't expect her to say anything complimentary in return, it will look as if you are desperate for her to like you to. Just be as gentle and sincere as you can and say it as a casual compliment. Regardless of whether she is attracted to you as well, you will no doubt make her feel very special for a day, and if she is attracted to you then she will probably try to prolong the conversation. Good Luck!I need girl advice please?
    Just talk to her! If things seem to be going well, and you are having fun talking to her, you could always invite her to grab coffee or some other low stress activity. No need to start making declarations of love, just get to know her for now. ;)
    just be polite and say that you are interested in getting to know her better, and ask kindly if she would join you for dinner. or a movie if u want something more casual.
    You don't necessarily have to tell her. Ask her to get some coffee or something, she'll figure it out herself.





    Good luck my friend
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  • Where can i get advice on how to make a girl like me?

    this is the best piece of advice you will ever get





    you probably wont listen to it right now





    but once you realize its the truth you will





    i finally did and found the man of my dreams





    ok ready???








    BE YOURSELF... 100% COMPLETELY HONESTLY TRUE TO YOURSELFWhere can i get advice on how to make a girl like me?
    just be yourself Duh!Where can i get advice on how to make a girl like me?
    go to: http://www.wikihow.com

    Need help with this girl advice from girls?

    this girl that i like knows that i like her and i told her but she that only as friends i was wondering how i could change her feelings and or figure out if shes lying and really does like meNeed help with this girl advice from girls?
    if she really liked youu she would have told you when you brought it up,


    no girl that likes a guy is going to tell him that she doesnt like him and just end it then and there, and if she doesnt like you....well move on, theres someone else better out there for youu.


    but then again, maybe she's afraid to get hurt.


    thats something you'll have to sort out on yr own,.

    Need someones advice with talking to a girl?

    ok well there is this girl i have been talking to for a few weeks now but we have ran out of things to talk about... we have asked each other about our favorite things and all that. but now we dont have anything to talk about. can someone come up with anything good to talk about?Need someones advice with talking to a girl?
    This guy was trying to get to know me he played this game that either he made up or learned from someone or somewhere. It's called the ';What if'; game. He asked a what if question and he was able to find out how I would react in certain situations or what I liked.





    Questions like: what if I asked you to go to the movies with me?, what if you was on the airplane and someone kept kicking your chair?





    This might sound crazy, but it was fun and cute to me.Need someones advice with talking to a girl?
    well, talk bout stuff that are like deep and out of your comfort zone if your comfortable talking to her and trust her. or if she is a good girl. um and most importantly is common interest. that usually works out good with relationships right. but talk to her about her day and your day and stuff :] and let her know she is beautiful b/c it means to her but u got to say it if u mean it too.
    Hey, you've told her what you need to tell her, so if you ask her out, you 2 will know eachother so much. But i think you should start talking to her about deep things like secrets, thats if you reallly trust her.
    you can talk about your plans for the future. about your thoughts on life.. what she believes in.. what you believe in.

    Please help, girl advice welcomed?

    I want to break up with my girlfriend, but i don't want to hurt her. We have been going out 5 months and i just can't take all the emotional stuff. one day she called me and started crying because she thought i was mad at her and i wasn't mad at all. So i need to know when, where, and how to break up with her.Please help, girl advice welcomed?
    as long as you stay away from the ';its not you its me'; crap it should be fine. And dont do it over email or text.Please help, girl advice welcomed?
    whatever u do DONT do it in a public place like school. maybe face to face or on the phone. and say i don't think it's working out and i think we should just be friends.
    Tell her you need to end it, no matter what you do it's going to be bad so you may as well get it over with so she can begin to get over it.
    First if I were you I would make sure that you are not in public because if she sarts to cry people will start thinking that you are a jerk. When you tell her make sure that you keep eye contact and that you are very calm when you say that you don't want to date her anymore. You then might want to explain to her why you are breaking up with her. I would then Tell her that you still want to be friends if she wants to. I would then tell her that you are sorry that it didn't work out and that there is a guy out there for you but I am not that guy. Just make it sound nice, because you don't want to hurt her feelings anymore than what you are going to. Best of luck, and I hope everything goes well.
    Telll her 'You don't seem happy in a relationship. You're callin me cryin, and being really emotional. And it's making me emotional. I think we should break up, it's the best for the both of us. I want us both happy.' Yadda Yadda Yadda.
    Uh, sounds like you are a good guy...





    But umhm...


    When: ASAP -- Not before the new year, you'll mess her last days of 07 realllly sad.


    Where: I really don't know.


    Just talk to her, and tell her that you think the relationship isn't working, and that you don't want to break her heart but you think she deserves better, and someone who loves her, because you care about her. =]





    Good Luck...
    Just do it.... Dont stay in a relationship that doesnt make you happy.
    Just honestly tell her that the relationship isn't working out. She deserves to know.
    so it soon and do it in person, just be honest
    I think it's best that you go to her as soon as possible and bluntly tell her that you really like her, but you're exhausted from jumping through so many hoops and you think it's best that, for now, you be friends. (If she asks for a specific reason as to why you are breaking up with her, gently tell her that her emotions are just too much for you.) Also remind her that if she needs help resolving some of her emotional issues, you'll be there (as her friend) to help her through them.
    do it as fast and as soon as possible.





    She's emotionally messed up, and the longer you wait the worse it's gonna be.





    Don't worry about hurting her feelings. If you're too nice about it, she won't get the ';loud and clear'; message that you need to send her.
    You are in quite a pickle. Here's the thing:





    When you break up with your girlfriend, you ARE going to hurt her. Rejection hurts. There's nothing you can do about that. What you CAN do is be gentle, kind and understanding when she hears the news.





    Also, be honest. Tell her that you ';can't take all the emotional stuff';, just like you told us. When she asks what you mean by that, tell her. She might raise her voice. Don't raise yours.





    In a few weeks, she will probably realize that you had to do what was best for you, and she'll be thankful that you were so honest and kind when you did it.





    Good luck.
    just break up with her... tell her you feel lik you should break up.... and write her a note saying why, and if there is any chance of you two getting back together and give it to her





    if you want to be friends with her, tell her
    Please, please, please, PLEASE don't use generic break-up lines like ';it's not you, it's me';, they just hurt that much more. Don't do it by text or by IM, or email if avoidable. The best way to do it would probably be in person, but if you don't feel confident doing that, then call her and ask her if you can have an honest conversation, then just tell her the truth. If you really don't want to hurt her, just tell her simply and honestly (it'll hurt her either way if she really likes you, but the kinder you are the less it will hurt). Good luck!
    Whatever you do, don't do it over the phone or in a text or email. Do it face to face, and just be honest with her.
    Instead of breaking up with her why don't you try talking to her?





    Ask her why she thinks you're mad at her. Try to find out why she's emotional. Maybe she misinterprets what you say or do or she's going through a tough time. Don't let a misunderstanding break up a relationship that might have lasted otherwise.





    But if talking to her doesn't help, just gently break it to her that you want to end the relationship.
    I think honesty might work best, but if you really don't think this would work, you could always try being subtly obnoxious until she dumps you or isn't really upset when you dump her.

    Seventeen year old girl considering joining the military asking for advice?

    she writes i'm 17 and been in rotc for 4 years and i love it but i listen to stories an some are way different then rotc yet soon it will be time to leave the family house is joining the military going to give me a live of security safty income selfworth potential to develop personally?Seventeen year old girl considering joining the military asking for advice?
    Keep asking questions and make sure you know what you want, from life and from the military. Completing JROTC is a big accomplishment.





    I am biased, but I would suggest looking into the USAF. I was a brat, NCO, and an officer...and all were positive experiences.





    It won't always be nice and clean and shiny...and you will experience many new things, but you will learn, earn, and grow.





    The USAF is also a great place to start or complete college. I can say that from personal experience.





    This isn't to denigrate the other services...please look into them too...but rather to share from personal experience. If it wasn't for the USAF, I would never have attended college...or gone on for my PhD and a commission as an O-3 Psychologist.





    Good luck....and ';Aim High.'; (I've always hated that USAF slogan) LOL





    EDIT: See, you already have TWO Captains referring you. LOLSeventeen year old girl considering joining the military asking for advice?
    Congratulations on completing 4 years of ROTC! You ask a thoughtful question that demonstrates the kind of leadership potential needed no matter which field you enter. I can only give you advice based on my own 19+ years of (noncombat) military experience. I entered the military right out of high school, did active duty for eight years and have been in the Reserves for eleven. I feel the military definitely gave me the opportunity to earn a steady income, develop myself both personally and professionally, to travel the world, and to pay for college (twice--both undergrad and grad). That's not to say I haven't had bad days, but you would have those in any job. You might hear alot of negative stories, but listen closely and see if the military is really to blame or if the people complaining created their own problems and would have nothing positive to say no matter where they worked. I was fortunate to be able to avoid the naysayers and instead hang out with great friends and mentors who helped me to make good choices in life. I found my job in communications to be challenging and interesting, and during my offtime, I had alot of fun and adventures (i.e. surfing, hanggliding, skydiving, kayaking, rockclimbing, etc). As for security and safety, those are relative terms that cannot be guaranteed by the military. While I have not been deployed to a combat zone (yet), I know that's no guarantee of my safety, as accidents and violence can happen right here at home. In short, the military, like anything in life, is what YOU make of it. Best of luck to you, whatever you decide!
    Go Air Force, the biggest problem college students have today is no experience. The Air Force will train you and also give you free college while you are in, my daughter has already received her Associates 100% free and she is currently stationed over in South Korea, she has already seen Qua tar, S. Africa, Washington D.C. and when her duty is done in S. Korea she will be going to Germany. The Air Force will give you work experience you need when you get out and right now it has the best job security than a lot of civilian businesses. If you liked ROTC then you will enjoy the Air Force, and I know that your parents will be proud, I know that I am of my Daughter she followed my foot steps, I was in the Army for a little more than 10 years. Good Luck with whatever you decide.
    The military is a great opportunity! However, it is not for everyone. High school is not like the work world in exactly the same way. It becomes a job. Many colleges have ROTC programs. This may smooth the transition between high school and real world and answer your question. You can join at anytime; but do not have the right to quit if it is not for you.
    look into the air force...u will have the best lifestyle...u will be safest..best food...more family oriented...and af has the shortest deployments and bases...you will live for free, eat free, free medical and dental insurance..tax free shoppin at grocery stores and other stores on base...
    If you really want to develop personally join the Marines. Boot camp is not that bad. Don't believe the ';stories.'; Set your goals high and go for it. It is really a good life and a good time.
    develop the will to kill.
    Seriously look into the National Guard:





    National Guard trains generally one weekend a month, and two weeks a year. Your first step is to go to a Nat. Guard Recruiter and explore your options. Ask him/her to put you into contact with various units so that you can perhaps make a visit to them so you can talk to people from those units and see if what they do is in your interest. Then you will have to decide on an MOS (Military Occupational Specialty). This is Military Police, Quartermaster, etc. Then you will got to MEPS and get your physical done and all of your paperwork finalized and then within one year, you will go to basic training (you usually get to pick the date you go). Basic training is about 10 weeks and your AIT (Advanced Individual Training will vary depending on the job you are being trained for). You can do what is called ';Split Option'; where you go to basic, come home and go to school or whatever and then go to your AIT later withing 1 year of completing basic.





    After Basic Training and AIT you report to your unit.Your weekend is called ';drill'; where you show up Saturday and do Physical Training for about an hour and then general mission training the rest of the day until 4 or 5. Sunday is usually the same. Your 2 weeks is called AT (Annual Training) where you head out to an Army post or someplace and conduct intensive readiness training. You have to qualify on your weapon once a year (maybe more depending on your command), and you have to pass a Physical Training (PT) Test twice a year. Look up ';Army APFT Satndards'; in yahoo and you should find a chart to tell you what you need to do.





    The Benefits: You will more than likely get a bonus of up to $20,000. You get 100% tuition Assistance for in-state schools and if you already have a scholarship, they will match it and cut you a check that goes into your pocket. Also, you are eligible for the GI Bill and Kicker which gives you up to $509.00 a month while you attend school in addition to tuition assistance. You get paid for basic training (between 2,000 and 3,000 depending on your rank). You also get paid for drills and AT. You get $400,000 life insurance for $29/month if you want it and it covers you wheather you are on or off duty.





    The best benefit is knowing that you are serving your community, State, and Country and that you are in a position that less that 1% of all Americans are willing to commit to. It is the American Soldier NOT the Constitution who gives the American People their freedom. As a National Guard Soldier, you are a guardian of freedom and the American Way of Life. You are a servant to the people of this great Nation and as such YOU have an active role in securing the blessings of liberty for not only your family, your children and their children, but to the children of strangers who are not willing or physically able to sacrafice what you are willing to give.

    Anyone have girl advice for 9 year olds?

    need to knowAnyone have girl advice for 9 year olds?
    9 year olds shouldn't be on the computer.


    They should be doing 9 year old things.


    Anyone have girl advice for 9 year olds?
    Advice on what??
    9 years old?








    wow.
    about what?
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  • Need some girl advice?

    so i have been friends with this girl for a long time...and i like her, but it seems like shes to good for me and i dont deserve her?Need some girl advice?
    thats how ii felt when me and my BF wore friends


    we became bestfriends and well we fell inlove


    ii felt like that to


    and he told me im his dream come true


    its ok


    ii know what you mean


    but honstly ii kno you can do it


    dont give up so ez trust me


    if you think you can keep her happy then dont giveup on that


    never give up on loveNeed some girl advice?
    duude,


    go for her trust me!











    she will totally like you for who she is and


    even if she doesnt like you there are plenty of fish in the sea
    Well...if you're anything like my ex than she probably is to good for you! However, if you aren't a complete jerk than you have nothing to worry about.

    I need girl advice i know about puberty im 13 help please!!!?

    Im really skinny not anorexic but skinny and im in sevent grade my friends have more bbos than me and there not skinny but me and my sister think that my boobs are kinda big for me for instanace i were covered shirts and my friends say It looks like I have nothing cuz I dont were unciovered shirts cuz its cold wuts the normal size for a bra of a 12 year ol thank u guys all.I need girl advice i know about puberty im 13 help please!!!?
    i kno what ur saying i get picked on a lootttt! everyone calls me flat chested. My size is 32a and if i am lucky i can wear 34a. I just wear a lot of tight sliming shirts cuz i am really skinny and people call me aneroix for that but i am NOT. So yea i jus wear sliming shirts from places like Abercrombie.I need girl advice i know about puberty im 13 help please!!!?
    Hey ! You're thirteen and you have just entered a period of your life when you'll see so much transformation of your figure and your mind that you will see in most of your life. Naturally it's a sensitive subject even for 13 year olds. Just remember, that the ugly duckling was older than you when it turned into a graceful swan.Be patient, eat good stuff and keep your body and mind clean and that will give you the best possible chance to be what you want to be. But a lesson in life that all us old fogeys have learnt is that we have to balance what we want to be with what really works for us.
    Just be thankful you have a good body. I am a 150 pounder and would like to have your skinny body.
    I wouldn't worry about what your friends say. Your still growing, and your body will catch up. It's hard to say what size you should be, as I am 38 and a size 32a.
    Be very thankful that you are healthy. It really hurts when people say things about you but it's ok. The late bloomers are usually the most beautiful. Periods not in yet? Great! Have fun with your life. When your body is ready, then it'll change. In the meantime, enjoy life. You'll know what I say is true when you grow up.
    No one is happy with how they look when they're thirteen. The girls with a large chest would rather have your small chest. Everyone gets what they're going to get in time. Don't stress about it. If you really want to look bigger, your mom can probably help you find a bra with some discreet padding. But don't stuff your bra, that never works and someone always finds out.
    Oh honey, I can totally relate to everything you are going through. I was the skinny, short, little sister type when I was growing up. People always say to you, ';your lucky you don't have any boobs'; or ';trust me, you don't want to start your period';, stuff like that. Well, they'll never know unless they go through it.





    My best advice to you is to just wait it out. You'll get everything in time...you're becoming a woman, and you'll get boobs. I used to pray every night that I would wake up with boobs in the morning, true story. I cried for 3 weeks because my younger sister started her period before me. It's stupid now that I look back, but I still was the outcast and would get made fun of. I would use it to your advantage and brag to people about you being smaller and focus on the positive things about you...in the mean time, there's no reason why you couldn't wear super padded bras...I still do!
    Well like u know puberty can start from as young as 8 2 as long as 18
    I think normal is a 32 or 34 A or B. It all depends on your size and growth rate though.

    I need girl advice lol?

    I was talking to this girl last night she is a good girl. I did back off from her some time ago and she back off from me some time ago to but i really do like her she is a good friend i want to be with her. when to i talk to her again what do i tell her as well ?I need girl advice lol?
    whatever you want her to know... simple

    Does this girl like me? girl advice pleaseeee?

    She hugs me almost every time I see her and she says hi most of the time too. We were suppose to hang out and we couldn't so she said she was going to cry if we don't next time.Does this girl like me? girl advice pleaseeee?
    When I like a guy I stair at him


    Play with my hair


    Bite my nails


    Look away


    Shy away


    Flirt with out him knowing it


    And love when I see him.


    My eyes light up when i c him


    Hope I helpedDoes this girl like me? girl advice pleaseeee?
    Listen to Kate.


    Thats the way i am with the boy i like with like all of those more or less.
    1. Her eyes will ';smile'; when she looks at you





    2. She'll keep your eye contact a ';little too long';, and her pupils may dilate





    3. She'll become more self-conscious around you, and she'll start doing things like playing with her hair and clothes





    4. She'll seek your attention and approval





    5. She'll sit up, push her chest out, and arch her back





    6. She'll fidget, bite her finger, or pucker her lips





    7. She'll wet her lips





    8. She'll flutter her eyelashes





    9. She'll sit with her legs facing you





    10. She'll rub her chin or touch her cheek





    11. She'll touch your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hands when talking to you.





    12. She'll raise or lower her tone of voice to match yours, and mirror your body language





    13. She'll laugh at your jokes





    14. In a crowd, she'll give you undivided attention





    15. Her skin might become flushed (red) around you





    16. She'll whisper things to her friend around you





    17. She'll tilt her head slightly at an angle and thrust her hips forward





    18. She'll always be in your vicinity in a public situation (you can test this by moving around the room to see if she follows)

    Help!!! I Want a girl friend in High school but I am akward, I need advice on how to start a relationship?

    i am akward but realy want a girlfriend in highschool. i need dating advice and i need help to meet and start relationships with girls like where to meet them and how to get to boyfriend status. how do i go from friend to boyfriend. i have already asked a similar question but am getting no responses i need help!!!!Help!!! I Want a girl friend in High school but I am akward, I need advice on how to start a relationship?
    HAHA.First things first. YOU'RE TRYING TOO HARD. Hahaha. Girls usually think awkward boys are cute. Don't change your look for a girl, but do take more time than you usually do to get ready. Obviously take showers daily. Uhm, when you shop get nice clothes that are really YOU. Your clothes usually reflect your personality. Maybe try American Apparel it has a large variety, but is still kind of casual. If you like a girl make sure she's available first. If she is, don't ask her out right away or she'll instantly say no because she wasn't expecting it. Flirt with her be really charming(andyourself). Once you see you guys are on a good level, mention hanging out or going somewhere to do something that you know she's intrested in. Also Join sports and groups. And remember that the internet is the WORST place to meet a girl.


    GOODLUCK. More questions just ask. :DHelp!!! I Want a girl friend in High school but I am akward, I need advice on how to start a relationship?
    If there is a specific girl in question, how well do you know her? are you nice to her? do you have common interests? In high school if you want a girlfriend who isn't some superficial cheerleader/prep-type person, a good start is becoming good friends with a girl, it can get you closer to them, and you'll become more comfortable with her. Maybe if you're lucky she'll start to like you which can make your job even easier. But once you feel you have some chemistry together just ask her out, just on a simple date, like a movie. If its a girl who's never had a boyfriend and seems awkward herself, it'll be a mutual experience and you'll get more comfortable together which could bring you guys closer, thats what happened for me and my first girlfriend.
    Always be yourself, If you find a girl that you have alot in common with, talk to all the time, Start doing cute things for her. Its the small things you do that can make girls fall for you like the snap of a finger. Ive had plenty of relationships in my time and thats how it all starts, always keep conversation about things she likes, and do little cute things, say corny stuff thats cute towards the girl. The rest is all on your own. Be yourself, don't ask too many questions back to back, allyou gotta do is give it time. I talked to this girl i knew for about 2 months before we had our first kiss, then it lead to a relationship.
    Ok dude the first thing that you need to try and do is take good care of yourself. I'm not saying to start working out or anything (even though that would help), but maybe do your hair a little different. Don't be afraid to find your own style. Just do things that will help to increase some of the confidence you have in your self, and that will come out to the girls. All girls respond to confidence, but not *********. Just make sure you know the difference. Also talk to them and be interested in the conversation, and also flirt. I'm not going to get into how to flirt if you need help on that to just ask. A question on how to flirt will probably get a lot of answers.
    just be your self and if nobody likes you becos of that then sorey you may end up old %26amp;%26amp; alone. um nah just well maybe um well iidk sorey!





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    Just try to start a conversation about what your doing or her classes and stuff. Have confidence, but don't be corky:)
    try to be yourself dude, and it should work out, try to meet some girls in class
    dont take yourself to serious, loosen up, and maybe lower your standards just a '''little'''' bit...guy just talk to some chick in class and if shes not taken hit her up

    Can someone give advice with my crush on an aquarius girl?

    I know this is a little long, I apologize.. I just need to know what I should do, back off or keep trying.. She is an Aquarius sun, scorpio moon. age 17.





    Alright I don't know what to do with this girl. She is driving me crazy bc I can't figure her out and understand what she wants from me. I feel like she likes me when we are together, but when we aren't together is when the mixed signals come into play. I haven't told her that I have feelings for her..





    It seems like she flirts a lot with me at work (only place we see each other) but when we text each other, it seems to be mixed. She always texts me to see if I am working. But whenever I text her first to talk with her, she is either short or stops replying to me. And I am very distant in contacting her, waiting a week or so. I don't like to annoy people. So I give her space. Well she recently told me she is quiting the job (after changing her mind about it a billion times.) I said I'll miss her. She said ';I'll miss youu but you have my number we'll have to hang out one day ha.';





    So, I waited a week and asked her to hang out on the following day. She said yeah sure. The next day I asked if she still wanted to hang out, but didn't respond. I waited 3 hours and asked one more time, she said that she was asleep but had to ask her mom because she is supposed to be grounded. I said ';alright, it's cool if you can't.'; Well she never got back to me to let me know if she could or not. I haven't heard from her since Monday. So what is going on? Has she lost interest? Should I let her go? Or should I keep trying asking her what is up? And if you need to read what her actions have been towards me, here it is..








    Constant eye contact when we are around each other that shifts between stares and a look where she quickly looks down if walking by me. Caught her once with a little smile as she looked down. (before we started talking)





    Shy and nervous around me before talking and getting to know each other.





    Sometimes walks past me and looks back at me to see if I am looking at her.





    Turns her head to look back at me when I am standing behind her from afar, multiple times.





    Walked out to our cars together and when we spilt to go different ways, I looked back over to her to see if she would look back at me and she did.. was from a distance.





    Sometimes will stand in front of me in a sexy way, pushing her butt out so that I will look at her. She looks back at me when she is doing it.(could be my imagination, but doubt it)





    Once we started talking to each other...Have paused in conversation and stared into each other's eyes for about 4 secs then she smiles and says ';what.';





    Playfully hits me, Says to me ';I just want to hit you.'; Pushes me playfully and when I tease her she says ';I hate you'; with a smile.





    Giggles like crazy when we are together. And sometimes says things that doesn't make any sense when she is in a giggly state.





    If I am walking behind her, she will turn her head and look back at me with a little smile and flips her hair a bit.





    Has Brushed up against me with her chest multiple times. And sometimes will stay there against me for a few secs.





    Stands really close to me.





    Always texts to ask if I am working when she is working.





    Follows me around work. Always asking me to help her with something.





    I was on vacation for a week, and people said she was ';crying'; bc I wasn't there. When I came back she texted to see if I was working that day. I said yes and she said '; me too :) I get to seee youu';





    Ok I forgot to put two important details.. I am a girl (Brother's account).. my sign is virgo sun, aquarius moon.. The fact that I am a girl.. does that change anything? I guess you could say I am bi-curious since I met her.. I don't know her orientation..Can someone give advice with my crush on an aquarius girl?
    She totally likes you. Just tell her you freaking like her. Its obvious shes very shy , which means she must like you alot, and probally doesnt want to fall for you too quickly. I say just tell her how you feel, and i think shes probally wondering if you like her as well, so tell her your feelings and it goes on from there. :) Also the whole not texting you thing, shes probally either nervous , or playing hard to get. oh wait i just read the last part, lmao oh and um by ur descriptions shes totally lesbian than, go for it. Can someone give advice with my crush on an aquarius girl?
    there's no problem about the zodiac signs, it's not a big deal


    are you a superstitious person?
    fist is she by too :) because girls do just smile at eachother :)


    anway she sound like she likes you crush wise :) yay for you!


    umm it is weird how she acts txting hmmm my advise to you is to not give up ask her to hang out again but don't be to pushy.


    and if she refuses you more than 3 times to hang out (diffrent places and time now tho) then give up on her


    good luck :) bye bye xoxo
    dun worry.. i think she is acting okay... just that quite emotionally unstable... you''ll never know if this is the first time she is in love... she might be shy or still cannot set up her mind in whateva she wants to do (the fact that even change decision billions abt whether to quite job). yup. give her somtime and meanwhile keep going... dun give up. i am an aquarius and i normally complete or react stuff better if there's a pushing factor... if you stop, she will too... and u will neva get your answer.





    ermm... btw dun you make sure she is okay with falling in love with a girl?





    if she mind... maybe that explains why rig?





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  • I need some advice with a girl?

    There is someone in my college that I really like. We don't know each other but we are in the same class. How can I start talking to her without being too obvious or freaky. She is a bit shy though. Do you have any good ideas that worked? Thank You in advance.


    I need some advice with a girl?
    Ask her if she would like to be study partners. Get to know each other and go from there.

    Mature question: advice for ';girl on top'; position?

    I've tried it a couple of times, but no sure on how to move correctly (is there a correct way?) and always ends a couple seconds later with my significant other changing position.


    I don't want to hurt my him by moving the wrong way though.





    Any input is appreciated=)Mature question: advice for ';girl on top'; position?
    you cant really move the wrong way exactly.


    up and down is usually the best.


    hold his hands for support to move.or you can lean down and kiss him but keep moving.


    riding backwards is good oo.


    the guy can sese him going inside youu.


    it turns most guys on.





    (he can grab your waist or butt to help you move in any position on top until you understand what he likes)Mature question: advice for ';girl on top'; position?
    One of the fun things about sex is that two people can experiment. Ask him what feels good for him, what does he want to do, what does he want you to do and tell him what you want him to do. Get a book, a sex manual. Experiment. And remember, if you are really into each other, everything can be fun. Girl on top, side to side, whatever. Try everything and enjoy.
    best way to get a good flow going.....have him lay down. grab your hips. and he move his body and pull you in what direction he wants you..then just take over from there.. you move without him pulling you

    How to flirt with women? Im Kinda shy and have a very hard time just walking up to a girl, Tips/advice?

    be yourself. girls can spot phonies. tons of girls like the shy ones, so just hope you can get a nice one instead of a ****. but if you really wanna' flirt, tons of eye contact and lots of little smiles are what really gets us.

    I need girl advice ><?

    This is kinda complicated for me. See, I know this girl, and I really like her. She knows it too, I told her. I got rejected, (in a nice way), but part of the rejection was because my friend liked her too, and she didn't want to hurt anyones feelings. Well, he gave up, and its been a while since the rejection and his defeat. I talk to the girl a lot, and I think we got really close, and I'm wondering if it's time to bing up the offer again. Any advice?I need girl advice %26gt;%26lt;?
    totally go for it before someone else jumps to herr.!I need girl advice %26gt;%26lt;?
    Yeah, it is a bit awkward for a girl to say ';Hey, your friend doesn't like me anymore and you made that offer ages ago so let's go out';. So really, if she is clear that your friend doesn't like her anymore, just bring up a conversation which leads to her and your friend and situation and stuff then ask her. Don't put it on her all of a sudden.
    ok i will be honest with you broter





    if she rejected you is because she does not feel attraction with you.


    ok. i mean





    cuase let's be honest.


    if she would it like you . she would say yes when you proposed her.


    but probably she didn't know what to say or tell you -';no. i don't like you';. so she was nice but at the same time she came up with that.





    u know.





    now let me ask you this questions?





    does she flirt with you.


    does she smiles at you


    does she stares at you.


    does call you on your cell or house.


    does she tries to eat lunch with you


    does she seat close to you everyday?





    if she does this that means that you have to pop up the question again.


    but i will recommend you to keep talking to her.


    be romantic also. ok.


    try to win her heart.


    if you have her email account


    write her a poem


    she knows that you like her.


    so she won't get mad at you.


    but she will suprise that you keep trying.


    just slow down. and do not rush


    keep talk ing to her





    good luck/ hope this ehlp
    How about doing it in a subtle way? Ask her if she wants to see a movie without implying it is a date, so she thinks it is a friendship thing. Then, when the boogie monster jumps out in the movie, she will hop into your arms and then you hold her so she feels safe. Bingo, the bunny is caught.
    Ask her out on a real date and go from there. SLOWLY!!! Youll be fine!!! If you two have gotten close it can always change to a friend hangout type of thing. (if she doesnt what anything serious) Ask her and go from there. SLOWLY!!!! You need to move on it and get your foot back in the door. If you dont, someone else will.





    Why not give her a dozen of her favorate flowers!!! Tie a note asking her to her favorate restaurant or favorate place to go. something fun like that...good luck!!! Just make it fun but an actual date!!!
    If you value your friendship i'd suggest you don't, If she refused you once then its more than likely she will do it again. Which may cause her to be more distant with you.





    Wait it out... see if she asks you.
    I would casually not to scare her off


    you really have nothing to lose especially if your friend is out of the picture


    so I say go for it
    um, if you really want to ease into it.. dont just drop the bomb on her..





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    go screw a cow itll make you feel better. jk. chloroform. cant reject that.
    It is better if u dont bring the issue this time..... Be much close to her. create chance chance to be with her at most closer quarters but u dont proceed.. let her propuse u this time
    go for another
    Ask her again
    just dont give up. =D
    just ask her...
    ask her it is the perfect time!

    Im really hating my life right now because of a girl. Any advice?

    Find another girl to view your life through. OK?Im really hating my life right now because of a girl. Any advice?
    my ex managed to do the same to me all i did was tell her that i don't want to be her friend any more and i just stopped talking to her and began to focus on all the other things in life like my xbox lolIm really hating my life right now because of a girl. Any advice?
    You need to be more specific...who is this girl and what is your relationship with her? Did you like her before and things went bad or is she bothering you. What's going on?
    stop wasting your time on her cos she aint worht it, i did that and almost killed myself, please forget about her and concentrate on something worht your time, cos u jus making her feel important...hope u get that mate

    Emo girl advice hot emo girl advice?

    ok first I am labled emo in my school (proudly labled emo) and theres this hot emo girl she usally wears black with a white hairband blue eyeliner and black hair i like her but am to shy to tell her help!Emo girl advice hot emo girl advice?
    just talk to her...that's all you can doEmo girl advice hot emo girl advice?
    this will work for sure!!! kay... once i was at the movie theater. people label me emo at my school (but they don't know anything) but i'm more of a hardcore scenester. but whatev. anyway this guy hott scene boy walked up to me, dramatically looked me up and down, and said ';dayumm girl, you're looking fierce tonight'; i loved it. and i can't stop thinking about him. best compliment i ever got. expecially because he was random, and i didn't know him. but she will love that. and good luck! it will be a silly way to break the ice. and then compliment her pants, talk about music, and tell her the two of you should kick it sometime. :)
    Just go up to her. If you never take a risk, you'll never know. A rejection is only temporary. Not knowing is forever (as long as you exist and as long as your memory doesn't wipe).





    So go up there and ask her out.
    ';hot emo girl';





    Sorry, isn't that kind of contradicting? -,-








    Just tell her. Nothing wrong with that?
    Say ';Hey, I'm emo, your emo, let's be emo sh*t together';
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  • My 7 year old son got in trouble for holding hands and hugging a little girl at school today. any advice on?

    how i should handle this situation?My 7 year old son got in trouble for holding hands and hugging a little girl at school today. any advice on?
    leave it be,, at least he's not gay.My 7 year old son got in trouble for holding hands and hugging a little girl at school today. any advice on?
    Many schools now say this because they don't want to discriminate between good and bad touching. I say it's a good teaching situation. My daughter's JK school didn't allow it at all and my very peaceful, never-hit-anyone child couldn't understand why she suddenly couldn't hug. My children had always hugged their little friends hello and goodbye on play dates. In SK she went to a different school and they had no problem with hugging. Thought it was nice. Even my son hugged his friends goodbye and they hugged him. Noone batted an eye.


    If he really only hugged and held hands and the school doesn't claim he did anything else then I would definitely tell my son he did nothing wrong but his school has a ';hands off'; policy that he needs to follow when he is at school. I would not worry that his father will not see it as a big deal. It isn't a big deal. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it at the school level but if they did I would casually say that I had always encouraged my children to express affection in an open and healthy way as that is a very good way to raise a child who knows the difference between good and bad touching (those are the ';keywords'; for affection versus sexual abuse touching). Tell them you think it's important to start healthy attitudes in children when they are young.
    Let me just say that this is ludicrous. Children at 7 years old are innocent. Growing up I had a very tough childhood because of a school that reacted to minor things like this with a major attitude (EX: I was sent to a principles office and my mother was called because I took too long taking my snow suit off after recess in the winter).





    Teachers at the younger levels have a way of blowing things out of proportion and while I understand their drive for bringing up a child, there needs to be limits.





    I would recommend handling this issue the same way my parents handled things like this. Sit your child down and explain they did nothing wrong but in life sometimes people (teachers included) have different beliefs and values. Tell your child that they are not to do this again in school because it makes waves (obviously they won't know what ';makes waves'; mean but use your own terms). Unfortunately, this may be a life lesson that your child needs to learn at a young age. I learned a lot of lessons before 14 that most adults do not realize.





    I would then call the school and arrange a meeting with the principal and teacher's involved. In the meeting ask if they have better things to be concerned about then a a little boy being nice to a little girl.





    These kinds of situations make me very mad because I know what I went through as a child. Stand by your child and fight for them against piddly stuff like this. When they are wrong, let them know but when the have to deal with something like this and you're behind them, it makes a bond that I can not describe. I love my parents and would do anything for them because they stood by me when most parents wouldn't.





    Remember that schools are not always right. As far as telling his father, I would. This is not a big deal and the two of you should be united in telling the school that they are out of line. Best of luck!
    It's NOT a big deal - do NOT make it one.


    The school has to implement these rules (that's what they call it) because they don't want things to get ';out of hand.';


    Just let your son know that this kind of behavior isn't allowed at school.


    My son (who is 10) got into trouble because one of his friends (a girl) got an ';A'; on her test and he hugged her and they told him, ';no touching at school!';


    GO to the school and let them know that you have talked with your son and he understands that he can't do this. END OF STORY.


    Just tell your son that the school has RULES and he has to abide by them.
    Schools have become so sensitive about things like this lately and a lot of it has to do with how easily people take things to the extreme lately and they just want to make sure there a** is covered if the other child's parent were to be upset. I would just let your son know that he hasn't done anything wrong but that he can't do that at school. As far as your husband goes he probably won't make a big deal out of it because really it's not. What he did was harmless and has nothing to do with sexual behavior so don't make him feel like he did something horrible..it's just something not acceptable for school i guess.
    Its not a big deal.





    He was holding hands and hugged her...where is the crime? its not like he peaked up her skirt or made out with her.





    Do you think it is a big deal? if not, I would fight it because your son did nothing wrong.
    Thats' cute,lol.





    I'd E-mail or call or any type of communication, and have a thorough explanation ready on why you believe there was no reason to get your son in trouble.
    Tell him that if he can get through the whole school day without physical contact with her then she can come over and do whatever they like in the privacy of his bedroom.
    why would he get in trouble for HUGGING??


    There is nothing sexual about it, it's something that friends do.
    WOW! That is dumb. I would e-mail or call the teacher. Tell dad to let u handle it.
    I have KISSED girls at school when I was 5 and the teachers were happy.
    forget about it

    GIRLS ONLY: need some girl advice?

    I'm shave my legs, arm pits, and my bikini line, it doesn't matter how slow and gentle i shave i get the shaving bumps really bad, I used this stuff that you put on your bikini line and it said it prevented bumps but i still got the bumps really badly, well I talked to my mother and my sister both about it, and they said I probably just have really sensitive skin, (I use disposable razors, and just a cheap kind of shaving cream) can anyone recommend a razor and shaving cream for extremely sensitive skin, i'm not worried about the price.GIRLS ONLY: need some girl advice?
    hey!! i had the same problem i have EXTREMELY sensitive skin! ugh terribl rite? well i got venus embrace and it worked wonders!!!! i have no more razor bumps!!! well just remember on your bikini line dont shave against the grain!!! and your skin is probably irritated rite now so the razor bumps wont go away the first time you shave.. unless you dont have any razor bumps before you shave! so what i would do is wait for the razor bumps you have to go away then shave!!! and the best smelling (and best preformance) shaving cream to me is skintmate!! the one that says sensitivie skin, the new one!!!! amazing and if you want the razor bumps to go away quicker before you shave, get neosporin and put it on them, or the visine eye drops!!! i hope i helped!!(:GIRLS ONLY: need some girl advice?
    They have venus disposable razors that come in a three pack that are the same price as one non disposable but they work the same! %26amp; you can change the heads on them too. I would go with any skintimate shaving cream, I also have sensitive skin and thats what I use! It works wonders! %26amp; its not that expensive!
    wax. Its the best thing ever and last so much longer than shaving. Get it done by a pro tho! I get the bumps too and its just the way your body works. when I get waxed its bumpy for about a day, then totally smooth for 2 weeks.





    P.S try a better razor- such as a 2 or 3 blade ( not a disposable) and sensitive shaving cream- one with aloe,and shave with the hair and not against it.
    Perhaps you should try buying some therapeutic shaving cream. Aveeno is good. I've used it before, it's for sensitive skin, %26amp; is said to help with razor bumps. It looks like this in case you consider it:





    http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/46889/300.jpg





    Hope I helped. (:
    watch t.v. and you will see an advertisement that shows a little pink shaver thingy...you jus rub and it actually comes off. Pain free and it leaves no bumps behind!
    if your not worried about the price you can get them permenently removed by laser
    after shaving grab a cotton pad and put some witch hazel on it helps sooth inflammation then apply a little tea tree oil to prevent razor bumps from appearing
    the gel bars from venus work so good but the gel wears off so u have to replace them fast

    GIRLS ONLY: need some girl advice?

    I'm shave my legs, arm pits, and my bikini line, it doesn't matter how slow and gentle i shave i get the shaving bumps really bad, I used this stuff that you put on your bikini line and it said it prevented bumps but i still got the bumps really badly, well I talked to my mother and my sister both about it, and they said I probably just have really sensitive skin, (I use disposable razors, and just a cheap kind of shaving cream) can anyone recommend a razor and shaving cream for extremely sensitive skin, i'm not worried about the price.GIRLS ONLY: need some girl advice?
    hey!! i had the same problem i have EXTREMELY sensitive skin! ugh terribl rite? well i got venus embrace and it worked wonders!!!! i have no more razor bumps!!! well just remember on your bikini line dont shave against the grain!!! and your skin is probably irritated rite now so the razor bumps wont go away the first time you shave.. unless you dont have any razor bumps before you shave! so what i would do is wait for the razor bumps you have to go away then shave!!! and the best smelling (and best preformance) shaving cream to me is skintmate!! the one that says sensitivie skin, the new one!!!! amazing and if you want the razor bumps to go away quicker before you shave, get neosporin and put it on them, or the visine eye drops!!! i hope i helped!!(:GIRLS ONLY: need some girl advice?
    They have venus disposable razors that come in a three pack that are the same price as one non disposable but they work the same! %26amp; you can change the heads on them too. I would go with any skintimate shaving cream, I also have sensitive skin and thats what I use! It works wonders! %26amp; its not that expensive!
    wax. Its the best thing ever and last so much longer than shaving. Get it done by a pro tho! I get the bumps too and its just the way your body works. when I get waxed its bumpy for about a day, then totally smooth for 2 weeks.





    P.S try a better razor- such as a 2 or 3 blade ( not a disposable) and sensitive shaving cream- one with aloe,and shave with the hair and not against it.
    Perhaps you should try buying some therapeutic shaving cream. Aveeno is good. I've used it before, it's for sensitive skin, %26amp; is said to help with razor bumps. It looks like this in case you consider it:





    http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/46889/300.jpg





    Hope I helped. (:
    watch t.v. and you will see an advertisement that shows a little pink shaver thingy...you jus rub and it actually comes off. Pain free and it leaves no bumps behind!
    if your not worried about the price you can get them permenently removed by laser
    after shaving grab a cotton pad and put some witch hazel on it helps sooth inflammation then apply a little tea tree oil to prevent razor bumps from appearing
    the gel bars from venus work so good but the gel wears off so u have to replace them fast

    I need girl advice about a girl that i like?

    i like her so much but she was a little flirty with me at firstt but now she now just wants be friends and shes not taken and we talk alot together and i need some pointers on how to get her interested just need help i really really like her HELPI need girl advice about a girl that i like?
    just be yourself, make her laugh, and show her that your the one she should like.


    and if that doesnt work, then she just doesnt want to be more then friends and your going to have to accept that.I need girl advice about a girl that i like?
    just be like, he do u wanna hangout, like maybe go see a movie or something, as friends. n then start hanging out more, n then just flirt with her here n there n see how things go
    Honestly keep doing what your doing. Playing the good friend card gets you far in life





    I Hang with girls as friends for a long time and then they ask ME Out





    Just being the friend may take along time but it will be worth it in the long run
    lmao ima guy =D
    well you make the FIRST move


    FLIRT with her


    dont make her do ALL the work


    and there isnt a way to ';get her intereted'; if she isnt leave it alone. at least you guys are friends.
    try to get closer to her but dont take it too fast...start out by hanging out or somthing...then she vary well just might want to be yours...hope this helps...!!!
    you have to watch to see if shes flirting with u. like laughing at things that u say and touching ur arm or somethin. if she is then u can flirt back and see what happens
    Well first you need to make the first move. She's probely waiting on you
    So, she just wants to be friends, so what, calm down. Maybe she doesn't want to date yet.

    Hi, any advice for a girl that wants to lose weight?

    I'm 14 no big money needed diets please! not hzrd either!Hi, any advice for a girl that wants to lose weight?
    walk to school if possible, always take the stairs, do twice as many chores at home as youre supposed to, dont eat fat free foods, they just replace the fat with carbs, and your body still craves the fat, just eat normalHi, any advice for a girl that wants to lose weight?
    Lose 10 pounds in 2 weeks??





    There are some websites on the Internet, which promise you that you are going to lose 10 pounds in every 2 weeks. If you are good in math you will find that keeping these stats in mind, 260 pounds in a year. Losing 260 pounds is the figure, which is unbelievable and unexpected.





    This kind of claims are planned just to cause clients to make impulsive decisions. When you gain weight, did you gained around 50 minds in two months? Certainly not. We gain weight in weight in small parts, which add up to our weight. This keeps on increasing with time.





    I think you get what I mean to say. We normally gain weight in grams like 65 gram per week. With this stat you are going to gain around 7 pounds at the end of year.





    This weight is so slow that you cannot measure it weekly. But in fur years you are going to gain around 28 pounds.





    So how can you expect this weight to go in few days? You are going to lose the way you have gained it. So it will take time to lose weight. So you have to start losing weight systematically. You can lose weight by developing the good eating habits in you and nutritious foods.
    Check out www.ecoquest.com for real!
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    Drink plenty of water. Cut out all junk food and over processed foods. Eat plenty of vegies, fruit and wholegrains. Eat small amounts of lean protein at each meal if you can. For example an egg or 120 grams of lean meat. Try and cut out fatty and sugary foods. Eliminate all fast foods and sweet drinks.





    You could buy a calorie counter book which shouldn't be more than $10. This will tell you the calorie count of the different foods you eat and how many calories a day to lose weight. This is a more exact method if you want to guarantee weight loss but I think the above will work if you stick with it.
    eat a lot of protien, it speeds up your metabolism
    I would say watch your carbs, fat and sugar. Being 14...hmm, I'm not sure. Im 17 and i need 1800 calories a day. Go to www.mypyramid.gov and it will tell you what you need to be healthy.


    I followed it and lost 4 inches in 2 days.
    Workout: Power 90x...go to beachbody.com





    Diet: 7 day cabbage soup diet....should lose 10-15 in a week. Look it up on the internet.





    Weight Watchers Points...works like a charm.





    Xenedrine 8hr NRG diet pills: No side affects, just supresses cravings.





    Buy everything diet, light, zero/no calories, no bread, alcohol, fried food.





    I mixed it up so I wouldn't get bored and lost 60lbs since may. Still losing.
    You should eat a lot of vegetables,fruits and drink lots of water.Take walks in the evening after you finish eating dinner.You could join a gym.
    cut back on sugar, soda, and drink a ton of water. 8 glasses a day. eat less food, be careful to make better food choices like fat free chips, sugar free foods, fruits and vegetables. cooked or uncooked.
    Eat HEALTHY. Fruits. vegetables. Whole grains. raw. Do it. That's why I'm in such good shape.
    Losing weight first starts with being happy with yourself and loving *YOU* on the inside. Try everyday to smile and laugh, LAUGHING is supser helpful. It seems weird but it does! =) Try to follow a 1600 calorie diet.


    It's best to have 5 meals a day that way you need get to hungry because that leads to over eating.


    Here is a couple ideas to help you ge started:


    Breakfast:


    Oatmeal and a piece of wheat toast w/ 2tsp. trans free margarine. -OR- Strawberry Banana Smoothie (In a blender process until smooth, 1 small banana, 1/2 cup strawberries, 1/2 cup fat free milk, 1/2 cup low fat plain yogurt, 2 tsp. honey, and 1 or 2 ice3 cubes. You can have your smoothie with 1 or 2 pieces of whole wheat toast. -OR- An egg on a piece of wheat toast with salsa (make 2 servings) ---If you are still huingry at breakfast have a small piece of fruit.


    Lunch:


    1 cup soup (water based not cream base) and a Cheese and Tomato Sandwich: 2 slices whole wheat bread, 2 slices reduced fat cheese, mustard and sliced tomato. -OR_ instead of the tomato sandwich 2 pieces whole wheat with 2 slices of Turkey and Mustard. -OR- A Lean Cuisine Frozen Meal (These are actually very tasty. The meat is delicious.


    Dinner: 1 piece Chicken Breast with 2 side dishes: 1 cup steamed veggies, 1 sweet potato, 3/4 cup corn, 3/4 cup butternut squash, etc.


    Dessert:


    Light Ice Cream or Frozen Yogurt:


    3/4 cup with no more than 110 calories per 1/2 cup topped with tablespoon chocalate syrup.


    Snacks:


    Steamed Veggies, fruit, any nuts (these are great protein),


    my personal favorite snack is Light and Fit 60 calorie yogurt cup with a 100 calorie Granola Bar. (I cruch up the Granola Bar and put it inside of my yogurt.)


    Also there are alot of great ideas if you go to fast food for example....


    Wendys: Ultimate Chicken Grill Sandwich- 390 calories





    McDonalds:


    Caesar Salad grilled Chicken-220 calories


    Bacon Ranch Salad w/grilled chicken 260 calories


    Salad Dressing: Vinaigrette: 40 calories


    Salad Dressing: Italian : 60 calories


    Fruit and yogurt Parfait: 160 calories


    Chicken McNuggets: (4) 170 cal. (6) 250 cal. (10) 420 cal.


    (if you have sauce stay away from Ranch)





    KFC:


    Original Recipe Chicken Sandwich: (no sauce) 320 calories


    Honey BBQ Sandwich: 300 calories


    Snacker: 320 calories


    Honey BBQ Snacker: 220 calories


    Small Mac and Cheese: 180 calories


    Small Potato Salad: 180 calories


    Small Potatoes and Gravy: 130 calories


    Roasted BLT salad: 210 calories


    TenderRoast Filet Meal: 360 calories


    Lil Bucket Strawberry ShortCake: 200 calories





    Burger King:


    Chicken Whopper no mayo: 410 calories





    Jack N The Box:


    Southwest Chicken Pita:230 calories


    Chicken Fajita Pita: 300 calories


    Beef Taco: 160 calories


    Chipotle Chicken Sandwich: 390 calories


    Bacon Chicken Sandwich: 440 calories





    Carls Jr:


    Charbroiled Chicken Sandwich: 370 calories





    Taco Bell:


    Nacho Chicken Gordita: 270 calories


    Nacho Steak Gordita: 270 calories


    Taco: 170 calories





    Subway :(THE BEST CHOICE)


    You can have any of the under 6 grams of fat sandwiches! They're delicious just No MAyo. My favorite is Sweet Onion Chicken Teriyaki. I like to get a foot long and have a 6' for lunch and a 6' for dinner.





    Also make sure you do 30 minutes of excercise 5 days a week. I like to walk to the store and back instead of drive =)





    This was just some ideas to help you on your way.





    Also its great to drink one glass of water before eating. Water is very important!











    GOOD LUCK!!!
    Change your diet and exercise.

    GIRL ADVICE!!!!!!!!! is there hope for nicer guys?

    I've notticed in school that girls mostly only give jerks, douchbags, and assholes a chance. How come the nicer more decent guys are not given a chance. If anything they'll be treated better by them. Are girls that shallow that they prefer jerks and asshole guys? this is beginning to dissapoint me, do girls like being treated like dirt by other guys. What do more decent nicer guys have to do to be liked more my them? What do nice guys have to do to get them interested?GIRL ADVICE!!!!!!!!! is there hope for nicer guys?
    Girls are complicated, as you and I both know. But there is an answer for everything. The reason why girls tend to go for guys that act worse towards them is actually common sense believe it or not. Just like guys, girls like competition and get more satisfaction from things if they have work for them, rather than if they are just handed them, after they get them. Its human nature, and this is why jerks tend to get the girls. For example if you hold a ball of string above a cat, just above its reach, it will keep trying very hard to get it, but once you put that ball on the ground the cat will start to get bored of it and eventually leave. This is why nice guys don't get very many chances with girls, because the girls get bored of them. I know it seems weird, but its true. Now I'm not saying that nice guys won't get chances, but once they start to go out with a girl, and the girl notices how nice they are to them all of the time, the girl will get bored and leave them, or worse she will cheat. This is the same with us man. If you have a girl who does everything for you and shes always complimenting you and being nice to you, you WILL start to get bored of her believe it or not. This is why you shouldn't be too nice to girls, now don't be an asshole, but don't be nice either. You have to find that happy medium where you are kinda nice, but at the same time you are sort of pushing her away. Its complicated, but I'm telling you if you try it, you WILL see a difference in the way that girls respond to you. Trust me.


    Well anyway I hope this helps man.


    Good LuckGIRL ADVICE!!!!!!!!! is there hope for nicer guys?
    There are girls that like great guys. Chances are if you're a decent guy though, it'll be the more shy girls that will like you. And you'll have to make the first move. But just a small tip, most nice girls that are interested in decent guys prefer them not to cuss. Which is mostly why they don't go for the jerks.
    You have to be yourself. I'm a girl and can not STAND it when my friends go out with those types because I'm always the one who said '; Dump his @ss'; and the one who has to fix them when he breaks up with her brutally. Girls like to date what they think are 'bad boys'. But assholes definatly aren't that type. There is hoipe for nice guys! When you have chicks like me who like a gentlemen and not a douchbag. Keep looking there are sensible chicks out there.
    not all girls are like that. they are just attracted to how independent and ';different'; these guys are. they like having a challenge because they think they will be the one that can change this guy. but they soon realize that its just not meant to be, and then start going for the nice guys.


    as a nice guy, dont be a doormat. dont do whatever she wants. you have a mind of your own. be a gentleman and nice, but don't overdo it. ur not her slave. girls usually dismiss nice guys as boring and spineless, so you want to change their perception of you and be the complete opposite.


    just wait, girls will figure out that nice guys are better for them.
    THIS IS THE BIG MYSTERY OF HIGH SCHOOL, HONEY.


    YOU'LL FIND THAT THE EXTERIOR OF THE BOOK IS OFTEN MORE STUDIED THAN THE ACTUAL BOOK ITSELF.


    YOU KNOW WHO'S NICE AND WHO'S A PLAIN JERK.


    KARMA GETS THE MAN WHO DESERVES WHAT HE'S DONE.


    WHICH IS EVERYONE.


    KARMA KNOWS WHEN BEAUTY AND BRONZE HAS ITS PLACE %26amp; IT ALSO KNOWS WHEN INTELLIGENCE AND WELL MANORED MEN HAVE ITS PLACE.


    THE WORLD WILL CORRESPOND WITH THIS WHEN EVERYONE SEES BEYOND THE MOMENT AND INTO THE WONDERS OF TOMORROW OR PAST THE MOMENT.
    Your Miss. Right will come.


    Just be patient.


    Honestly for me being a girl I only date nice guys not jerks, jocks only polite guys. Don't waste your time getting those girls who date those guys to be with you. You don't deserve a shallow girl like that. The time will come.
    Well I mean in school i go for the nice guys i can't stand jerks,etc. But some girls honestly care about the looks,the guys social status,how he treats her when their alone. But I mean hang in there there is someone out there perfect and waiting just for you!
    girls like different types of guys





    just think of it like this stupid girls go for stupid guys





    and yes they are shallow





    i go for cute guys cause i think woowwww their soooo adorable then they end up cheating on me like every other amazingly hot guy





    but theres some cute nice guys also :]





    just depends i guess
    I like nicer guys but I've noticed that too. Even my friends go for jerks. Nice guys just have to wait until they find the right girl. I am a nice girl just waiting to find the right guy. The cards work both ways I guess.....
    lol someone else just asked this question!!!





    I think as girls get older and mature then they go for other things like unjerkish things not just thrills that jerks just want...
    Yes I am nice and many girls wanna date me. But I love some who doesn't like me more than as a friend.
    i don't date jerks, i look for sweet, caring guys
    They seem funner.
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  • Girl advice women or dueds please anser this?

    so there;s this hot chick that i like so asked her out to the movies but she said no cus she had to go on a trip to arizona so where do i go from there i need help majorlyGirl advice women or dueds please anser this?
    fly to arizona and take her to the movies thereGirl advice women or dueds please anser this?
    Wait till she's back. If she says no again for whatever reason, let her be the one to ask. Otherwise, she might not be interested. Dunno though.
    just ask her again when she gets back...text her while shes there and ask her how the trips going (only if u know her well). If she sais no again i would wait for her to ask you to hangout.
    well dude when she gets back ask ger out again to the movies or whereever you noe......dont be CHICKEN lol............

    I need girl advice... particuraly from a girl ...?

    theres a girl i likeand i wanted to know any tips on getting her to like me...





    and should i talk to her alotI need girl advice... particuraly from a girl ...?
    Tips To get a girl to Like You Tip#1: Dress nicely. Maybe a white dress shirt with jeans. Tip #2: Be nice to her and if she has a lot of books offer to carry them. Tip #3: Compliment her. '; Hey I like your top'; jeans ect. Tip #4: Yes you should talk to her but not in a stalker kind of way. And don't talk about something boring or anything.I need girl advice... particuraly from a girl ...?
    Be sweet be respectful be funny











    there ya go
    don't talk to much!! that's a bad thing, try to be really cool towards her but never ever mean or disrespectful in ANY sort of way!! girls love a guy that's really sweet and makes an effort to get them know them a little bit, but every once in a while, instead of having a whole conversation with her, just stop by, say hi, and say you have something to do, so you seem just a little bit hard to get, but don't do this very often.
    yes yes yes


    talk a lot but dont be pushy cuz shed never know that u liked her if you just sat there when u had the oppurtunity


    flirt with her tease her like if your talking about gym or something be like ';i bet ud beat all the boys in that huh?'; like cute stuff like that also


    u could tell her friend that u kinda like her without having to actually tell her its less official and embarrassing


    %26amp;%26amp; be complimentary i like it when guys notice things that i dont tell her that you like the way she did her hair dont say ';your hair looks beautiful just something suttle like...your hair looks good today..ha and smilee =]]


    hope this helps!!!

    I am a teen and i need advice on the best way to ask out a girl that i like.?

    I like a certain girl at the high school i go to and I need a good way to ask her out in general not on a specific date. She is currently my friend but i want to know if it could be anything else but if she rejects me i know it will be awkward to talk to each other after that. Please help me in anyway you can.I am a teen and i need advice on the best way to ask out a girl that i like.?
    ';Will you be my girlfriend?';


    ';Will you go out with me?';


    ';We should hang out sometime.';





    It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. If she rejects you, act like nothing happened, and continue to be friends.I am a teen and i need advice on the best way to ask out a girl that i like.?
    ok, i'm not sure if this will help u but i'm kinda new at dating...


    i just recently broke up with my first bf the day b4 valen.....w8, i'm supposed to be answering ur question, my bad, ok....uhhh


    for me, the key is just be yourself


    then ask the question ';Are you doing anything on (insert day wanted here) ex. Friday?'; then if she says something like ';Oh, nothing really.';


    go ahead and ask ';Um, would you like to hang out on Friday? Do you want to do anything specific?';


    there.. i think you can handle it from there


    if it doesn't work, she'll probably say ';Um, I don't really feel about you that way. Sorry.';


    now say ';Its not a date or anything, its just us friends hanging out you know.'; -say everything calmly, that would probably help


    if she goes %26amp; ';hangs out'; with you, both of you can probably realize ur feelings 4 each other...so on %26amp; so forth...blah blah blah... u get d picture, right?


    ok, so i hope i helped you out even a little bit. if not, so sorry to have wasted your time


    oh, yeah sorry for giving you the longest reply ever...lol


    hope it works out for you!!
    I want to tell that first make her believe that you love her this could take some time. After some days you may notice some change in her then ask her to go out on date. Thats all I could help on this for more help ask Camila B.
    I think you should just ask, if she's already your friend you've got a good shot! Plus, the awkwardness will go away eventually

    Girl advice please! Please? PLEASE!!!!! Preferablly between 12 and 15.?

    I need to know everything to do on a date. What food you like, what songs you like, what drinks you like, everything.Girl advice please! Please? PLEASE!!!!! Preferablly between 12 and 15.?
    italian or carribean is cool. mexican is bad in general, and chinese has a weird aftertaste if ur going 2 kiss her. so does chocolate... and on a first date don't do a formal restaurant.


    music depends on the girl, if she likes rock u could do ';everlong'; or ';anna molly'; or something by nickelback, like ';if everyone cared';. if not ';i'll be,'; ';collide'; are good. ';hey there delilah'; by the plain white ts if ur not sure.Girl advice please! Please? PLEASE!!!!! Preferablly between 12 and 15.?
    noooo just go with it dont try to match with herr, justtt be yurself and she will be herself
    girls like to just go to a movie, or even just hang out, my first date was renting a movie and buying popcorn and eating it at his house, it was fun, shell be happy just to spend time with you, dont over think it
    Where are you going?
    ummm if it was me id want you to ask me yourself
    Don't do that! Girls will think it's creepy. Just be yourself when you're on the date. There find out what she likes and talk to her.

    Talking to a girl advice?

    There is this girl I sit close to, and I'd really like to get to know her. However, she always talks to her friend after class and I don't like to be rude and interupt people. Would it be a good idea for me to write a note like ';I think you're an interesting person and I was wondering if you'd maybe want to chat sometime?'; Or what should I do?Talking to a girl advice?
    dont write a note


    just wait for a break in the conversation


    dont be pushyTalking to a girl advice?
    Writing a note definitely isn't the way to impress her. The note says ';I'm too afraid of rejection, and I have no backbone';.





    Instead, try being very polite and cheerful to her everytime you see her. Dress respectably on a regular basis, and be well groomed. Start smiling sincerely with bright eyes looking right at her and saying hello to her with an openly joyful spirit that says ';I'm happy to see you';. Ask her only something simple like ';how's it going?';, and listen. Try asking a single simple follow-on question to her answer, but don't try too hard to ';have a conversation';. Do this every day for a while and see if she starts responding with the same bright smile looking right at you with a twinkle in her eyes. If she does, start asking more questions, simple ones, to learn more about her in an effort to find something in common. Once you've found a common interest, you can easily start to talk with her more. Don't worry about being rude or interrupting, because if you start with a sincere smile every day, she'll eventually start taking a moment or two to smile back and give you the opportunity you're looking for.





    Talking with friends is easier when you establish common ground. It simply starts with establishing the fact that ';I'm a nice person and I could be a good friend if you'd like one';. If she's interested, she'll let you know the same thing through her bright smile back at you.

    Periods...Do you have any advice for a girl who is just starting?

    I just want some advice on how to survive those cramps, PMS, and all those extra things that we women get durring that time of the month. Please help. Its really hard to talk about this with your friends who are girls/ your mom. I would like some helpful advice. This means no boys, for they don't eperiance this at all. If they did this would be a messed up world.Periods...Do you have any advice for a girl who is just starting?
    cramp survival...ibuprophin, ive tried many different things n that works best for me. my mom suggested taking aspirin just before and during ur cramps because it thins ur blood, and a lot of women get blood clots, which r quite uncomfortable :( the aspirin is supposed to keep it from clotting as much. aspirin doesnt make the pain go away for me though, so i totally love ibuprophin aka advil, but get whatever the store brand is, its just as good. speaking of just as good, i always buy the store brand tampons, the big names cost twice as much and do the same thing! as far as pads go, i always buy them with wings, and i have to say that overnight pads r a great invention. i have a full arsenal of pads n tampons so i dont have to buy them often. u will find ur favorite combo of protections, but i recommend having a long heavy absorbancy pad, an overnight heavy pad, some kind of thin or ultra thin pad, regular tampons, regular panty liners, and if u wear thong underwear they make thong panty liners, which i just love cuz u feel like ur not even on ur period, and they give u back ur last couple days that u r not quite done but u r not really on ur period, so u feel normal again. stay away from the scented pads, tampons or whatever...the perfumes are irritating to that sensitive skin.


    i get strong food cravings, ever since my very first period. over the years it has become a craving for salty food, which adds to the bloating, but, whatever, i just eat a lot of olives, pickles, chips n stuff, n then just deal with the bloating lol. ooooh and chocolate is wonderful any time of the month. avoiding caffeine b4 ur period is supposed to reduce cramps, but if u pair acetominophen (tylenol) with caffeine it makes it work better. weird. i get kinda farty right b4 mine, but i havent figured out anything for that yet lol. maybe beano? idk...ummmmmm... what else...oh, yeah, if u notice u get really short tempered or u think everyone around u is an a**hole, or u just wanna cry for no reason, just remind urself that u will b back to normal in no time. in the meantime, watch ';roman holiday'; with audrey hepburn and have a good cry with a friend :) lol, i hope all my ramblings help!Periods...Do you have any advice for a girl who is just starting?
    Take midol for cramps it really helps. Drink plenty of water. Also buy yorself thermacare pain relief heat wraps. They provide muscle relaxation and they have all sizes from s-xl. Also doing walking or moderate exercise helps not just laying down,
    Welcome to womanhood! In the beginning it is very common for your cycles to be irregular. Always carry a pad handy and whenever you feel something warm dripping from your vagina go to the ladies room, it might be your period. As far as painful periods sometimes you get them and sometimes not. Motrin is excellent from cramps but take it with food. While you are menstruating do not consume citrus because it cuts your menstrual flow and this will be un-natural. I am going to recommend you two books to have and read so that you can build a relationship w/your body. (this is knowing your body).


    Books:


    It's Your Body by Niels Lauersen, M.D. and Steven Whitney.





    Unmasking PMS The Complete Medical Treatment Plan by Joseph Martorano, M.D., Maureen Morgan, C.S.W., R.N., with William Fryer.


    In the event your local bookstore does not have them ask them to order the books for you. Take care!
    Always carry a pad/tampon with you, whichever you prefer. And always carry Midol or some other pain reliever! Excercising also helps some people get rid of cramps
    You should always carry around a pad with you, incase you or a friend needs one. When you start getting craps, eat a banana. Sometimes walking might also help.
    You shouldn't be embrassed to talk to your mom about this you don't think she goes through the same thing that's where your should to get your advice from not on here.
    use pads to strat with


    the pain is bad enough





    tell your mom so that she can get you comfy pads. Drink lots of water and don't do any excersizes that are too physical
    well i suggest you to take some asperin for the cramps that always works for me... and keep tampons jik you want to go swimming durring your period ... to tell you the truth pads feel weird and tamponds dont feel like anything if you put it in right.


    well good luck;)


    tabi
    This might sound weird but trust me it works. A week before your period eat apples and plenty of raw cabbage. Roughage work really well to help against cramps. Me and my sister have been doing that for years and trust me it works.





    Also try not to do such my heavy exercises just before your period. Excessive exercise can delay your period and/or make it painful
    Just dont sleep your cramps away because you will wake up and be worse! So buy some midol and keep it in a safe place for whenever you need them. Or you can ask your family doctor for a prescription for your cramps if they get to bad to the point where nothing works.


    Good luck!


    %26amp; make sure not to sleep with tampons in. Always use pads for night time.
    to start with all women do not experience the same symptoms some may have none while others can experience symptoms severe enough to literally interrupt they daily lives, you are not detailed in your symptoms so try midol, tylenol, panadol or some other similar product for cramps, also keep plenty of chocolate bars (your favorite kind) seems to help to!
    Lots of water and cut the salt intake about a week before you start. Stay active and take tylenol for cramps. Your diet can play a huge roll in how bad you period gets.
    advil is the only off the counter medicine that stops cramps.
    Well, when you first start your period, it's normal for it to be abnormal. It can have gaps from 3 weeks to even a year before you have another. A good thing to help you get through it is my favorite, iBuprophine(spelling?). It's just a pain releiver that cures everything.
    1. Tampons are your best friends- sooo much better than pads........It feels like nothing at all you can almost for get you have it!





    2. When you think its finished dont be so quick to stop using tam/pads...it always creeps up on you and you can have an embarrassing time hiding the stains! ...there is always that last little bit that comes way to late!!!





    3. Cramps can be bad but always carry some painkillers, nothing to strong....,..and it would pay to always have sometam/pad supplies with you at all times





    4. Dont worry about PMS some women dont even get it...just depends on the induvidual....besides its everyone around you that has to deal with it %26lt;Hahahahaha%26gt;





    5. If you can go on the pill it can help regulate your preiods so you will know exactly when you are going to get it and when it will finish


    %26lt;speak with your doctor an see if these are right for you....%26gt;
    I had the same problem - I coulnd't really talk to my mom.


    But honestly, it's better if you do.


    Always have a pad with you, just in case.


    And tampons are the best! deff a girl's best friend haha.


    Use Playtex Sport. They are strong enough for the heavy days and you can't even feel them. And use Playtex for just the light ones.


    Also getting up and moving actually helps it when you have cramps. It's worse if you sit there and wait through it. Eaqt a banana or chocolate, they always make you feel better =]
    First RELAX!!! I would recomend using Midol for cramps, they only take about 4 or 5 minutes to work!!! Also, I use tampons, but if you are not ready for them, just use pads. If you use pads, make sure you check them every 2 or 3 hours. You will be used to having a period soon, and it won`t be such a shock!!!
    My favortie pads are the ALWAYS(the yellow ones with wings). They are comfortable and the wings help keep it in place. For the cramps, take midol, or if you don't like taking medicine you can always put a warm hand towel on your tummy, the heat dulls the pain.
    use tampons and consult doctor to advise you appropriate


    pain killer you may use.
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