Can i please get some good old girl to girl advice?

my relationship with my bf is going down the hill, he has asked me for a two week break when i need him so much, he needs to work out his own issues though so i respect his wanting space but i fear this might be a way to just leave wothout all the drama, i promised i wont call him in these two weeks that i would wait for him to do it, but this is really hard, i feel very alone, i need some empowering advice from wiser women, i am 23 but he is my first bf and we have been together for 14 mnths nowCan i please get some good old girl to girl advice?
I am a man. But I wanna answer yur question. Coz I think I know the answer. I did the same thing for my g/f once. I told her the same things. '; dont call me or dont come to me for 1 mounth.. I need time to think'; . She accepted (but she cried - her friends told me she cried ) ..After 45 days I found that I really need her. And I called her. I understood that I really love her. But 谋 found that she is with another boy. In this 45 days she found a new b/f from her work. Now they think to marry.. And we re both good friends with her.. DONT worry.. he will come back to you with a greater love. I am sure..Can i please get some good old girl to girl advice?
give him space. the more you try to restrict him, the bigger the chances that you'll lose him... you are still young maybe he has other things on his mind like his career... etc.
If he needs some space give it to him,it will be hard,but sometimes men just need some time to sort thier heads out.If you get back together after the two weeks you really know its meant to be.
Actually i'm only 16. But i think you should really take this time to experience the life without him. Be independent and be strong. I know you love him but realize that no one but yourself completes you.
well,, im only 14 n i have a bf too n he did this to me, cept it was a 5 week break, it was so hard


but i woodnt worry.. guys need space for.. well guy stuff


i think if he wants a break,, tht he really does just want a bit of space,, dont hang off him as much n give him time with his mates,, if anything i found the break better for our relationship and the break might be good, he might see how lost he is without u :D





whatever happens, happens for a good reason.. best of luck hun xxx
Only time will tell, i myself am in a relationship that is going down hill (because i keep accusing him of cheating on me), he said hes had enough and wants a break, i said no, we need to work through this.Can i ask what it is that is causing your relationship to go down hill?...
I would take this opportunity to go out as a single woman and check out all the other ';fish in the sea';. 2 weeks is a long time to sit around and just wait for your boyfriend to decide what he is doing. Make the most of those 2 weeks and when/if he calls, you make the decision of whether you want him back or not. No reason to sit around in the depression, when you can look at is as a vacation. Go out, party...flirt...have a great time. Do things that you couldnt do as a couple. If this is a 2 week break then make the most of them. When/if you guys get back together then you can look back at this time as one of those ';good times';.
hi girl, i think that you should respect his wishes and give his space, and when the 2 wks is over. dont call him in 2 weeks time he if he wants to be with you and he is truly sorry for all this than he will contact you first.


i think that you will get over him if he doesnt call you back. if he calls and says he wants to be just friends that respect that also.


he will soon find out what he is missing. and who knows by that time it will be to late for him. you snooze you loose


and go out with friends and just enjoy urself . dont sit around and wait for him , for all you know he might not deal with his issues alone, so be faithfull but enjoy urself aswell with your friends.life is to sort, enjoy it sweety
Hang in there, you really need to get out and keep yourself busy so you don't think too much about it.


Maybe he will come back after 2 weeks and maybe not, but either way, you need to be ok with yourself. Easier said than done, I know, but if after the 2 weeks he hasn't contacted you, then I think you have your answer. Still, after 14 months, he will absolutely owe you an explanation.


Stay busy!!!
no.because,its fun to have a young girlfriend then old.


like me.i'm young and fresh...!
couples are supposed to stay together thick and thin, if he thinks you cant help him through the tough times i dont think this guy is for you


sorry babe
He needs space? Then let him have it. You just might find during this 'break' time, that you needed the space as well. Use this time to be yourself again and not someone who depends on a man. Ever heard of that saying, ';If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was.';? Just keep it in mind as you two start this 'break'. And know in your heart that if the stars determine you two are really not meant to be together, that there is someone out there much better for you...just put it in God's hands and everything will be okay.
give him his break, if he comes back he's yours if he doesn't he never was your anyway and your better off without him. It will hurt but time is a great healer.