What is the best advice to a girl that is only 12 & is dating a 15 year old?

%26amp; they tell each other '; I love you';!





I have tried telling her she will regret it but she is just like ';Everyone tells me that %26amp; I just want to do what I want %26amp; everyone needs to get over it!';





help.....please..... anyone.....?What is the best advice to a girl that is only 12 %26amp; is dating a 15 year old?
I would advise you to talk to this girl's parent - if you really aren't the parent - and let them know what's going on. I can understand that you might be a concerned friend, which you should be VERY concerned...in that case, you need to tell your friend/daughter that she is young and older guys are gonna use her.





Twelve year old girls think that it sounds nice to say ';I love you'; to a guy - other than dad - and that is the first mistake. By then, HE has already got her - hook, line and sink em.





I am sure that she will just do what she wants, but a real friend would be honest.What is the best advice to a girl that is only 12 %26amp; is dating a 15 year old?
Her parents need to step in
Dont tell her anything, she will just have to leave the hard way. Cause as the saying goes, '; a hard head, makes a soft as@!$.
use a condom cuz thats all he wants or im sure hes cheatin on her
I would let her date him but first talk to the boy and ask to talk to his parents too. Ask the parents if he is dating another girl.


Allow him to go on dates only if they are double dates or if he comes over and hangs out at your house.
Where the heck are her parents? If that was my daughter I would be at the boy's house telling his parents to keep him away from my daughter, and she would not be allowed to date at this age.
Try explaining the bommerang effect to her. I was 17 my wife was 13 when we started dateing. It is definitly to much of an age difference at that young of an age. I broke it off, if it was meant to be than it would be. We got together 6 years later and have been happily married since then. My advice would be to try to get the boy to relize that he needs to live his life not be ';tied down';. That will also allow her to live her life. Best of luck!
what the hell is a 15 y/o doing w/ a 12 y/o....wow thats just wrong.
1. Talk to her about pregnancy


2.In my school, is someone is dating someone that's like 3 0r 4 years older, I tell them the person must be a loser cause they can't score someone in their own grade.
First of all if a 12 year ever said ';I just want to do what I want and everyone just needs to get over it'; would be grounded so fast that and for so long that she'd see her 21st birthday before she saw the light of day again. But its her first love and we've all been there. Explain to her about safe sex and how love at that age is often fleeting. And also explain to her that sometimes guys use that line to ';score';. She's young and hopefully all will turn out well. You didn't say if the boy was a nice boy or one of those ';punks';.
talk to the boys parents^^
when i was 13 i dated a 15year i had just truned 13 and and i told him i loved and he said it back and i got my heart broke all he wanted was sex so and yes he was my 1st but dont give in like i did cause i have hated my slef ever since and me and him dated 4months from nov 06 to feb or marchof 07 so i started dateing him at 12 but just dont have sex wait
tell the 12 year old girl that the 15 year old is pathetic and using her. he can't find someone his own age! if he was only one or two years older, it would be okay. but he is three years older and in high school! your daughter is only in seventh grade. her boyfriend is a sophomore in high school! doesn't this bug you?





if talking to your daughter doesn't work, find a way to contact the 15 year old's parents. this is a very troubling situation and i hope you can get to the bottom of this!





my best wishes! :]
None of them are old enough to have sex or anything so whats the problem?


Maybe they do love each other (: Its cute


Its only a 3 year age gap, no big deal


3 years is nothing





No one ever makes a big deal of 26 year olds going out with 29 year olds do they?





As long they are both sensible, respectable kids then I shouldnt worry to much (:
Dont have sex until you are married.
my friend emily was just like this.


and we didnt know what to do about her either.


my friend gave emily a condom (haha)


and emily was like, whats this for?


and my friend said ';well if your going to be dating older guys, youre gonna need one of them';


emily stopped dating older guys since then.





i'm not saying do that and scare her into not dating older guys, i just wanted to share that story with you.
i will try to give you some advice for helping her but sometimes they just have to learn the hard way, first off shes 12 and dating a 15 year old thats disgusting on the 15year old guys part, im guessing that the 15 is going to want a closer relationship then someone her age he has had time to date and learn it is probably her first experience like this and though i could be wrong she is probably a lot more in LOVE with the thought of dating and being in love, more then anything, she probably also gets a thrill by everyones disapproval and that draws her closer to him, in my experience at that age everything is new and exciting about liking people and stuff (puberty) so my advice would be first to accept him, hopefully with ur approval the girl will be less interested, and if that doesnt happen he'll probably get bored with it after awhile with a 12 and 15 i doubt theyre going to the same school, he will want an older more mature girlfriend someone his age or older not the opposite yes this will break your daughters heart but it gets rid of a sleezy older boyfriend, i really feel for you i wish i had better advice but im not that good at this subject recently my girlfriend left me for someone i thought was my friend so i hope i helped but i might just have written a lot and wasted like 3 minutes of your time bye
Not to have sex with him, and if she IS going to she needs to use protection. Get her to look after one of those mechanical babies for a weekend. Maybe let her and her boyfriend spend time together in a safe supervised place. If you try to stop her she will only rebel so provide opportunities for them to be together without being alone, 15 year old boys think about sex A LOT and I wouldn't let her be alone with him with a door shut, if he really likes her he will hang around and wait for a few years to get closer, if he doesnt he will soon get sick of the supervised dates and will leave.
If i was her mother i would forbid this ';dating';! My god she is 12 years old!! Too young to date and too young to know what love is.


I would tell the 15 year old boy to stay away from her also.
Just tell her to be ready for anything and since she's so young tell her to be careful. It could be really fun and/or heartbreaking. Let her go since she wont listen to anyone. She'll learn from this and hopefully it'll make her a better person in the future.
lol
they can't date when he is 18 or he risks getting arrested for statuatory rape
i say keep your legs closed or use protection
Why would you want her to break up with him?It seems a nice relationship.what is so wrong for you?The best advice is ';Just dn't do anything you don't want to if he insists and don't make him do something if he doesn't want and it is not important.What is important?Not drinking or smoking is important - don't let him do it - it is not healthy for him.Don't you do it too';.
Ok, once and for all, parents.


Here are the ages for dating.


No child under age 12 should be dating.


12 year olds can date other 12 year olds, and 13 year olds. No older.


A 13 year old can date another 13 year old, or a 12 year old.


A 14 year old can date someone age 14, 15, or 16.


A 15 year old can date someone age 14, 15,or 16.


A 16 year old can date someone age 15, 16, or 17.


A 17 year old can date someone age 16 or 17.





We're talking maturity levels here. A 12 wants to hold hands and kiss. A 15 year old wants to do ALOT more than kiss.


What do the parents think? Do they know? If not, TELL THEM.
This is not safe. You as a parent need to step up and get your daughter out of that relationship. He is going to take advantage of her, and it will be your fault for not protecting her.
Point her to the stats in the CDC website, re: pregnancy, VD, HIV, Hep C, Gonorrhea, encephalitis, Lupus, Papilomavirius Cancer, Herpes, Warts, trichomonas, Yeast,Gardenella, etc, etc,


Once she sees all those diseased private areas and she wants to expose her insides to all those parasites, viruses, fungus %26amp; carcnogenes you will at least know that she had her eyes wide open.
Oh man!! I assume you are mom by the way you are asking the question and, well, being a mom of a 12 year old boy and a 10 year old girl I am dreading being in your shoes!! At 12 (and at 15) they don't know what ';love'; is, but you know this. Are they having sex?? If so I'd have a serious talk with her about STDs and pregnancy and be honest about the NEED of using a condom...not only for pregnancy but for the STDs. Try to leave the line of communication open so that you can gain as much information about their relationship as you can. I'd also talk to his parents, if you can. I doubt they are thrilled that their 15 year old is telling a 12 year old he loves her. Become friends with his parents so you can put up a united front. You'll probably just have to deal with it until one of them does something to break the other's heart...then you'll have to deal with the aftermath of that. I doubt there is anything you can tell your 12 year old...she's not going to believe anything you say. Just be open with your communication and keep talking...that's your best defense. Good luck.