I was with my best friend and a girl and we were walking in the hall way and she started talking about things and i didnt know what to say besides ';thats cool'; and like i wanted to talk but it felt like her looks were getting to me. Any tips on how i can push aside the looks and just look at her as any other person? and how do i come up with stuff to say?I need some girl advice please!?
Be yourself!!!!
If her looks make you all goooey like a normal teen boy then just look straight ahead when walking and talking or at a point behind her head!
DONT BE NERVOUS!!!
she might be too! theres nothing to fear!
girls arent as complicated as most boys believe us to beI need some girl advice please!?
Be your self, don't be afraid of who you are! Girls respect that. If you find your self saying ';thats cool'; catch it and try to do some small talk.If you find that there is nothing to say just start up conversations,and If you like her try and work up the nerves to ask her out yourself. Try not to get someone else to ask her or even text it girls like things that are sincere and that come from your heart.
I hope that this helps
maybe you can just comment, like you said,';that's cool';, and then just say something that interests you. BE YOURSELF.
if you try to say something that you think will interest her, its only gonna go down hill. if you make a bad choice, and pretend to be something your not(and she somehow miraculously falls for it), remember, you can't keep it up forever.
if she doesn't accept you the way you are, then forget about it. that would say she was just a pretty girl with bad taste. although don't ignore her you guys may still have a chance in the future if she shows no interest now.
if you need more help, just contact me.
Well first of all when you talk to her make sure you start of by looking in her eyes. That shows respect and it should help you. Second listen closely to what she says, you will find something to say for sure. Instead of just listening to her try to also ask her questions, you wouldn't be the one thinking too much, you will find out a little bit of stuff about her, and you won't run out of stuff to say.
Is she hot or ugly...
HOT: If she's hot and you don't want to be in a relationship with her just let go. She isn't the girl for you andshe's your friend. Don't mess up your friendship just becuase you think she's pretty. If you like her as more than a friend ask her out (only if you think she feels the same way. You don't want to make your friendship awkward.)
UGLY: Is she nice? It doesn't matter. Is she a good friend? It doesn't matter. You don't like her like that. She is your friend. Her looks shouldn't matter.
wow thats sweet u wanna see past her looks...but anyway maybe you'll get used to it. that happens over time, it might take a school year, it happened to me. but she might be happy jus being in your presence or talkin to you. jus give it time, her personality will shine right in ur face and u'll start feeling attracted to you
-best wishes
tell her you like her
ask her out
marry her
have kids
then leave her
marry hot gogo dancer
(last 2 r optional)
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