Monday, August 23, 2010

What will be your advice for a girl getting marriage in 1 month?

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If you want a marriage to last, you have to have way more than lust.


You must BOTH be each others


BEST FRIEND and be


LOYAL and


RESPECT each others differences and needs; and


SHARE and CARE equally with real


BALANCE in the relationship.





In a marriage you must be willing to leave (the demon marriage killer) PRIDE alone;


and when there is a problem (and there WILL be)


work lovingly, and without pride to solve the problem.





If you get depressed because the other is not providing something you want, either talk with them to see if you can come to a COMPROMISE; or


STOP WANTING what you can't have.





When you but heads (and you will) BOTH of you must learn how to


AGREE to DISAGREE.





Don't get lazy about flirting with you love, and all good things will follow.





I wish you LOVE that lasts


stw


;)What will be your advice for a girl getting marriage in 1 month?
First off...let's address the wedding...there is no such thing as a perfect wedding, so don't stress out when something goes wrong. (and it will). Just relax and enjoy your special day.





Now, as far as the marriage goes...you get out of it what you put into it, and that goes for your husband as well. Always practice the three R's: Respect for self, Respect for others, Responsibility for one's own actions and you should be fine. Always say ';I love you'; every day and mean it. Be generous with your hugs and try to tell each other how much you cherish one another. Here's a big tip...you will NOT always love each other...yep, it's true...but you should always LIKE each other as a person. You must be good friends with each other in order for it to last. It is the friendship that gets you thru the tough and loveless times. Marriage is hard work, but if you are determined to make it last, then you must put in the overtime. Congratulations!!What will be your advice for a girl getting marriage in 1 month?
This day in time marriage is very tough, but there are a few things that I have realized to make marriage a little easier. When there is a problem try to find a happy medium, always be firm and stand your ground but do not be overbearing, divide the house and yard duties or do them together, if there are children divide the responsibilites and allow nights out with friends, allow nights out just the two of you. Comprimise on all money situations and both sit down to pay monthly bills so that husband and wife see first hand the financial situation this will cut down on the overspending of money which normally ends with arguments. I hope this will help you these are a few things that my husband and I have changed and it makes things better. also an important tip in a marriage you have to pick your battles meaning there are some things about your partner that you will never change so pick a battle that is important to you and there is a good possibility of winning. No sense in arguing for no reason.
Don't do it
Work at it everyday. As long as you love each other and put effort into your releationship it will work. Plus, always laugh at things, everything doesn't need to be serious, like who should take out the garbage. Don't sweat the small stuff. Enjoy being together.
COMMUNICATE!!! You both have to work at it every day of your lives. You will never change him - no matter how hard you try. So make sure his bad habits are something you can live with forever.
he is not perfect he never will be, always talk out your problems and learn to let the small things go...
Don't be surprised when he serves you with divorce papers. With 50% of ALL marriages failing, her chances of ';til death do us part'; aren't great!
Chill!! and enjoy every bit of it..learn to cooperate..and have a blast! good luck!!
Noooooooooooooooo..........don't do it........don't......you will regret it..........nooooooooo.................d鈥?lol.





Congratulations! Have fun, you will enjoy every Minuit of it. Don't let him help with the plans though, us guys are guaranteed to screw thing up. Work at staying happy every day, and you will be together forever.


Best wishes and good luck with the rest of your married life together!

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