Monday, August 23, 2010

Can Somebody Please Give Me Girl Advice :l?

Well, I am a little stuck, with girls. There's this one girl who I really like, but the problem is, I cant work up the courage to talk to her, iv spoken to her once or twice, but they where really short, ';Do we have homework'; kind of things, please help me out, thanks.Can Somebody Please Give Me Girl Advice :l?
well, i'm sure if you have noticed her before, then she has noticed you as well. who knows, she could be feeling the same about you. ok first start with something simple, if she looks your way, don't get scared..smile. if she smiles back, that's a good thing. then you should go up to her later in the day, say hey, how are you. i'm shy myself but, i make myself do these things because i know i'll feel better:)Can Somebody Please Give Me Girl Advice :l?
well i would start with thinking about how confidence will help you. girls love huys who are bold and have the courage to ask them out or just talk to them! start with saying things like, how was your weeknd, or how do you think you did on the test? once you establish a friendship, ask her to come to the movies with you and a bunch of frieds or walk her home from school. talking and getting to know her is going to help you alot. showing confidence (but not overly cocky) and being a sweet guy will capture any girls heart





Good luck!! :):):):)
Girls are hard....





Try to strike a conversation, does she do any sports, play band things like that. If she does, ask her how the last game (or if you go watch the game) tell her great she played. You can also try to see if you guys have anything in common and go with that.





You could always try getting your friends to talk to her friends to find out stuff for you, but that takes to much work





Talking to girls is a pain in the rear.
take it from there, ';do we have homework?'; then next ask ';what did you think of that lecture?'; ';Can I borrow your notes, I had to take a crap and missed half the film'; Just basically extend the conversations you are already comfortable with, until you start feeling more confident and can ask her something like, ';hey, can you stick around after school and help me with this project, I can tell you are smart and want your advice'; etc....
Girls search for guys with confidence..talk to her..get to know her..but only as a friend..don't play the friend card that long though cause then you might get stuck there..do it until you found if she feels the same way..talk everyday..then start flirting..if shes not into you you'll realize and if you're afraid of rejection you'll back off if not maybe you'll even take a shot? You never know until you try!
Girls are also shy.


If you want to talk to her, just do it.


I'm a girl, and I hate when we have to get up the courage to talk first.


If a guy speaks first, or shows his feelings, that's sexy and a definite plus.


Hope I helped you, if you need some ideas


feel free to ask.


~Haley :)
Yeah, you should really make the first move to start up a real conversation. It's seriously hot when a guy starts. Probably, she isn't even aware that you like her. I'm a girl, and I say that she'll relaize what a fab guy you are once you overcome your fear of talking to her.
I guess the only thing you can really do is bite the bullet and try and strike up a conversation with her,nothing ventured,nothing gained right?


I hope it works out for you. Good luck and best wishes for the future x
Well if guys talk to girl alot then we kinda know somethings up(: So talk to her more just start by saying hi and smiling then bring up interests and things lik that! Good Luck!











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Compliment her, say she looks nice. Remember, she's only human. You're only human. Calm yourself down when you talk to her. Breathe.


Good Luck





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Go up to her and say, ';Hi, I'm George, what do you think of the current economic situation?'; That should make her think.
say a little more than ';do we have homework';


girls hate being taken advantage of


say hey or how was your day


throw in some compliments


...who knows..maybe you ll start a relationship :)
ask her about what she's doing this weekend then on monday ask her how it went... she'll feel good that someone other than just her friends are thinkin of her.... oh but dont come of creepy and stalkerish
just say hi to her one day.


start talking to her more each day


see what happens


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This is why I do NOT enjoy talking to women. Inside your head, it FEELS like a game. But inside your heart, you want to express what you want to her.





The downside is, we are BANNED from expressing such feelings because, as most people say, you might lose your chance with this girl. Therefore, it becomes more like a game....and less about YOUR true personal feelings. The truth is, no one cares about your feelings but you. As hard as this will be, your feelings mean nothing... and the girl's feeling means EVERYTHING. It's like women have to be the CENTER of the UNIVERSE. I'm like, ';Dam_ bi_ch....! When are these women ever going to love themselves and not act like they have to be treated like a princess?';





Women forget that men are emotional sensitive creatures because they often only care about themselves. Such is life.





My advice, little boy, is to go up.. take the risks... and not give a da_n about what you say. I want you to say this, ';Hey, we've met and talked a few times. I want to get to know you on a personal level and I hope you don't mind. I think you'll be a very interesting person to know. Would you like to stay in contact? Perhaps a phone number? Email? Facebook?';





Once you gotten that cleared up... just wait for her reply. If she says no... then by all means, say, ';I understand. If you ever change your mind, here's my number and contact info. (Write it down on a piece of paper). It was nice talking to you.';





After that... just leave. zip zada nothing. That's it. Keep it a little mysterious. And forget you ever said anything. Then you move on to girl number 2,3,4,5,......100.





I say this because your odds of asking out 1 woman is slimmer than asking out 100 woman. I've been there pal... and it isn't a pretty picture. Guys like us must put our foot forward or else, we end up hating ourselves and our confidence. Practice, my friend and you shall find happiness. Don't you just hate living in this conservative society?





Looks like I'm better off asking a liberal woman out! Good luck dude.

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