Thursday, July 29, 2010

Does anyone have any girl advice?

There's this girl in my school that I like. I liked her last year too, and i asked her out, but she said no. I want to ask her out again, but I want to be closer friends with her first. She's in a few of my classes, and I know the people she hangs around with. I don't really know what she's into, though. How could I become closer friends with her and know what she likes and doesn't like? How should I start a conversation?Does anyone have any girl advice?
Set across from her, grab her ankle, and put her foot in your crotch and ask her what she's doing after dinnerDoes anyone have any girl advice?
If she's a kind girl, then it shouldn't be too far. You could go and talk to someone you know sitting near her and sort of talk to her through the conversation, but keep it light. Or maybe if a group of people from your school are going out you could *casually* ask her if she wants to come along too, then talk to her there, learn some more about her.


The important thing is to get noticed (in the right way), then if she starts to like you more, it will get easier because she will talk to you as well.





Of course if you're feeling really bold you could go and sit with her and her friends at lunch and talk to them. She would definitely start to notice you then, and probably think you're funny (not in a bad way though! lol)
Speaking from experience. If she doesn't like you, there's really nothing you can do to force her. I had guys that liked me in high school, who I didn't give the time of day to (Looking back I do feel bad about that). Or, guys who like me, and I just wanted to be their friend. Then, there were guys I liked, who didn't like me back. Just part of life. If you truly want to be her friend, then I guess you can try, but if you're just trying to be her friend so that she will say yes the next time you ask her out, I don't think that will work too well for you, and you will end up being hurt.
I think you should hang out with the same people she hangs out with and find out that way .. Or if you are friends with one of her girlfriends see if they can help you out. Whatever you do DO NOT make it obvious you are into her. Personally, I think when a guy comes onto a girl letting her know he is interested she will automatically put a wall up, but if you become friends first next thing you know she is the one falling for you;)
in any of those classes, do you guys do team working projects? like does your teacher tell you to pick a team to work on a projest or assignment? if so, get to her team and that can be a start. or find her in the hallway and maybe carry her books, or send her a note in class and ask her if she would like to go out to a movie or something. if you REALLY like her, dont give up on her. good luck
Try to hang out with some of the same people she hangs with she may feel more comfortable in your presence. But don't seem like a stalker following her around and staring at her don't pay any attention to her, than she'll start wonder if you're still interested and want that attention again, like playing hard to get!
I suggest hanging out with the people she hangs out with, and try to join in the conversation and see what their into, try to get into the same stuff, and talk about it, an be fun to be around. Also pay attention to what guy friends of hers are like. What is important to her in a guy friend? Fashion? Sports? Easy going? Out going?
Going to be tough if you already ask and been shot down. I'd move on to greener pastures. Surely there are other girls around.

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