Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need girl advice quick?

I usually get off to JC Penny catalogs and I saw this one woman that looks JUST LIKE my friends mom. And I've always wanted to bone a mature woman. Any advice? I doesnt afraid of anything really, but I really want to get inside that wrinkly old bag. Any advice? I like really little little girls too but not dark ones.I need girl advice quick?
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  • I need girl advice, please help?

    I have been friends with this extremely beautiful girl for about 4 years now, but i want to have intense sex with her so badly and make undying love to her, so how can i get her into bed?I need girl advice, please help?
    make out with her. then go with lots and lots of foreplay.I need girl advice, please help?
    Well I wont tell you how to get a woman into bed, because women are not pieces of meat you can just work your intense sexual animal urges out on. If however you do genuinely like her, then being her friend has been a good start to furthering your relationship, I would be open and honest and tell her that your feelings for her have changed and that you have fallen in love with her, be a gentleman and thoughtful and be prepared for rejection but the best way is be open, talk and show her that its more than sex
    why don't you start out with telling her you love her? No offense but if a guy wanted ';to have intense sex'; that would make me SO mad. It makes me kinda upset that that's how you think. You need to start with telling her and getting to know her as a person rather than a sex goddess. As you become closer and closer she may decide that you are worth the ';intense sex';, but untill then, be patient. Patients is the best thing a guy can give a girl.
    hahaha, oh Travis. There is always ONE end of a friendship that wants something more, and you have proved that again.





    Anyways, you need to get her to be your g/f first. You don't want to ruin your friendship because you have a heated passion for her! haha. make your move...tell her the truth and how you feel.
    'getting someone in to bed' is seriously the wrong attitude towards that.


    if you really love her and she really loves you, it shouldnt be a matter of 'getting her in to bed', you should talk about it and both agree to it before you go any further.
    You need to date her start with first base and work your way up. You can't just expect a friend of 4 years jump in bed with you. You have to let her know you find her attractive you like her and if she would date you and go from there.
    just ask her 'do you want to have intense sex and make undying love to me? and then see what happens. u will either lose her as a friend or you will get yourself a gf. try it. u definately a horny fella.
    WOMEN ARE NOT TO BE PLAYED WITH LIKE THAT.


    Sex is for REAL relationships, if a one night stand is what you want, go pay a whore. That's just gross.
    ... wow. that is INTENSELY shallow. You have been friends for four years, why would you want to mess up your relationship. Why don't you try DATING first.
    Dont start out with sex, go with a date, then a kiss, than make out and so on and so forth
    Make sure she already knows how you feel about her, and then get her into your room. Make out for a bit, and then... the rest, you decide!
    earn her trust that's all i gotta say and if you're wanting to just get in her panties...well good luck coz if you're using her she's not going to forgive you
    hahahahaa intense sex?
    Close your eyes and just use your imaginations.
    that's not a good start but, take her out maybe...? come on man you can't just wish it happen lol
    1. thats way way way to much for just now . 2. start out with a kiss
    Have you asked her?


    That would be ';Plan A';


    If that doesn't work, there is no ';Plan B';. Just get over it.
    That is just weird.
    dude jus mac her first then see were it leads
    ew... that's ***** nasty you dog
    get her drunk and see if she'll do it with you
    show up naked to her house?
    ew u dog

    ( guys or girls advice) i'm a girl and need some advice with this problem !?

    how do you know if one of your dude friends likes you ? because i like one of mine and im not sure if hes the same way or not and i dont want to rush and tell him it wouldnt exactly be rushing we have been friends for a few years!( guys or girls advice) i'm a girl and need some advice with this problem !?
    first off he wud srt communicatn mre witchu and spend mre tme u r gonna kno the change wen u c it cuz i did the sme thng he may strt wantng to go out places wth u and telling u certan thngz( guys or girls advice) i'm a girl and need some advice with this problem !?
    If it is anything more than just hanging out and joking around, then it is more. Does he ever ask you personal stuff or offer to help you do things, other than just hanging out on the weekends. If so, he likes you.

    Real girl advice i think im ganna lose it!!!?

    evertime i see her i get well horny and i studder when i talk. and one time i had my arms wrapped around her withought knowing it she had to tell me. and we were watching a movie and she sat inbetween my legs which drove me insane. it didnt help that she fell asleep and laid back against me. shes beautiful.kind,smart everything a guy could want. i never felt this way before. weve been freinds forever. and she has no other freinds.Real girl advice i think im ganna lose it!!!?
    ok, so whats the problem...?Real girl advice i think im ganna lose it!!!?
    Sounds to me that she likes you also if she is that comfortable to fall asleep up against you.





    I would just tell her that you really like her and would like to take this a step further.





    See what she says the worse could be no and you all remain friends.
    dont think about her that way treat her with repect and mybe in time She'll notice you

    Need girl advice for my problem?

    Im really liking this girl, but it seems im chasing after her, is there anything i could do or say to turn the tablesNeed girl advice for my problem?
    Helping u with this problem would be so much better if i know the girl more, but since i dont im just going to give some basic advice.





    - She may like the chase


    - She may not like doing the chase


    - She likes playing games


    - Maybe she doesn't even know ur chasing her...





    First Suggestion: If she likes the chase then u cant really do anything about her chasing u...





    Second Suggestion: If she doesnt like doing the chase, then again...u cant really do anything about it...





    Third Suggestion: If she likes games, maybe u should minimize the chasing to make her think ';whats going on, hes stopped'; and maybe she'll chase a little after u





    Fourth Suggestion: If she doesn't know ur chasing her, well obviously people are going to tell u to chase harder. But if u think u've chased a good amount then maybe u should do a more noticable approach.





    Anything u can say to her to make her chase u? Seem more mysterious, it will make her want to know what ur thinking





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    Email: bratzgirl9505@aim.comNeed girl advice for my problem?
    just be nice but don't try to hard
    Try this:





    Instead of calling/texting her, wait for her to call/text you. The small things will determine whether or not she's REALLY interested. OR just ask her... Tell her you feel like she's not really chasing you back and that if she's not into you, you'll stop.





    Good luck!!


    (Best Answer me?)
    yes, stop chasing after her.
    does she give you the time of day? make sure that ur not chasing tail that ull never get


    if she pays attention to you even a little bit u may get a chance...but dont waste ur time on her if she isnt...and maybe thats what she needs to see from u to turn her on. dont act like u care so much, if uve chased after her for a while maybe its time to give up and take a break, pretend like u dont care, honeslty its like a game, u gotta play it its all mind games haha


    and if she seems to like u then woo her, make her feel special, make her feel like shes the only one ur interested in and that ud do anythng for her, make her feel like a queen
    Pick up table


    Rotate it 180 degrees





    congrats you have turned the table.
    Talk to her.
    Have you tried not talking to her for a week or so? If you stop paying attention to her for awhile and then she contacts you, you know she likes you back. But if she doesn't try to contact you, she doesn't care.
    If you stop chasing her, she will notice. And then she will start obsessing over why you stopped chasing her. And then the tables are turned. Trust me.
    Well you should flirt with her duh!!!!!!!! Maybe drop little notes to her like hey do u hav a bf? Or your hair is really pretty today did u do something different with it today hen gradually work ur way up to asking her out. It also matters on you age if u told us ur grade it would b easier to help you.
    well all you need to do is get her alone and tell her how you fell and be a man and just talk to her!!!!!

    Who wants to chat on instant message me to give me some girl advice??

    its small i thing i want to talk about and maybe i could get some advice? im in my mid 20s anyone that could help me msg me! .my sn should be available on my profile! sN ralphjones43Who wants to chat on instant message me to give me some girl advice??
    I'll try...Who wants to chat on instant message me to give me some girl advice??
    ok
    uhh...ur not online! I tried to tty but ur offline!

    What are good ways to tease your boy friend?(guys and girls advice welcome)?

    so i need good ways to sexually tease by boy friend any tips??What are good ways to tease your boy friend?(guys and girls advice welcome)?
    My gf does this to me and it makes me


    go crazy.. lol..


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    When we're standing still i'll usually stand behind her


    and wrap my arms around her waist...


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    While i'm doing that sometimes


    she'll grind her butt into my crotch


    and yea,, i go..


    *mentally*


    ARRHGHGHGHGHGHGHGHGHGHG!!!!!


    .


    lol


    What are good ways to tease your boy friend?(guys and girls advice welcome)?
    Ahhahaha! thats what i do too, drives him wild XD

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    i sexually tease my bf by drinking water (it looks like im giving a bj) but i would never do that im not that kinda girl but i saw it give him a ***** once it was kinda weird haha





    but it also works if you touch there forearms or upper legs (not around there ';area'; thats just slutty)
    show up at his house wearing a big coat then when you get to his room take it off and surprise him by wearing a lil sexy costume and give him a show. ahaha
    Make him want more when you kiss him, and put your hands all over his body, be very persuasive, but don't give him what he wants....till later :)
    grab his crotch and say something dirty while your doing it
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  • Should I make a move?*need guys perspective&girl advice*?

    Ive been seeing this guy around school. I know he has noticed me and looked over at me before. He has also made it obvious that he makes excuses to get near or around me.


    How can i make a move on him tomorrow?


    Its the last day before spring break, and i really want to make a move then.


    Get him number too?


    =P


    HAHAHHA


    Any good suggestions?Should I make a move?*need guys perspective%26amp;girl advice*?
    hes probably just shy and thats why he hasnt talked yet.





    you should go up to him and say ';hey can i have your number so we can keep in touch over spring break.';





    or you could write him a not and break the ice a little then ask his number. it'll be a cute little shocker for him

    Fashion advice please for curvy teenage girl and summer wear?

    the girl in question has chunky legs, has worn skirts with opaque tights and shortish skirts all winter, what is she gonna wear in the better weather?Her look suits her, as she has youth on her side, but her legs are a bit too big to bare with the short skirt/dress thing of summer.Fashion advice please for curvy teenage girl and summer wear?
    Maybe she should try to diet. However, wide leg trousers are again in fashion, these could be an option. Not being rude, have had same problem all my life. Feel good in yourself and wear what you feel comfortable in.Fashion advice please for curvy teenage girl and summer wear?
    big legs are always better covered up with a nice pair of jeans


    but must be worn with a nice flattering top something sexy and feminine so that she feels great
    how tall?? If not too tall, then stick to HEELS with everyting. but best bet is bootleg jeans with heels, and tunic length tops
    wear some capris and call it a day
    Maxi dresses are great for summer. There are loads around. Try





    http://designerhighstreet.com/SpringSumm鈥?/a>
    It sounds like you used a translator.
    Okay, never ever wear opaque tights and skirts, yucky! Anyways, you sound cool. Are you tan? Tan legs look slimmer. (I'm like the palest person, ever. Ugh) If you are uncomfortable with your arms, i.e. flabbiness, don't go sleeveless, short sleeve is best. Wear bermuda shorts, because they don't involve exposing your thighs. Plus, they're cute. Go for a darker denim, which is also more slimming. Don't wear anything really tight. Wear loose fitting things. After all, it will be summer. I wish you good luck, dear. Peace. %26lt;3
    wide calf length cotton trousers, pumps, and a nice top. white for the trousers, prob be best for summer. Different tops to change the look.

    Hey im a guy and i need some girl advice. what should i wear to homecoming?

    Well, a suit obviously.





    If you're short, however, try and find a really sleek pair of black jeans and pair it with a blazer and button-up.





    If you give me a price range, I'll help you find a suit.Hey im a guy and i need some girl advice. what should i wear to homecoming?
    not skinny leg jeans but dark straight legs, with a nice shirt and vest





    heres what i came up with





    http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>


    these are good because they reant too tight, but if you actually like tight jeans which i personally do heres a nice pair


    http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>





    now for the shirt


    http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>


    something simple so it doesnt clash with the vest





    http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>





    and nike dunks to dress it down abit


    http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/cat鈥?/a>


    Hey im a guy and i need some girl advice. what should i wear to homecoming?
    a pretty pink dress?

    Please help me out, I need advice about when to ask this girl out?

    I met her on myspace today, and we talked for a little bit online. shes really cute. So she called me the same day, and we talked for 4 hours. We talked about our interest, and just random stuff. She said she really is starting to like me. i felt a strong connection with her. I know it is only the first day, but if this continues, when would be the appropriate or reasonable time to ask her out?


    A week, a couple weeks, month?Please help me out, I need advice about when to ask this girl out?
    i have the same problem all the time. i always talk to new people i dont know online and talk forever. i had this happen to me yesterday. if you really like her then give it sometime to see if it could really work and if the connection lasts. probably a couple weeks. usually she will act like she wants you to.and flirt.





    if you wanna talk just add me//email me.





    help me! http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/25BCXLBFJOGE鈥?/a>Please help me out, I need advice about when to ask this girl out?
    take it slow


    hang out with her in person get to know her





    answer mine:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArpFuXywGvAsOAAW8oBe3tfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090419193115AACsWFs
    a week mayb two. take it slow you don't even kno her doood

    Any advice for a pageant girl getting back into the game?

    I'm doing a pageant in November and haven't done one since I was 14 (I'm 19 - going on 20). Any diet/ workout/ makeup/ interview/ outfits/ etc! advice? I am 5'1 (short I know) and weigh 122 pounds. I would like to realistically get down to 115 (the norm for my height), but 110 would be great.Any advice for a pageant girl getting back into the game?
    coming from a long line of pageant winners, I feel that I may be qualified to answer your question





    For makeup/ interview consider getting a coach who can spend one on one time helping w/ these areas





    For body/ weight loss, reduce your calories (do not eat less than 1200) do 1 hour (at least) of vigorous cardio 4-7 days/wk .. and 2 days before your pageant cut out all carbs (eat only lean protein and unsat fats) so you won't look bloated in the swim suit portion





    Good luck

    Follow up on the girl advice , confusing?!?

    ok so went ahead and texted her . she used the exact words oh ok , so then i spilled a little on how i feel and she says i know joe i should of warned u im a mess ball. so im like WTF. and then she asks what im doing today and wants to have a normal conversation with me like we never talked about my status. should i keep talking or just stop. seems pretty useless to meFollow up on the girl advice , confusing?!?
    Have a normal conversation with her. She is probably not into you.
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  • Hey girls is there a way we can make contact through yahoo i need girl advice?

    be coolHey girls is there a way we can make contact through yahoo i need girl advice?
    my email is ktkdy65@yahoo.com ask away!Hey girls is there a way we can make contact through yahoo i need girl advice?
    then edit ur question dude!
    you're just looking to score some sex chat. maybe send a dirty picture.
    Post your Question here maybe we can help you??


    Good Luck!!
    If you really want to look at the screen name and put @yahoo.com on it (most the time it works)
    no


    bye bye
    I can try and answer your question
    It dpends what advice you're after.... can you edit your question and tell us more? That way you might get the advice you're looking for on here.
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    Girl Advice???? What do girls look for in guys???

    people say girls are picky well are they???? i wanna kno wat girls really like in guys??? do girls choose body type like if there skinny they would go out wid them and if there fat they wouldnt the would just make fun of them. do they look at the looks too????Girl Advice???? What do girls look for in guys???
    Girls like good things about guys.


    Good sense of humor (not laughing at everything, but getting stuff)


    Good fashion sense (not couture, but not sweats all the time)


    Good grades (We don't want to date an idiot)





    Looks are just extra, and when we first see a guy that's the only thing we know about them, that they're hot or not. Until we find out something about them, we think we're in love. Even though we may like someone that's not ';hot'; that is a great person otherwise. And, yes, we are picky. But we just know what we want. hope this helps





    Please answer mine:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Girl Advice???? What do girls look for in guys???
    Most girls will look at personality before anything. If the girls are shallow they will probably look at the physical aspects first, but I'm not saying those aren't important. The body type most girls would choose I would say would be the athletic jock type. Just be a nice guy and show honesty and respect before anything else.
    Girls aren't as picky as they sound. Some like funny, some like smart,, some like cute. Some don't care if they are not perfectly skinny. Most all girls just want someone to ask them out. So, go ahead and ask away!
    personally ,





    the guy has to have a since of humor , or its not gonna work out .


    he has to have a half way descent body , nice face , good goals in life , successful , and a good job .
    Honesty %26amp; respect.


    Looks are just a bonus to be honest.

    Please help with Girl Advice?

    So i have a crush on this girl who i am pretty sure likes me back. The problem is that i only see her in one of my classes. I try to talk to her but my friends always give me crap and ruin any conversation i am having with her. So how could i ask for her number or ask her out without my friends getting in the way?Please help with Girl Advice?
    ask her confrontly :D

    I need advice on asking a girl out?

    Well there is this girl I like and I've been flirting with her for some time now. This week will be the last week of school and I will not see her for some time (September). I want to ask her out but I think she has a bf but I'm not exactly sure. I saw her holdings hands with a guy like a few months back. Should I go and ask for her number, or straight out ask her out or just get her facebook and keep talking to her?I need advice on asking a girl out?
    if you think she has a boyfriend then you can just get her facebook and keep talking to her over the break and casually just ask her if she has a boyfriend and if she says no then ask her out to a movie or something. good luck!I need advice on asking a girl out?
    go for it and just ask her out; facebook is for *******

    Any advice on handling a spoiled 16 year old girl?

    I just recently gained guardianship over my 16-year-old sister, and realized she is spoiled. When she is provided with things she doesn't seem appreciated, she more like expects it. She will soon be getting job now that she is 16, so Im hoping that will help. We also try giving her money for a week to eat lunch but doesn鈥檛 regulate it. She also goes about doing things half-assed; almost everything from keeping her room clean, chores, to homework. I know this behaviour is because of the parents. But what now after the corruption.Any advice on handling a spoiled 16 year old girl?
    I hate to break the news to you, but sounds like typical 16 year old behavior to me.





    Set a few clear rules. When setting consequences for rules infractions, make sure they match the offense, are fair, and follow through.





    Don't sweat the small stuff, pick your battles, and develop a good sense of humor. That will help save your sanity.Any advice on handling a spoiled 16 year old girl?
    I really don't know that much about the situation, so there really isn't a lot I can say. But just set a good example for her, if nothing else, and hope she will follow in your footsteps.
    Are we talking about a dog or a cat here? If you can not be humane to a human someone needs a doctor. Seems the two of you need to meet on common ground. kids are people not pets
    A job might help.





    This is a tough one. Sounds like I was at 16, so I could probably understand her side.





    Help her understand the value of working towards something. The spoilt behavior might actually be a trait of her being pretty low about herself, even if she acts snotty.





    I would get her to start thinking about her long-term goals and help her see how SHE is the one that can make them happen - help her see what her good traits are.





    I dunno I might be projecting too much, but that is what would have helped me at her age.
    in my opinion you need to set bondries and rules for her and put your foot down with her so she knows who is the ';boss'; before she gets to comfortable in her own ways in your house. She needs to get a job so she can earn the value of a dollar and make her work for what she wants instead of handing it to her when she does half *** jobs. then give half the pay!!!! and hopefully sooner or later she will learn that responsibility is something she is going to need along with respecting you. someone who loved her enough to take her into his own home.
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    dam some people forget that even exists anymore!!!
    you're the guardian so you make the NEW rules. lay out the rules, be reasonable and let her know what is now expected and what will no longer fly with you. Let her know you are no longer just her sibling and you will respect her as long as she respects you. Most of all let her know that although things will be more difficult they will be better. Let her express her concerns, etc and LISTEN to her. She will eventually get it. Be firm and reasonable but not aggressive because she will just shut you out.
    Sounds like you need to create an attitude adjustment, and fast! Have you considered dishing out some good old-fassioned spankings? It might just be the ticket in this case.
    just smack the spoiled out of her
    try to understand her,she's yung, she does not know what shes doing. you guys probrably went through a lot,cut her some slack. all this must be preatty hard for both of you. Try talking to her.don't yell at her or smack her, that ould only make things harder between both of you. '





    good luck!!!
    I say keep giving her allowance. If she spends it all in a couple of days then that is her fault. Don't give her anymore to spend and she will learn to spend wisely. You giving her more will back up the way she was raised. With her allowance you give her make her earn it. If she doesn't do her chores properly she doesn't get the $ for that chore. Children learn that with every household there are different rules. We all know that as adults too. Don't let her try to make you change your rules for her to get away with things. Keep your feet planted and be consistent. You have taken the role of guardian not child. Keep being the adult and raise the child to your house rules. It sounds like you want to raise her to have responsible behaviour. It might seem crazy when you think about her age and only having a couple years before she is on her own but we as humans aren't like dogs with old habits. We learn throughout our lives and one is to better yourself as a person.
    you are going to have to put your foot down and set some boundaries. you can't let her act like that. she will no doubt rebel against any new rules, but hopefully she will one day realize that you are doing this because you love her. tell her she isn't allowed to get a job until she can be more responsible and do her chores at home. don't give her any extra money unless she earns it. maybe then she will start to appreciate it. i wouldn't let her get a job unless she is making good grades, and maintains a good GPA if she gets a job. education is the most important thing she can get. i only wish my parents would have been more strict on me, it helps in the long run.





    you need to pray about it and ask the Lord for help.





    i will pray for your situation
    Hey props to you for taking in your sister. I'd say, lay out some rules, and be on her until she gets them right. Expect the world of her, you might be surprised. Don't allow half ***-ed work, make her do it over. Ya you might get a lot of resistance, but the lessons she is learning will last a life time. Oh ya, make her earn everything she gets with you guys. For her the beginning will suck, because her life is being turned upside down. It might take a while, but in the end I think you will come out on top.





    Once again, props to you for caring!!!!


    Good Luck
    put your foot down. no extra money until she can manage it. ground her until she cleans her room and does her chores right. if all else fails try boot camp.
    Hi Bill, You really have your hands full with this one. You need to show her that you are the boss of the house hold. Put your foot down about not going her chores right.Make it a rule of the house, she needs to have all her chores done right,and all her homework done,before she can go do something with her friends. If she doesn't follow your house rules, ground her from doing anything with her friends,until she does things right.





    Clowmy
    she needs to work for her stuff. My dad gave me $60 a month for clothes, the rest I had to earn. I got no money for makeup or anything. At 12 he woudln't wake me up for school, he got me an alarm clock, and if I was late, he made me explain to the principal or teacher. If I left something laying around, my parents would take it away, and I could always buy it back. $2 per item. I had only packed lunches, if I wanted caffateria, it came from my own money. My fist vehicle, I had to save for. And so help me, if I missed work and was irresponsilbe with my job, did I hear about it. They just assumed money wasn't improtnant to me and stopped my allowance. If I didn't clean my room, it came out of my allowance. If I didn't take care of the dog, i didn't get to keep it.. etc.





    I turned out really responsible. I am now a single mother of two and don't take anything from anyone. I take care of me and mine. And I am good with money too, cause I value it
    kids become bratty and spoiled because of lack of discipline. I agree with the above post saying you need to show her you're the dominant one.
    This is hard


    If you can afford to you may try a religious school I saw our neighbor's kid turn around from a brat to a nice kid in 6 months because of going to a strict christian school he was using foul language and now he is respectful and memorizes bible verses these schools are very targeted to each child and they get alot of attention Look on line some small church run schools are as low as 500 a month for tuition.


    If she is having trouble with her grades private school will help





    maybe you two could go on a weekend vacation to bond a little? bonding is good for respect and trust.





    ps I feel that makeing her miserable by hiting her or cutting her off from her friends would make her resent you and make it all worse especially for girls our friends are who we run to when we need a crying shoulder


    when we need to sit up all night and cry and we want someone who will listen but not judge or get upset someone to keep our secrets and say it'll be ok we go to our friends if she is having a hard time adjusting to the new custody arrangements do not cut off her friends she needs them





    Good luck from someone who knows how hard big changes are
    Ok, I seriously think this girl needs a lifestyle change.


    She's probably confusing material wealth with relationship happiness.


    Here's what I'd do...


    A)-----------------------------------


    Help her with money when she uses it for something healthy (and buy it with her). Say you'll match her dollar-for-dollar for every dollar she earns at work for such things.


    This could include gym/ballet classes, school clubs, musical instruments, sports team membership fees, cooking equipment, prom admission (but not dresses)...anything related to hobbies that develop life-long hobbies and/or positive social connections and encouraging social freedom.





    B)-----------------------------------


    Say that, for everytime she buys something excessive (say a Versaci purse or anything unrelated to anything in part A), she loses your support on a relationship-related issue. IE if she buys the purse with her work money, you will not drive her to friends' houses or help her with any work. Give her enough money for basic food/transportation(gas)/etc. but, if she runs out of money for lunch tell her something like ';you know, you will just have to earn that back by working extra hours, just like I'd have to if I bought a car I couldn't afford.';





    Make sure the underlying theme is ';hey, if you don't help me by letting me enjoy my social life and not spend my fun time instead doing accounting for your money mistakes, why should I help you on your social life (I'm pretty much just doing back to you what you are doing to me)?





    The point is NOT to make chores the issue: I know that's traditional parenting but all it comes across to to most teenagers is ';the end justifies the means and I have the sword'; and just makes them angry and externalize their problems more (IE say everything would be ok if it weren't for you rather than taking responsibility themselves).





    Be more like a peer and less like a dictator: once she realizes you are more-or-less doing what she would probably do if she were you she'll realize you and her are on the same side of the fence and think of you more as a very smart and strong peer and less like a parent. Which, in a teenage world, is a major accomplishment.
    What most people need to know is that teen agers are BULLIES, Just like in school, they do what they do because they know they can get away with it.





    First thing you need to do is STOP giving her money, for what ever reason. It is is for lunch then you yourself can go up to the school and pre pay for her lunches, They do that in most school. Mostly a kids just have to put in there student ID and they get there lunch paid.





    Like every one else says STAND UP TO HER. DO NOT CAVE IN. Tell her what you expect and what she is to do and make sure she does it. In what ever way you can.





    If it comes down to it do what I did with my daughter and give 1 plate 1 cup , things like that. She will be responsible for cleaning them, if she does not then she can eat off a dirty plate.





    Since she has just moved in with you she is try to see how far she can go and how far she can push you .





    I would also sit her down and explain to her that yes she is your sister but since you now have guardianship of her that you are the adult in the house and that means you get to tell her what to do.





    Also tell her that you will NOT be unfair or unresonable with what you expect from her.





    Tell her is she wants to be treated like an adult that she needs to start acting like one and explain to her what it is you expect.





    Also remember she is ONLY 16 and has just moved into a new home with new people telling her what to do.





    Good Luck.
    Take everything away from her that she doesn't need to survive. Make life hell until she straightens up.
    Kids naturally try to test boundaries and whatnot, so the reason she is spoiled is because she is used to her parents ';giving in'; all the time. When you tell her to do something, you need to make the consequences clear ahead of time (';if you don't clean your room, you can't go out this weekend';) and then stick to your contract NO MATTER WHAT! The sooner she learns that you mean business, the better. But you do need to be clear and up-front with her... don't dish out punishments without fair warning that they are about to come if she doesn't do the right thing (since, as I am sure she will tell you, that's just not fair).
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  • Help i need more girl advice?

    Can any girls help me with what i need to say or like how you would want to be hit on. I am a freshman in highschool can somone help pleaseHelp i need more girl advice?
    Smile at her all the time. Ask her how she is, with a big flirty smile. Tell her she looks beautiful, or she has nice eyes, or hair...etc.


    Offer to carry something for her. Ask her what she's doing tonight...





    Basically show an interest in her that shows her you are really digging her.Help i need more girl advice?
    When I was a varsity cheerleader in the 11th grade, my boyfriend was a freshmen. the best thing you can do to get a girl interested in you is to really listen to her when she talks, act really interested even when you're not, and ask lots of questions and just let her talk. never brag or boast but do exude confidence. keep your self respect. be yourself.


    sounds boring huh, but its the voice of experience
    flowers.
    be ur self dont act
    give her compliments without using perverted phrases. Be nice, outgoing, its kind of hard to make u into a pimp over yahoo answers lol.
    I don't really like to be 'hit on'. It makes me think of guys as creepy perverts. Don't use stupid cheesy lines that would make the girl want to either a] run the hell away from you, b] slap you in the face, c] call the cops or d] all of the above. Just be nice, be sincere, be you. [Unless you're a total jerk, then you might want to try being someone else. -nod nod-]
    Being ';hit on'; has to be the worst! When I meet someone that I like I know right away because he is genuine. Just be confident, and yourself. Ask about me, and what I like to do. If you want to ask me to do something... like... bowling... lol... ask me if I like it first. ANd when I say no, ask me what I would rather do.


    Really confidence is key. Even making some new girl friends, without the intention of picking her up, can set you up for a potential GF or a fu@k buddy... I guess its whatever you are looking for.


    Good Luck
    uhmmm dont say somethin gay like a pickup line HA
    Tell her how great she looks. Girls go through a lot of trouble trying to find the right clothes to where and looking their best. I think this comment will go along way. Good luck!
    You can compliment on how nice she looks for a start. But stop if this makes her uncomfortable.
    put ur p33n on her shoulder
    im a sophmore and freshman always try to hit on me but hitting on a girl is so cheesy and scrub like. be a gentleman and give her compliments and be romantic like edward cullen from twilight. ahhh then ur set.
    freshman I remember that, just walk up to a girl and say hi and ask her what her name is tell her what your name is and that you have seen her around, joke around with us, because if you can laugh we won't think you are creepy.


    Oh yeah, hit on is not the best those lines are hard to do and usually come off dorky or creepy. maybe compliment her(you have nice hair, your a good artist, you are a great basket ball player, you have cool shoes) (obviously according to the girl don't tell a girl not into sports that she is a great basket ball player) but yeah and then just walk away, I saw that in a tv show once and i thought to myself hey that might actually work, this way you don't even have to introduce yourself but she notices you in a positive way, but just do it once and if she doesn't come up to you you are going to have to be more bold later. Those are just some tips. Also remember that we are just as scared about guys as you are about girls, except that we have to worry about being called a slut or getting pregnant, so you're lucky.

    What do guys look for in a girl? ( advice from BOYS would be helpful!)?

    i havent found that special someone yet and i was just wonderin what the main qualities that guys ussually look for in girls are. Ive noticed they usaually go for the ones with lots of confidence but ive also heard guys prefer shy girls?! IM CoNfUsEd!! input would be greatly appreciated!!What do guys look for in a girl? ( advice from BOYS would be helpful!)?
    Depends on the guy, shy guys tend to go for shy girls as they have that in common and can relate. Also shy girls have less self confidence so some guys think of that as an easy mark.


    If you are confident in yourself, others will see that and go, well she must be all that then huh.





    Other factors are looks, personality %26amp; situation. Dont get hung up on it too much, most of the time if you just open yourself to the possibility of meeting a guy you will find the rest of the things follow suit subcounisouslyWhat do guys look for in a girl? ( advice from BOYS would be helpful!)?
    A challenge that makes the ego blow up when the get there!
    most guys like a girl who is the same person all the time, and just being herself,and not trying to play a different role everyday..it dont matter if she is shy or open, just being herself and have a good personality..and a guy watches how a girl treats her friends and other people too.
    some guys go for a gilr with a chest and ***





    but i like shy quiet desent girls
    i guess guys wanna be with girls who are like them .. i like shy girls and cus im shy.. and the more out going person whats to be with a more out going person cus it would be kinda borring for them.. same as if a shy person wants to be with a shy person cus the out going person is not quiet like they are.


    Guys you'd want like:


    Honnesty, Dependability, Class, Intelligence, carring, nice..


    most good guys dont care how a girl looks like... but how she treats him... and how cool she is... as in is she a good person.. stuff like that.





    bye


    kian
    a guy will go for the girl with confidence.. you have to be happy with yourself, before you can be happy with another.. guys can pic up on these things.. now i dont mean be conceited or egotistical, but just be proud of who you are... if you know that you have flaws( we all do) and accept them, then you are on your way... just be you and dont try to be what you think someone else wants you to be

    I am trying to learn how to deal with nervoussness in social situations like talking to a girl, any advice ?

    Practice. It will help, I used to be shy but now I'm very outgoing.





    Practice talking to strangers/flirting, going to group events etc. The more comfortable you get being around people in general, the more comfortable you'll be around girls you like.





    But you may always experience nervousness over someone you like, that's normal, so you'll have to learn to operate inspite of your nervousness. I have this problem when I give speaches; I tell myself, no matter how shaky or nervous I am, I'm in control of my voice and actions and what I say. I talk slower if I must. It helps.





    Practice flirting:


    http://studiesoflove.com/flirting/practi鈥?/a>





    That's my best answer, good luck!I am trying to learn how to deal with nervoussness in social situations like talking to a girl, any advice ?
    this may sound terrible, but try making small talk with girls you are not attracted to or have interest in... baby steps.

    My bro likes a girl at school and he wants my advice on how to make her like him...Any help?

    My brother's really desperate and keeps dreaming about her!My bro likes a girl at school and he wants my advice on how to make her like him...Any help?
    A lot of people say just be yourself. If you be yourself, the girl will know what you look like and dress appropriately. Never wear a shirt too tight or too loose. If you want to wear skinny jeans, then it's okay. No leather pants or you'll have red marks at the end of the day.





    Another thing, ask the girl whether she likes poetry. You can recite out a nice poem to her. The poem must be appropriate. Don't recite ';Life's Brief Candle'; by Shakespeare. It's about a dude having a meaningless life.My bro likes a girl at school and he wants my advice on how to make her like him...Any help?
    tell him to make the dream come true and go and ask her out it is the only way , whats to lose
    How you going to make her hey.lol.Are you going to drug her or something.I think you should let youir brother take the reins i;m sure he is quite capable.Unless he's retarded?.If so.Then my bad.
    Tell him to be himself. Approach her casually, be nice ... depending on how old he is, he could ask her on a group date to the movies or something.
    wat maybe id support my bro and his relationships


    but never im gonna help in forging his relationships


    tats his part let him do it well if it fails it fails tats life
    Sometimes dreams happen when we are worried about sometime...depending on how old he is you can say many things to help because you are family and can help. He really must think alot about you to ask to a personal question like this???? Just be there for him and hope that can have the 'magic' in him to ask her out. Just say acted cool and be yourself and hope for the best. It might just work. sorry if it does mot.
    Don't set his hopes too high..girls can be mean.

    My bro likes a girl at school and he wants my advice on how to make her like him...Any help?

    My brother's really desperate and keeps dreaming about her!My bro likes a girl at school and he wants my advice on how to make her like him...Any help?
    Don't set his hopes too high..girls can be mean.My bro likes a girl at school and he wants my advice on how to make her like him...Any help?
    Sometimes dreams happen when we are worried about sometime...depending on how old he is you can say many things to help because you are family and can help. He really must think alot about you to ask to a personal question like this???? Just be there for him and hope that can have the 'magic' in him to ask her out. Just say acted cool and be yourself and hope for the best. It might just work. sorry if it does mot.
    A lot of people say just be yourself. If you be yourself, the girl will know what you look like and dress appropriately. Never wear a shirt too tight or too loose. If you want to wear skinny jeans, then it's okay. No leather pants or you'll have red marks at the end of the day.





    Another thing, ask the girl whether she likes poetry. You can recite out a nice poem to her. The poem must be appropriate. Don't recite ';Life's Brief Candle'; by Shakespeare. It's about a dude having a meaningless life.
    Tell him to be himself. Approach her casually, be nice ... depending on how old he is, he could ask her on a group date to the movies or something.
    wat maybe id support my bro and his relationships


    but never im gonna help in forging his relationships


    tats his part let him do it well if it fails it fails tats life
    tell him to make the dream come true and go and ask her out it is the only way , whats to lose
    How you going to make her hey.lol.Are you going to drug her or something.I think you should let youir brother take the reins i;m sure he is quite capable.Unless he's retarded?.If so.Then my bad.

    Advice for a shy girl who wants a guy to notice her?

    well, there is this one dude in my geography class that i am kind of interested in. i cant really say i have a crush on him, because i havent gotten to know him well. and well i sit right next to him in class and i was just wondering how i can get him to notice me... im really shy especially with boys. and i was just wondering how i can get him to notice me. or talk to him or something so i can get to know him better. thanks. :)Advice for a shy girl who wants a guy to notice her?
    Hmmmm.... first off... i think we all know what crush means.. its an admiration towards someone... either a celebrity, a player, or even your classmate or schoolmate! It's either you like him 'cause he/she is smart, he or she is good at something... or just like everyone else.. 'cause of his/her cuteness!





    i know we all want our crushes to like us just the way we are, right? and to notice us or at least to know that we exist in this chaotic world! or even know our first name...





    and we kept glancing at him or her every time we have a chance... but has he or she ever caught you looking? *smiles* wooohoooo!





    and when you see him or her.. you blush and do that ';guppy effect'; (it means you tingle! haha)





    okay these are the ways.. i've gathered it up! and i think it really helps! only if your crush is at the campus... haha...





    1. Have eye contact! but! don't make it too obvious.. :D





    When you pass by him or her... try to look in his/her eyes.. notice how amazing they are... :D but then quickly look away!





    2. Call his/her name!





    Everyone reacts when someone calls his or her name... but one thing that will make him/her notice you without intentionally calling him/her is that... when you see a person you know (with the same name as your crush) and your crush at the same place.. you shout his/her name! Then both your friend and your crush will look but then your crush notice that you approach your friend who has the same name.. (believe me! this works every time!) :D





    3. Smile at him... *smiles*





    This is the simplest and most effective of all! Just simply smile at him/her and you'll never know your crush will smile back!





    *smiles*





    *smiles back*





    *faints*





    NOTE: but make sure you smile at him at the right time so that he/she won't think that you've gone mad by looking at him in a long period of time....





    4. Know his or her great buds!





    Just be friendly with them... You'll have lots of friend to be with in time of need... Just talk about everything naturally... Except the part of your crush! And you get to talk to him/her too!! and the bonus is that.. you get to see your crush in their environment when they are all oh-so-comfortable!





    5. Dress nicely... :D





    Choose clothes that fits your personality so that he will be able to know what kind of person you are... You gotta stand out in the crowd! And the hair.. you can experiment what style you would like! Be creative!





    I don't know if you feel this way too but does your crush stands out in the crowd? Like, you really know if he's there or something? Oh well! it does to us! :D haha!





    6. Join contests at your school where you can display your talent!





    Join some contests that you will be able to win! Like declamation, Art contests, dance contests or even quiz bees! And your crush will be like ';Woah! She/he is good at this! Cool!'; Show them what you're good at!





    7. Talk a lot!





    It really pays off being a talkative person! Talkative = lots of people will listen! And you gotta be funny too! And the best thing that can happen is seeing your crush listening and laughing! And that makes your heart jumps, ain't that right?





    8. Earn a nickname that everyone knows!





    Earn a nickname.. a positive nickname! Like ';Miss/Mister Linguistic'; and it does pay off knowing different language! :D or even ';Einstein';... or simply just your nickname.... you never know he might start calling you with that nickname!





    9. Know what your crush likes!





    Know what his/her hobbies... whatever he/she likes to do.. you gotta show interest! I guess we all know that if you have a crush, you look for something you have in common! Even though its senseless! Like, you have the same favorite color..stuffs like that.... But things begins with these stuffs! :D Kinda true ya' know!





    10. And last! Just be yourself when you are around him/her!





    Don't try be someone you're not.. 'cause that's just like living a lie! And believe me..that's horrible at the end! Just act natural! Try not to blush! And forget that you will just blabber in front of him! He might even think it's funny! :D























    So what are you waiting for? Go and let your crush notice you!Advice for a shy girl who wants a guy to notice her?
    Like you I am also shy when it comes to guys. But I'll tell a story that happened to me. There's this guy that I like and he owned a really awesome truck that I liked. Well one day I got up the courage to wave at him, then the next time I actually said hi, then I told him that I liked his truck. I did this a few times and actually got to talking to him a little more and one day I was at home and I got a text from him. He hadn't even asked me for my number ( cause he's shy also) but I sell Avon to his mom and he got my number off the back of the Avon book!! So my advice would be to just start out with a simple hi, how are you doin of something like that.
    you have to do things to bring attention to yourself but not in a bad way. talk to him and flirt a bit, smile at him, compliment him, ask him about himself and let him know your interested. since your shy this might be a hard ordeal but you can always let him know how you feel without actually saying it, make eye contact and brush against him when you pass by, smile, be friendly and cute and see where it goes from there! good luck! %26lt;3


    oh and alot of guys find shy girls very flattering so dont worry too much about it just try to be yourself
    honestly, i really would love to help you, but i have the same exact problem. i can talk to any guy, except the one i like. i would say just be confident and be yourself, but thats easier said than done
    If you get are able to say ';hi'; to him at least everyday, you will gain confidence to talk to the particular person.
    Me too! I'm super shy!! Sorry I couldn't help but good luck!! :D
    Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't just try to get a guy to look your way, you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below.


    # Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. As a general rule, guys don't expect girls to change. Resist the temptation to put on a show or to do anything that just isn't you just to get his attention.


    # Get a new look. Don't change who you are (you never want to do that because you'll actually end up changing yourself) just try something different; if he doesn't like you for who you are let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, just because variety's the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other okay looking girls giving him the eyes, because beauty is common, but a good outlook and a great energy are very rare.


    # Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.


    # Flirt. Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. If he reacts and you don't think its real (he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, let him know he can't). If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is 'all that'. For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego.


    # Start up conversations that have to do with if it's where you are or if he's talking to you. Make sure you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him. Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or GIGGLE nonstop. He can get kind of scared and make fun of you, no matter how old you are, guys will always be the same. Be yourself! Just be who you are, thats the # 1 quality guys look for in a girl.


    # Hang out with him often; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an interesting topic, for example if your at a football game ask confidently, but cutely ';did i miss any action?';. This will tell him that you want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion so he will automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics) the whole game. Start slowly like a movie or party try not to make it so noticeable cause he might not be interested.Talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question. Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. You could even compliment him or ask for help. A good opener is spray two different perfumes on each wrist, then go up to him and ask him his favorite. This should get him to talk to you. Also be friendly to his friends to help him feel more comfortable around you. Some guys don't notice girls unless they talk to the guy. 9. Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Tell him what you want him to do, etc.--just don't get too bossy!


    10. Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.


    11. Be brave. Stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. Ultimately, this will catch the attention and respect of someone who is going to work well for you, even if it turns out not to be this guy.


    12. Don't be a slob! It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.


    13. Just Talk To Him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will.


    14. Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.





    1. Some guys are way different than most. If you like a guy that
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  • What kind of advice for first time parents to a baby girl?

    My only advice is to not listen to advice. Instead, listen to your heart.


    You're going to have unsolicited advice coming at you from all angles %26amp; most likely it'll be opposing advice on the same topic!! Of course, research everything to make sure you're making the best choices for your family, but in the end, do what YOU feel is right.


    Things to consider-


    -Learn all you can about breastfeeding and know that you have a viable option with infant formula. You don't need to justify to ANYONE why you chose whatever method you go with.


    -Read up on the ';Ferber'; method of CIO vs. Attachement Parenting. There are a lot of misconceptions out there regarding co-sleeping. It's not dangerous when done properly.


    -Research and decide if you believe that a baby/child can be ';spoiled'; with love and attention or become ';too attached'; to their mommy. Again, you need not justify your beliefs/feelings to anyone.


    Congrats and best wishes!!What kind of advice for first time parents to a baby girl?
    Best advice for any child, is sleep when they sleep. I took a nap once a day with her. it really helped out for the lack of sleep i had at night.





    They loved to be cuddled. I read to my duaghter. whatever I am reading, she hears as well. We listen to music a lot too.





    Buy the bare minimum that you need. It's better for you baby to wear the same clothes for a few weeks, than to wear the outfit once, and have her outgrow it.





    set a bedtime routine up right from the beginning. They get used to it, and it's easier to put her in bed every night. my daughter gets bath, and feed at 8 and off to bed she goes. and she gets up about 8 in the morning, and only up twice in the night





    spend lots and lots of time with her, as they grow up way to fast.What kind of advice for first time parents to a baby girl?
    don't get carried away, don't buy too much stuff for the baby, she will outgrow most of it, instead save the money ri now, so when she is little older can speak and ask for things u can buy her those stuff.


    enjoy every moment with ur child, she will grow up really soon.


    take lots of pictures and video for memories.
    Let her develop a special relationship with her daddy. My 4 year old just loves her dad, he reads to her, plays dolls with her, takes her fishing, kicks a ball around with her. It's beautuful to see.
    resist the urge to cuddle let her sleep in her basket and dont keep running at evey sniffle.. i know its early days but get the routine going it really does help mine were in the basket downstairs with us at 7 they ahd bath and changed for bed 9 we dimmed the lights and had turned the sound down to get her prepared for sleep thye would drift off and have a feed at 11 then usually sleep either until the early hours or morning if they woke id give them a feed but keep quiet and lights off and place them back to bed.. sounds daft but at 2 weeks they were in there own rooms as i couldnt cope witht them being so close to the bed i never had any probs and they have always slept well.. the oldest being 3 youngest 2 in july both are potty trained.. do what fits in with you they should fit in with the family not disrupt it take advice but dont take it as gospel i listened to various people and took the bits that i felt were relative and adjusted it to fit me and mine.. if you listen to anything let it be this relax and enjoy dont make it harder work than it has to be just keep it simple..
    This pertains to all babies. You dont have to buy EVERYTHING because it's cute . Most babies are picky and you'll find out that maybe you didn't need that swing, and bouncy seat and all the other cutsie things. I have two girls. My first hated the bouncy seat and the swing. She was tricky .





    Also you'd be suprise how far into the air a baby girl can pee. I've been pee'd on quite a few times when both my girls were infants and I didnt get that diaper on fast enough. I mean high arc, it was funny. There really isn't much diff between a baby girl a baby boy except cleaning down there.
    girls can pee into the air just like a boy. my daughter surpirsed the heck out of me manytimes. i think she got me more than both my sons.


    girls like to snuggle. and they love just listening to music. read a book. they are cool just hanging out.

    How do I get this senior girl to like me? Girls advice please..?

    I'm a freshman in high school and there is this senior girl that I hang out out with in band. We always sit together and hang out whenever we can but i dont really know if she likes me. We have alot in common and like just about everything exactly the same.My question is if i tried really hard could we have a relationship that would work?How do I get this senior girl to like me? Girls advice please..?
    just be your self and if she dose not like you then she wont unless you act different in your on way.How do I get this senior girl to like me? Girls advice please..?
    This may not be the best hook up. 1st of all, she's graduating, you're just starting high school. If you get together now and she leaves high school, she'll either be working or in college: too busy for a 10th grader. I say you better aim for someone about a year older or younger than year, don't go beyond that. I have this feeling that if you get together, she'll eventually have to let you go because of your two time schedules. I know this isn't what you want to hear but I think you're aiming 4 years too high.
    Just ask. You never know until you try.
    I dunno, it really depends on tha chick. I personally like older guys not younger, and im in 8th grade. so just try and make a move, flirt a little and see if she flirts back. LEt us kno how it turns out.
    She probably already has a boyfriend.


    Find out by just casually saying, ';Hey, what's ur bf's name?';
    no offense, but i don't think a senior girl will like a freshman boy. maybe as a friend not as a boyfriend though. if she found out u liked her she'd probably think it was ';cute';, kinda like if a sixth grade girl wanted to be your boyfriend. but it could work and i hope it does, good luck
    I only see a senior guy like a freshman girl but never see a senior girl go out with a freshman boy before. Sorry! but I think she probably seeing you as a good friend only. If you tell her that you like her then she might juz ignore you so yeah

    Ima dude and i need some girl advice.?

    Well i just want to know from a female perspective,If you feel comfortable enough to be touchy with a boy,does that mean your not interested in him,and you just touchy. Cause I like to feel on girls that Im definitly not interested in,is it the same for girls??Ima dude and i need some girl advice.?
    it's different for every girl.





    i'm more touchy with guys i'm not interested in (ie: my friends). i'm not all girls, but when i'm around guys i like, i get too nervous to touch them because i'm awkward.





    i do know girls that won't touch guys they're not interested in and visa versa. it just depends on the girl, honestly.Ima dude and i need some girl advice.?
    Well from my personal veiw there are different types of touchy. A girl can be touchy with someone she thinks that is just a friend. And its normally clear that they are just touchy. But if she is touchy with a guy that she is not real close with she is normally flirting and if a girl is flirting she is normally interested in one way or another. But all girls are different. Some girls are just flirty and want attention and to have fun. While other girls can be flirting hoping for something more serious. Best way to tell is watch the attitude they give off and the way they act. Hope I helped some.
    Just like you: some girls are more touchy-feely than others. If her touch tends to linger a little normal than average or if she meets your eye while touching she might be interested.
    it does depend on the girl some girls are flirty touchy some are trying to let you know you have to read into more than the touch go for other body language
    no way dude that totally gives the wrong idea
    Not really. At least not for me.

    I am an okay looking girl, but no guys are attracted to me. What am I doing wrong? Any advice?

    I am okay looking, not super skinny but not fat, and I just don't understand why nobody seems attracted to me. I guess its personality, but I am outgoing and have lots of guy friends. Any tricks advice, tips, or anything? I am desperate...I am an okay looking girl, but no guys are attracted to me. What am I doing wrong? Any advice?
    TRY ME. may be your closeness to your guy friends is putting other guy off.





    I'm a guy and I'm not going to venture into the territory of another guy especially if I think one of them is in relationship with the girls.





    We guys have a thing called GENETIC understanding. ex;





    You've seen a lot of guys fighting but always no hitting below the belt. ---thats a guy thing no hitting below the belt.





    No hitting on other man's woman unless he's not looking--thats a guy thing to.I am an okay looking girl, but no guys are attracted to me. What am I doing wrong? Any advice?
    You're just having a dating downtime. It happens when you just aren't meeting up with the right guy. Lets face it, you want sparks - he wants sparks, you'll just have to get yourself out there and meet more guys till you find that mutually!





    Just continue being your lovable self - but give yourself the advantage of meeting new guys! Good luck!
    How do you know no one is attracted to you? Thinking that people aren't attracted to you is a definite turnoff. That low self esteem could be what's keeping them away. Be confident! Embrace who you are and the guys will come runnin.
    It's hard to say what exactly the problem might be since I haven't met you. What I tell a lot of people is that being confident and happy with yourself always brings attention.
    show a guy some interest so he knows to try to come on to you.. guys dont want to be embarrased but if youre flirting hell feel comfortable
    Take some initiative? Flirt more and act sexy
    LOL UR AVATAR cuz u jizzed in ur pants

    I'm in love with a Turkish girl since yesterday. Please give me so advice How can I do to seduce her?

    I don't understand what happened yesterday night.


    In my neighborhood I saw a beautiful girl, and some people told me she was just arrived new in this building. And I was quite surprised when I learned that she was Turkish !


    It's love at first sight, I'm in love !





    Please tell me how should I do to talk her and seduce her ?





    I'm so scared...I'm in love with a Turkish girl since yesterday. Please give me so advice How can I do to seduce her?
    Hahahhahahaha. I don't know who did it but it is really funny. Is he Jean's brother who is very lovely and friendly : )





    陌yi i艧 tebrik ediyorum. 陌yi g眉ld眉m.





    PS: Jean learn Turkish to seduce her : ) Also learn play guitar and sing her a song. I advise : ';Bandè°‹ra bandè°‹ra ye beni'; : ))))I'm in love with a Turkish girl since yesterday. Please give me so advice How can I do to seduce her?
    u r not funny. i want other one ;)
    Sing the song: ';Salina Salina Sinsice'; by Tarkan to her.


    Any girl will fall for that.


    And tell her Seni Seviyorum. (since you said you love her)
    Its real fun going on in here, i really like it. Well done. Gr8 job...
    Fortunately in this site there are people like you to make us laugh a little, because if you enter in yahoo answers Italy, everyone there suffers from depression
    hold on a best moment and give a kisses in your love!
    Hahahahahaha, I would give advice to her and say ';Run like hell!!!';
    Turkish girls are really complicated to date, but they 're really beautiful
    turkish girls never fall in love with racist people against turks...





    also, u wrote that u're fat, so dont expect any girl to fall in love with u...
    Dont seduce her!





    Make her attracted and like you!





    Be nice, etc etc etc.....





    Goodluck!





    And if you want to marry her, convert to Islam.
    I'm sure u're in love Jean, I'm sure....





    Just leave your hatred and be how u really are.
    Why don't you date a boy ?
    Go to US Senate and make a speech , and help the Turks against the racist attacks...And then, maybe, she will pay attention to you...
    Jean , I love you..
    Seduce? wot are u? Romeo? lol

    Im a 22year old girl who weighs 72 kg...I need some advice on how to lose 5-7kgs?

    I am 175cm tall and very active, I participate in intence activity up to 5days per week, usually 2hrs perday...Im confused as to why I am still slightly overweight! I run, walk and ride. My friends are always commenting on how healthy I eat. I do enjoy chocolate and slices but I dont consume them everyday.





    I would really like to lose 5-7kg and need some advice!!Im a 22year old girl who weighs 72 kg...I need some advice on how to lose 5-7kgs?
    It's probably because you have got fat and strong bones. Or a lot of muscle. Girl parts can cause a big add on your weight too!


    If it is that then you just have to be happy that you're healthy, tall and beautiful :)





    OR








    Maybe you're doing something wrong?


    -Do you eat three hours before you go to bed?


    -Replaced your sweets, chocolates, white bread and veggies and water?


    -Give yourself a treat only on Weekends?


    -Train for 1-2 hours daily?


    Try to follow those rules.





    WAY # 1





    DIET


    A mistake that a LOT of dieters make is fruits- they eat a lot of fruits. In truth fruits contain a lot of sugar- be careful! Try to cut down your fats and drink plenty of water!





    EXERCISE


    The best exercises that will make you loose weight is:


    -swimming


    -kick boxing


    -LONG distance running


    -dancing


    It would even be good if you brought wii fit! I los 4 kg in a week (yah I know it's unhealthy) just by doing wii fit, same with Angelina Jollie. She lost weight with wii fit too.





    WAY # 2





    If you did that one up there (or something similair) then try having four eals a day. But don't eat sweets! Just eat more meals a day than you usually do. Try to cut down on your exercise- on the third day start over-exercising your body and eating less- three meals a day.


    The result for my friend (who was just slightly over-weight too) was she lost 6kg in about... three weeks.





    Another trick is to drink ice-cold water! tee hee!





    also check these out:


    http://www.wikihow.com/Lose-Weight-Fast


    http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice鈥?/a>


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtOJXj_k-鈥?/a>


    I tried!Im a 22year old girl who weighs 72 kg...I need some advice on how to lose 5-7kgs?
    1st: Make sure you get a full check up at your doctor. For the longest we couldn't figure out why I wasn't losing weight, even after cutting calories. Turns out I have PCOS. You could have something going on with your thyroid. Better safe than sorry.





    2nd: If that all checks out, talk to your doctor about your weight loss goals, see what advice your doctor offers. Your doctor may even know a really good nutritionist you can see. If your health is well, and it's safe for you to pursue this safely on your own, there are several sites about healthier eating.





    If you can pursue this on your own, to do so cheaply without having to buy too many expensive products being peddled by clowns online: I'd say increase your raw-veggie meals. I'm not saying go 100% raw, because I think that's going over-board. There has to be a happy medium... Just look into it, see what works for you. Be skeptical, don't get taken in by promises that any one thing will cure cancer, diabetes, is the one true key to weight loss, etc. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
  • zits
  • Advice on this girl which I work with?

    Well do you think I should tell her I like her or leave it be. There is a girl that I work with that has a boyfriend and a baby, but her boyfriend is a loser (really) and she says she loves him but still is unhappy and says she feels alone.


    She can already tell that I like her but I'm not sure I should tell her. She is a nice and sweet girl, however, she has a lot of ';baggage'; on her.


    Also, one of my co-workers told her I care about her, but I honestly don't want to get involved.


    What should I do?Advice on this girl which I work with?
    maybe you can just be friends i mean come on she has a baby im not saying its bad but what if she might be using you? maybe she realized you like her so shes like ';oh wth you listen and i already have a dumb boyfriend maybe you can take care of my kid'; look do what u want to do but im just saying what you should look out forAdvice on this girl which I work with?
    Steer clear
    Try to see if she would like to go out to eat but let her know its as friends. Dont meet her boyfriend. Thats dumbb.. SO yea then from there just tell her one day but try to take her out more than 2 times. Even if you guys just have lunch together at work. eff it have fun %26amp; show that you're willing to be a better man to her %26amp; that you can probably handle the responsibility to help her with her baby one day.. Woah woah i went to far.. yeah so you get itt. GOOD lUCKk.
    why are you asking the questions when you said you honestly dont wanna get involved? Well just try being her friend first and if you tell her you like her. You probably gonna makes the situation worse (she may falls for you) if in the future you still feels strongly about her and she is single. Why not? life is too short to worry about whether someone have a baggage or not. Just be her friend and ask her out for a group hang out. work your ways from there.good luck!!
    I hope you don't want to be with her because she has extra baggage. However, if that's not the case...be reserved. If you're more caring and there for her she may start to like you and want to progress more in the relationship.

    I still love her and don't know what to do, NEED GIRL ADVICE...?

    I told this girl I like her right, then she turns me down. I still love her and she is still as she said ';just friends';. I dont know what I would do withought her. please help me, I have ben a wreck for the past 6 months and it has driven me mentaly insane with extreem parinoia.I still love her and don't know what to do, NEED GIRL ADVICE...?
    Unfortunately, the only thing that can really help you is the passage of time--It may sound lame, but it's true, time heals all wounds.





    there is one trick that might speed up the process. take everything that reminds you of her and put it in a box. then take that box and put it somewhere where you won't see it every day, but still know where it is. that way you won't have so many unnecessary reminders lying around and you can deal with them again when you're ready.





    Good luck, I know it's hard. Hang in there.I still love her and don't know what to do, NEED GIRL ADVICE...?
    Keep going for her. Or, just become really really close friends with her and then ask her out after that. but as for the keep going for her answer, I know a guy, who I absolutely didn't like, but he asked me out like 50 times then I eventually said yes. I love him. hehee
    Unfortunately, love is, for the most part, always blind. You already know that she won't give you a chance by now, so you just have to force yourself to forget about the idea of you %26amp; her. Avoid her in school/at work/any other place you would usually see her, that will just make it worse. unfortunately, this will be quite a long process, but you have to stay persistent. Look at other girls around %26amp; give them a chance [:
    Joel V said it all. Good luck.

    Thursday, July 29, 2010

    Need advice about what to do tonight with this girl?

    Ok, tonight I'm going out with one of my girl friends to dinner and the movies. I really like her and she knows it but I'm not sure if she likes me (she might since she wanted to go out but it's hard to tell). Should I treat it as a date (paying for everything, being a gentleman, etc.). And how much flirting is too much (she's ok with innocent touching but is trying to kiss her out of the question?). Thanks for your help.Need advice about what to do tonight with this girl?
    Depends on what kinda movie your watching, love dovey movies ...dont kiss the girl. Scarry movies just hold her tight and give her a good night kiss, a movie that gets boring..kiss her. kiss the girl if the movie is boring. I repeat kiss the girl if the movie is boring.Need advice about what to do tonight with this girl?
    Dinner and a movie sounds like a date. Treat it accordingly. Flirt as much as feels comfortable and you can determine that when the time comes. Try not to kiss on the first date. If she likes you, it will make her want more. If she doesnt like you like that, then you have dodged an awkward moment. At the end of the night ask her if you wanna do this again. If she says yes, the cats in the bag. If she says no, then.. sorry hun, lol.





    Most importantly, relax and enjoy your night!


    BE YOURSELF!
    Alrighty,


    Well for one, you should be a gentleman no matter which one of your ';girl friends'; you're with. You should see the kind of girl she is, some girls don't like guys paying for everything while other do.


    If you like her and she likes you, you'll feel the moment, and when you'll know you'll know when to move in :)


    Good Luck
    Just pay for everything, then during the movie put a dollar bill in her pants. Make sure you shove it in there good and deep. She'll know what to do.
    be real nice at meal then get real close at movies and then ask her if she loves you. If she does then ask her to come back to yours and if she does then ask her to sleep with you. Remember nice and gentle and use a condom

    How do you know if i girl likes you what are some clues (Need your advice ladies)?

    * If she tries to make you laugh.


    * If she tries to copy you.


    * If she tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when she finds you.


    * If she subtly looks at you but makes it look like she is looking at the guy next to her.


    * If she's immature she will act different around you, quiet and maybe even try to avoid you. Or, she'll act different around you than when she's just with her friends.


    * If she constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as What was the homework?


    * If she goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if she goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there).


    * If you see her staring at something by turning her head 90 degrees and when you look at her she smiles and turns away, when this happens, check her pupils, she might have actually been staring at you.


    * If she invites you to a party.


    * If you flirt with a friend of hers when he can see, and she looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don't flirt with them just to find out if she likes you).


    * If she talks to you and wants to know how you're doing.


    * If she is nicer or tries to talk to your friends.


    * If she asks about you to your friends when you're not around.\


    * If you notice when she gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then she's trying to give you the opportunity to talk to her!


    * If she always talks to you there's a great chance that she likes you.


    * If she feels so awful letting you down that she lies.


    * If she would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if she talks/texts/exchange IM's to you until midnight).


    * If you realize that she ignores you when you're looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, she turns back around to look back at you.


    * If she's talking to her friends and nodding like she's paying attention but you realize she's not, she's actually been staring at you the whole time!


    * If she walks down the hallway (at school) and she ';accidentally'; bumps/touches you, if she moves your chair or pulls your hair etc.


    * If she ignores you almost completely. For example, when you call her name she does nothing, but when your friend does, she pays attention. This is because she might be embarrassed or not sure how to approach you. Be careful, though, she might ignore because he just flat-out doesn't like you!How do you know if i girl likes you what are some clues (Need your advice ladies)?
    dependin on the girl...like if you know the girl is shy ...but she is like...talkin to you....acting idkk...trying to be more out going ...while been with you....yeah she likes you...


    but if the girl...is like really out going.....then....she is just like that....but if she is like really flirty with you....you will know...the more out goin type of girls will show it...more....and you will know....


    if its a shy girl.....try to read a bit more into any signals or anything =DHow do you know if i girl likes you what are some clues (Need your advice ladies)?
    when she always talks to u and smiles and u catch her starring at u and flirting and touching u





    please answer mine!!! i need help


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Does she like to hang around you and act shy thats somthing girls tend to do

    What is some advice to becoming a mizzou golden girl?

    Let me preface this, but I wasn't a cheerleader, but I was a baton twirler growing up. Of course you need to be a dancer.





    I would get video tapes of the current routines. Maybe bring a video recorder to a basketball or football game if you need to or tape the routines off the TV.





    Then learn the routines. I know that the way that some groups, especially ones I have been apart of take pieces from routines and use them in other routines. It is unlikely, but they might even use the routine for the try-out. All in all, get familiar and comfortable with their moves.





    The link I added has the information from last years try outs. It looks like things will be announced in Feb and the deadline is April. There are a couple links on the page for the applications. Good luck with tryouts. :-)

    I wanna ask this girl i know from work for her number. But dont wanna shot down any advice?

    I think she likes me.I wanna ask this girl i know from work for her number. But dont wanna shot down any advice?
    Plz ask this girl for her number she will be thrilled ....espically if she likes you....im in the situation where i would love a guy at work to ask for my number as we have been flirting for ages....its so frustrating for a girl to know she is being really obvious with a guy but he wont ask for her number!!! Go for it...u know it will make you both happy!I wanna ask this girl i know from work for her number. But dont wanna shot down any advice?
    There are three steps:


    First! Come up with some sort of social event to invite her to, and come up with a specific time.


    Second! Have a lively and entertaining conversation that leaves you both smiling.


    Third! Invite her, but tell her that you're unsure of what time specifically it is (don't leave it open to interpretation, let her know it is about an hour before the actual time it's scheduled) and suggest you call her to let her know when you're sure.


    Fourth! You now have her number, before the social event, call her 2 hours in advance to tell her the right time. She'll be grateful that it's later than sooner, and hopefully all will go well from there.


    (example, just to be clear: you plan for the event to occur at 8, but you tell her its at 7, then call at 6 to tell her it's actually at 8.)
    Go and ask her. I did this once.You can even pick the number from the firm's phone operator
  • cream song
  • Need advice about what to do tonight with this girl?

    Ok, tonight I'm going out with one of my girl friends to dinner and the movies. I really like her and she knows it but I'm not sure if she likes me (she might since she wanted to go out but it's hard to tell). Should I treat it as a date (paying for everything, being a gentleman, etc.). And how much flirting is too much (she's ok with innocent touching but is trying to kiss her out of the question?). Thanks for your help.Need advice about what to do tonight with this girl?
    so you are trying to see if she is interested in a relationship or just keeping you as a friend


    I say pay for everything, but if she insists on paying for her own meal or ticket then cut your losses and accept her as just a friend. If she lets you pay for everything and some casual touching is allowed then try a kiss on her cheek toward the end of the night.Need advice about what to do tonight with this girl?
    if your not sure, you should always keep it simple and more basic.


    because if she is not interested in you the same way you are interested in her she might get a little freaked out.





    my opinion would be to stay chill, and be yourself.


    if she knows you are ';interested'; in her, she will make it more obvious if she is interested in you.
    You should pay at least half, unless the two of you discussed that it is a date, then you should pay the whole bill. I wouldnt kiss her unless you knew that she felt comfortable. Maybe talk at dinner to see where the two of you are at.....Are you actually dating now or just getting together as friends?
    Dont treat it as a date until she does. I have a friend who really likes me and a still like going places withhim just the two of us, but if he got flirty or anything iw ould leave right away.
    my guy friends pay for me even if it's not a date so ya pay, unless she says that she wants to. and i say go in for the kiss if you feel like the time is right if not then don't go for it. you'll know if you should or not.
    hmmm


    you should def be a gentleman, and pay for her...


    if she is being flirty then you should go for it


    be very respectful, and polite!!!!
    Follow her lead. If she seems interseted in you then go for it. If not then stay cool.
    pay but dont be too flirty let her ease you in

    I'm a chinese girl, any good advice for me to learn english?

    I have been learning english for more than 10 years, still cant speak it very fluently, so I wanna ask native speakers for some good suggestions, by the way, I hate the way of chinese teachers teach english, they ask us to recite new words every day :( it's no fun at all, no one is interested in that boring way to learn a new language, Thank You!I'm a chinese girl, any good advice for me to learn english?
    Hi! I'm Chinese and can speak Chinese but can't read or write it very well. For English, just try to communicate daily with someone that speaks English well. You can learn a lot from them. Besides, their pronunciation is entirely different from Chinese teachers, who have very very bad accents in English. Believe me, I've heard them!





    Listen to American songs and repeat the lyrics if necessary. After a while, you can become acquainted with words more easily. Read newspapers, books, magazines, anything that you can get your hands on. That way, you can learn about stuff and imporve English at the same time.





    It can be boring to learn vocabulary but it's about the only way to drasitcally improve. Just keep going and you will get there.





    By the way, your English is already very good (written). Hope this helps and good luck!I'm a chinese girl, any good advice for me to learn english?
    your english seems pretty good already(probably better than most of the native speakers on yahoo answers, actually)





    to improve, just spend time (more than you might normally) having conversations with native speakers. the more you practice, and the more you get used to speaking smoothly, the better you'll get.
    I am chinese as well. My method was to watch TV with the captions on, that really helped me. Anyways, best of luck in the future with the english language!
    Your English is fine. Even native English speakers have to go through English class. Just watch alot of English or American movies you like, or movies you like in Chinese that have been dubbed in English. Do the same for books. Chances are you might like popular stuff like Harry Potter. I'm sure it has both a Chinese and an English version.





    Also, visit buildyourmemory.com to help facilitate the process.





    Have fun. Good luck!
    hi i'm chinese but raise in US well never speak in chiese just start speaking in English dont stop if u have to speak in English alone and never speak in chinese again also make friend with pple who r really good at english or just go to a place that pple only speak in english
    If you have any close American friend, ask one of them to help you. To be fluent in any language, you have to have a wide range of vocabulary.
    open up your eyes..
    http://www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/learni鈥?/a>
    your english seems a lot better than most users of yahoo answers... so I would suggest asking somewhere else... try a local university or community college
    I'm Chinese too. But I speak/write English better than I speak/write Chinese. If you want to improve English orally, hang out with friends who speaks English as their first language. Speak English in your daily conversation. Learning new words are good, if you know how to use it properly.





    Also, read English newspaper everyday including the comics. The comics in the paper use proper English, so no worries of learning the wrong thing. Listen and watch English news on your local television channel. But, sometimes, these newscasters might pronounce certain words wrongly or by mistake as well. You can also learn by watching English movies and dramas with subtitles to help you understand and speak more accurately. Listen to English radio station as well.





    Want a fun way to learn English? Listen to English songs that you like, Google the lyrics and print it out. Each time you listen to the song, listen and try to sing it from the printed lyrics. I bet that would be fun.
    try reading a lot of books... mystery, action, romance... anything, just read them. that's how i learned how to speak english
    You have to use the new language. At first, you'll feel really clumsy with it, you won't want to speak, you'll be shy, but just use the language: speak, write. And don't write to yourself. Write to other people. This question is a good start. When you have a reason to communicate and you have something to say, it gives you a reason to study more.
    Um you seem to speak better English than most Americans in our post-literate society. And think about it this way most Americans if they tried to learn Chinese would completely fail and probably not be able two speak more than a few phrases. But keep taking speech lessons and here is an out there suggestion...join a choir. Not a gospel choir or anything but a traditional choir that sings classical music and uses good British diction. That will make it much easier. I believe that is one of the reasons that I speak better English than most of my peers although I am an American.
    Listen to English radio. It will help. In fact, many people and babies learn languages through listening!





    From there, try to imitate them as they speak. Or listen to English songs.





    also, try talking to your friends in English. It'll be weird at first, but it is fun. Your friends will not mind as long as you don't irritate them.





    Happy listening! and speaking..
    If your in London, why don't we meet up %26amp; I'll teach you english in ways you only dreamed about!

    Okay so im a sophomore in high school and i like this freshmen girl (girls advice only)?

    So i like this freshmen girl in my spanish class but she has like these three retarded freshmen who sit around her so how can i get her to notice me instead of these imature freshmen (i want her to get with me besides jus me being an older guyOkay so im a sophomore in high school and i like this freshmen girl (girls advice only)?
    Sit next to her an talk to her before class. The freshmen won't make you get out of their seat. They are way too scared. Go for it! Good Luck!








    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj1LhpHrQ4EBLZwU_JSSiJ7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090911124622AAo16rIOkay so im a sophomore in high school and i like this freshmen girl (girls advice only)?
    okay talk to her before class or ';bump'; into her and start a conversation, this is a classic but successful way.
    Dude same **** with me!


    Just show her that your mature but can be funny at the same time.


    I hate freshmen dudes, there annoying.
    Dude your a sophmore!!!! PHAAAHAHAA Ummm they are probably hotterr duhhh! =p
    ummm...How about you actually talk to this girl on the way out of class sometime? If all else fails, ask about homework.
    find a girl with the same age as you?

    I am making a birthday party for an 11 year old girl, I need advice...?

    I need themes, or anything, any fun games to do at a party, invitations, food, etc, she is NOT a girly girl. She is not a tomboy either, like in between. I need help, her birthday is in January.I am making a birthday party for an 11 year old girl, I need advice...?
    Depending on where you live (or rather, if it is cold enough where you live)...





    - Skating (Maybe you could do outdoor skating at night, then come back to your place for pizza, and maybe a movie and a sleepover?)





    - Same thing as above except for tobogganing instead of skating.





    And then, there are always the classics...





    - Movie theater, then a sleepover.





    - At home spa (but since you have mentioned that she is not that much of a girly girl, this might not be the greatest.)





    - Rock climbing (this is great, especially if she's athletic. Lots of my friends have done this)





    I remember when I was younger, my mom would take us to random fun places for my birthday parties. I think when I was 10, we went to an indoor roller skating park. When I was 11, we went to a trampolining place where they taught us how to do tricks and flips on the trampolines (this was probably my most fun birthday party ever! I would definitely recommend it.)


    Also, when my friend was turning 11, we went to this place where you paint your own ceramic cups, places, bowls, etc., and then they put them in the oven for you and you get to take them home. That was fun.











    As for food, it kind of depends on the number of kids that there are going to be. If you're going to be feeding a crowd, like 10+ kids, then I would recommend something simple like pizza, hot dogs, hamburgers, etc., or else it can get kind of expensive (if you go to a restaurant), or time consuming (if you're going to cook yourself).





    However, if you are going to be having only a few kids, then you could splurge a little bit and take them out to a restaurant, since it won't be as expensive. I would recommend Montana's, Kelsey's, Swiss Chalet, pretty much any of those family restaurants.





    Also, if you're going to have a sleepover (which I would highly recommend, 11 year old girls love them, regardless of weather or not the are girly girls), make sure you have tons of snacks. I would recommend chips, cookies, pop, pretty much whatever she wants. Don't worry about all the sugar, afterall, this only happens once a year :)





    Games... hmmmm. Pinyata, musical chairs, board games.





    For invitations, my mom used to always make them on the computer using some simple graphic design program. It's not that difficult at all. Just include the basic information, and put some pretty pictures.I am making a birthday party for an 11 year old girl, I need advice...?
    =) This is awesome, I was a huge tomboy/mellow comfy-wear/ neutral growing up. I'm 20 %26amp; just started wearing tight jeans at 18.


    Lets see here:


    **Theme---No theme, she's 11 but 11 is the new 13 today. Theme's are embarrassing. Just go with matching colors, like blue's, or green's. I like orange but that's me. Find out her favorite color, get plates, spoons, cake icing, invitations %26amp; napkins in that color. No characters, or animals. Just cool text or cool patterns.





    **Games: Just get a bunch of dvd's, ask her to make a list what movies she likes.


    -Jello slurpers, take little plates, put a few jello cubes on each, then have a race who can slurp up the jello the fastest get's a bag of candy. Do 2 girls at a time to race against each other.


    (NEEDS: Like 12 bags of hershy kisses, and about 30 jello cups, cut into cubes)





    ***Food: Pizza!!! Kick this old school, everyone loves pizza!


    Order depending on the number of people. A few bags of Chips %26amp; dip, Pepsi %26amp; Sprite, %26amp; Chocolate chip cookies.








    Have fun =)
    how about they just make sundaes with like ice cream, candy, sprinkles, syrup, cherries, whipped cream, nuts, bananas, different flavored ice cream, fudge, oreos, chocolate chips, white chocolate chips, graham crackers, peanut butter, you know everything in your pantry that contains sugar.... well except for real sugar duh





    and then they just make them and eat them and its so delicious but then they'll be jumping off the walls but then they could watch that one movie hairspray and dance the sugar off.





    but you might want to get a permission slip for them because in the movie michelle pfieffer says ';i screwed the judges'; so i don't know if that's appropriate for eleven year olds.
    Let her make the invitations. Pizza is always a good food idea. Sleepovers are always good party ideas, or the movies. Rent some new DVDs for the girls to watch. Get out some speakers to play music. Girls can usually make their own plans once the party starts. Examples: Truth or Dare, Makeovers, talking, etc. Man hunt is always fun to play once it gets dark outside. Make sure there are enough girls to have even teams...


    Maybe have shirts to tye-dye...





    Hope I helped %26amp; good luck(:
    Have a Nintendo Wii party. Allows her to enjoy bing the birthday girl, but the Wii should add lots of fun for those who enjoy a little action.