have little codes and stuff that you have to follow why cant you just be straight forward with everythingI need girl advice from girls?
well you cant really know what a girl is thinking..
your right! i had codes with my cousin and we would alwase have a code for a boy or something we liked. it would be hard for people to understand, but thats why they are codes, right?
well it would be very difficult for you to find out what we are thinking cuz we alwase mix our feelings but just watch out for signs that that girl you like may give you. here are some tips to know if a girl likes you.
--good luck :-)
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That's an inaccurate generalization. Most women are very easy to understand, and so are most men. If you set aside what you WANT to believe, and look at what someone does or says from a third-party's perspective, I find that it becomes strikingly clear what someone is thinking about.
Men don't think about a lot at once, and are more simplistic than women. Women think about several things at once, and therefore are more complex, I'll give you that- however, if you are paying any attention at all, you'll notice that women tend to think that men think the same way chicks do. Which isn't the case. Therefore, women think that men have agendas that aren't being fully exposed, because that's how women are much of the time. So women are always trying to figure men out, which makes it that much more complicated for the men to figure the women out because there's another layer of thought going on (his mystery agenda) blocking what she may have been thinking about to start with.
In short: both genders are straight forward. They are just straight forward in different ways.
I think girls tend to not be straightforward because we fear rejection so much. We are afraid that the more we open our heart and our feelings to a guy, the more likely he will reject us. Guys are not as straightforward as they seem. Sometimes girls have a hard time deciphering guys and they don't want to admit if they like a guy, for (like i said before) fear of rejection. Girls are also much more emotional than guys. We want to connect in a way that guys don't. Sometimes we girls might over think a situation because we are so emotional.
what kind of answer are you looking for ?
we don't LOVE beating around the bush you know,
and there is always a different reason for 'not being straight forward'
a lot of times, it's because saying things out right sound idiotic.
from experience, i can't just say:
'hey, i think you might be gay.' or
'well, i find you incredibly annoying and a complete jerk.' or
'i don't feel fine. i feel like crap, and it's all your fault.'
now if we said that,
then you'd be asking a different question ; )
we're as complicated as men are !
Why can't u just be straight forward with everything!? Maybe u don't have to read us and just go with u instinct. Boys are more difficult to read then girls. I mean they annoy you and tease u - but does anything hapen - nooo! Then they're on to the next girl! I personally don't have codes and as far as i know - neither do none of my friends. Just be honest! If you want to ask a girl out - just do it! We areciate ur honesty and unshyness - if thats a word! LOL! Hehe! x
No girls don't have a secret code. Its just we understand the same sex more than the opposite sex does.
If your trying to hook up with a girl then be yourself, most girls like good humor so find some good jokes :)
If your interested in the same things then thats a good sign but don't creep the girl out because she will avoid you.
So heres some tips:
1. Be fashionable but have your own style statement
2. Be yourself
3. Good humor
4. Love life
xx
ok, u want to kno what a girl is thinking? first off, GOOD LUCK W/ THAT!
even a girl has trouble understanding ther girls. but anyways, if u ask her, how are u? and she waits, then says fine, she is not at all fine! also, if she looks lost in her own little world, dont bug her, she is usually thinking about something important, ask her how she is doing, we like that!
girls tend to show there emotions more than guys...
if they dont then its because we are not sure on how boys will react to what we think..
girls tend to think ';omg is he going to judge me if i say this? or if i do that'; whereas guys seem to just go in fort it..girls genually are alot more complecated because we all have thoughts running through our heads and panic about what boys may think about us...we worry about others oppinons..well most girls do..like me.
wait this isnt answering your question!! :S sorry lol
might help a lil bit i really dno oops!
ok #1. girls do not have codes boys are just stupid (DUHHH) #2. why arent guys straight foward with everything? and finally #3. if you want to know what a girl is thinking you ASK her! (again i say, DUHH)
Well we think the same thing bout guys cuz they act all smooth around us but with their homies their like a different person.... N us girls were jus scared of gettin hurt so we try 2 hide R feelins as much as our heart will let us......Kno wat i mean
because that's what girls do. its up to you to learn how to decipher the codes. practice makes perfect. good luck man.
girls have codes, guys have codes (way, way more simple codes). you want to understand a girl? DONT, you will never, EVER, so stop it, let her try to figure YOU OUT, HA! revenge is sweet
most of us girls are straight forward. if you know a girl who's not straight forward go ask her you make it sound like as if all girls are not straight forward in general
Why would tyou want to know whats going on ;)
Besides. Boys are pretty emotionless. xD
We don't have little codees.
Although..you sya it like guys are REALLY straightforward.
Harddd =/
you cant really know wat we are thinking but just communicate wit words the best way you know how
girls all think differently so theres not a certain way a girl thinks
Just talk to her! Thats the easyist way of knowing what she is thinking. I'm 14 so i know this kinda stuff. good luck!
yeah... right.
Guys are REALLY straight forward.
you cant know what a girl is thinking
oh and like guys are so stragihtforward?
you won't ever know what a girl is tinking :D
be a little more specific. what is it that you wanna know?
ya like guys arent the same!!! gosh its like hitting my head against a brick!
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