she is basically a serial dater
and verrryyy codependent, so she just latches on to any guy that crosses her path .
she wants advice she is with a guy but she is tired of him
and just wants to hook up with this other guy,who is a good friend
to both of us.
i just want to show her what she is doing...
ughh....How do give relationship advice to a girl that is NEVER single?
Tell her to watch Tough Love. That show is pretty good about showing girls their issues.How do give relationship advice to a girl that is NEVER single?
try talking to her about it, but be careful not to offend her because then she wont listen to you.
Umm.. I have a friend just like you, she is never single but, she went out with my best friend for like 8 months straight but, in between the months everyday she n he would break up. she asked me for advice i told her, as your friend i would break up with him because, you guys keep breaking up and he is hurting your feelings every time he breaks up with you. That is what she did, and now she is enjoying her life with this really cute guy that's really sweet to her. You should tell her that she is young and she should live her life not waste time with someone she doesn't like! Also, tell her to be single for a little bit maybe she will enjoy it!
It sounds like she might have low self esteem and she bases her worth on how many guys she can date. She probably feels it's better to have someone.....anyone.....rather than nobody! She needs to learn that there's no point being with someone just because she can be.She's not picking suitable guys that she can build a solid foundation with....and then, when the relationship doesn't work, it reinforces to her that she's not worthy.....and then goes and grabs another guy to try to prove to herself that she is!
If you're going to talk to her about it, you need to tell her that she's worth more than the quality of guys she's hooking up with.....that if she raises her standards and expectations she will attract a totally different type of guy. There's really not much you can say or do though until she's willing to admit she has issued that need to be resolved.
Why is it your deal? Let her live her life and hope that she figures out what she is doing on her own.
tell her to watch tough love it will show her what people think of her
tell her maybe she should be alone for some time and think things out instead of rushing things
Maybe she has her own lessons to learn and that will happen when it's right. If your her friend just be her friend- you don't have to agree with the way she goes about things but just be supportive if she needs you. Spend less time worrying about your friend and on more imprtant things.
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