Hmmmm.... first off... i think we all know what crush means.. its an admiration towards someone... either a celebrity, a player, or even your classmate or schoolmate! It's either you like him 'cause he/she is smart, he or she is good at something... or just like everyone else.. 'cause of his/her cuteness!
i know we all want our crushes to like us just the way we are, right? and to notice us or at least to know that we exist in this chaotic world! or even know our first name...
and we kept glancing at him or her every time we have a chance... but has he or she ever caught you looking? *smiles* wooohoooo!
and when you see him or her.. you blush and do that ';guppy effect'; (it means you tingle! haha)
okay these are the ways.. i've gathered it up! and i think it really helps! only if your crush is at the campus... haha...
1. Have eye contact! but! don't make it too obvious.. :D
When you pass by him or her... try to look in his/her eyes.. notice how amazing they are... :D but then quickly look away!
2. Call his/her name!
Everyone reacts when someone calls his or her name... but one thing that will make him/her notice you without intentionally calling him/her is that... when you see a person you know (with the same name as your crush) and your crush at the same place.. you shout his/her name! Then both your friend and your crush will look but then your crush notice that you approach your friend who has the same name.. (believe me! this works every time!) :D
3. Smile at him... *smiles*
This is the simplest and most effective of all! Just simply smile at him/her and you'll never know your crush will smile back!
*smiles*
*smiles back*
*faints*
NOTE: but make sure you smile at him at the right time so that he/she won't think that you've gone mad by looking at him in a long period of time....
4. Know his or her great buds!
Just be friendly with them... You'll have lots of friend to be with in time of need... Just talk about everything naturally... Except the part of your crush! And you get to talk to him/her too!! and the bonus is that.. you get to see your crush in their environment when they are all oh-so-comfortable!
5. Dress nicely... :D
Choose clothes that fits your personality so that he will be able to know what kind of person you are... You gotta stand out in the crowd! And the hair.. you can experiment what style you would like! Be creative!
I don't know if you feel this way too but does your crush stands out in the crowd? Like, you really know if he's there or something? Oh well! it does to us! :D haha!
6. Join contests at your school where you can display your talent!
Join some contests that you will be able to win! Like declamation, Art contests, dance contests or even quiz bees! And your crush will be like ';Woah! She/he is good at this! Cool!'; Show them what you're good at!
7. Talk a lot!
It really pays off being a talkative person! Talkative = lots of people will listen! And you gotta be funny too! And the best thing that can happen is seeing your crush listening and laughing! And that makes your heart jumps, ain't that right?
8. Earn a nickname that everyone knows!
Earn a nickname.. a positive nickname! Like ';Miss/Mister Linguistic'; and it does pay off knowing different language! :D or even ';Einstein';... or simply just your nickname.... you never know he might start calling you with that nickname!
9. Know what your crush likes!
Know what his/her hobbies... whatever he/she likes to do.. you gotta show interest! I guess we all know that if you have a crush, you look for something you have in common! Even though its senseless! Like, you have the same favorite color..stuffs like that.... But things begins with these stuffs! :D Kinda true ya' know!
10. And last! Just be yourself when you are around him/her!
Don't try be someone you're not.. 'cause that's just like living a lie! And believe me..that's horrible at the end! Just act natural! Try not to blush! And forget that you will just blabber in front of him! He might even think it's funny! :D
So what are you waiting for? Go and let your crush notice you!Advice for a shy girl who wants a guy to notice her?
Like you I am also shy when it comes to guys. But I'll tell a story that happened to me. There's this guy that I like and he owned a really awesome truck that I liked. Well one day I got up the courage to wave at him, then the next time I actually said hi, then I told him that I liked his truck. I did this a few times and actually got to talking to him a little more and one day I was at home and I got a text from him. He hadn't even asked me for my number ( cause he's shy also) but I sell Avon to his mom and he got my number off the back of the Avon book!! So my advice would be to just start out with a simple hi, how are you doin of something like that.
you have to do things to bring attention to yourself but not in a bad way. talk to him and flirt a bit, smile at him, compliment him, ask him about himself and let him know your interested. since your shy this might be a hard ordeal but you can always let him know how you feel without actually saying it, make eye contact and brush against him when you pass by, smile, be friendly and cute and see where it goes from there! good luck! %26lt;3
oh and alot of guys find shy girls very flattering so dont worry too much about it just try to be yourself
honestly, i really would love to help you, but i have the same exact problem. i can talk to any guy, except the one i like. i would say just be confident and be yourself, but thats easier said than done
If you get are able to say ';hi'; to him at least everyday, you will gain confidence to talk to the particular person.
Me too! I'm super shy!! Sorry I couldn't help but good luck!! :D
Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't just try to get a guy to look your way, you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below.
# Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. As a general rule, guys don't expect girls to change. Resist the temptation to put on a show or to do anything that just isn't you just to get his attention.
# Get a new look. Don't change who you are (you never want to do that because you'll actually end up changing yourself) just try something different; if he doesn't like you for who you are let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, just because variety's the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other okay looking girls giving him the eyes, because beauty is common, but a good outlook and a great energy are very rare.
# Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.
# Flirt. Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. If he reacts and you don't think its real (he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, let him know he can't). If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is 'all that'. For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego.
# Start up conversations that have to do with if it's where you are or if he's talking to you. Make sure you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him. Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or GIGGLE nonstop. He can get kind of scared and make fun of you, no matter how old you are, guys will always be the same. Be yourself! Just be who you are, thats the # 1 quality guys look for in a girl.
# Hang out with him often; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an interesting topic, for example if your at a football game ask confidently, but cutely ';did i miss any action?';. This will tell him that you want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion so he will automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics) the whole game. Start slowly like a movie or party try not to make it so noticeable cause he might not be interested.Talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question. Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. You could even compliment him or ask for help. A good opener is spray two different perfumes on each wrist, then go up to him and ask him his favorite. This should get him to talk to you. Also be friendly to his friends to help him feel more comfortable around you. Some guys don't notice girls unless they talk to the guy. 9. Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Tell him what you want him to do, etc.--just don't get too bossy!
10. Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.
11. Be brave. Stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. Ultimately, this will catch the attention and respect of someone who is going to work well for you, even if it turns out not to be this guy.
12. Don't be a slob! It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.
13. Just Talk To Him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will.
14. Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.
1. Some guys are way different than most. If you like a guy that
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