I got this girl pregnant and need advice?

I was out with and got this girl who I work with, pregnant, after a night of drinking. I found out shes almost two months pregnant recently with my kid. Problem is, I have a girlfriend and don't want this girl to have the baby. I'm too young to be a father (I'm 22)





How do I convince her to have an abortion?I got this girl pregnant and need advice?
Youre a bad person!I got this girl pregnant and need advice?
Typical! Why'd you have sex with her if you have a girlfriend? Why didn't you use a condom. I've had sex plenty of times crazy drunk and didn't end up pregnant. Be a man! GOD THIS IS WHATS WRONG WITH SOCIETY!!! NO ONE HAS ANY CONSEQUENCES!!!. Great idea, torture an innocent child to death! Good one!
If you're trying to ';convince'; her, then obviously she hasnt made up her mind, and you're a dick for trying to ask us how to pressure her. We dont give a crap that you're too young to be a father; thats just justification for the decision you want this girl to make. I hope she makes whatever decision is BEST FOR HER, and if that means abortion, then at least, thankfully, for her that means she has no ties with your scandalous *ss.





Both of you are stupid. I could be stone cold drunk and STILL insist upon a condom.
You can't convince her to do anything. First you can try to talk to her and tell her how you feel but you can't tell her what to do. Maybe next time you'll use a condom and think twice before you cheat on your girlfriend. Step up and be a man. You can make a baby but not take care of one?? People like you give guys you do the right thing bad raps.
You can't, you should have thought of the consequences before cheating! I will wait to see you on the maury show!
You can't convince her to abort this baby. And why are you sleeping around when you already HAVE a girlfriend...is this your baby's fault? I don't think so. You put yourself in this situation and now you have to take responsibility!
22 is old enough to have a kid....





and you can't stop her
Well you can't convince her to have an abortion.





Unfortunatley for you - it's HER choice.





Now if you are saying you are not ready to have a baby then you shouldn't be sexually active! You knew the consequence before you did the nasty and now you are about to pay the price.





My advice to you is, tell your girlfriend whats going on and if she sticks around good for you, but if she leaves you, well so be it. You need to be there for the soon to be mother of your child and support her decision and be there when your child is born. Your current girlfriend should be your least worry right now. Step up to the plate and take responsibilty for your actions and be a ';father'; and a ';dad'; to your child. Do the right thing and be supportive.
You cannot and should not attempt to convince her of anything. You can let your wishes be known. But then you back off.


Your best opportunity to have a say in this was when you were considering or not considering birth control measures.....Next time, wear a raincoat, Man.
its your fault for not using protection and 2nd she is to far along to have a abortion which i think so..you should have kept that thing in your pant..now you should go and confess to your girl that you had cheated on her and that you are bout to become a father..boys today dont really care bout nething besides gettin sex or having a party...good luck dude you are going to need it when she has that baby!!
Cheater, Cheater!





You can't hunny!





It's her choice, and you had a choice also, to wrap it up, but you chose not to!





Make sure you apply for a Wal-Mart/Sam's Club credit card, you're going to need it to buy massive baby items!





Consider your relationship with your current girlfriend ova!!!





It's only a matter of time before she finds out you couldn't keep your little sausage in your pants!
you don't...it's not the baby's fault you made a mistake!! all you should do is tell your chick and be a man!
um hunni


that sucks that you have a girlfriend and a life and your only 22.


but you didnt think about any of that when you were having sex with the other girl.


and convincing her to have an abortion is just wrong and ridiculous you do know u are trying to convince her to kill your baby.


suck it up bud


and i hope she is smart enough not to get an abortion
ummmmm... you can't convince her to do anything but first thing i would do is have dna tests ran to make sure it actually is your baby so if it isn't she won't harrass you and threaten you with child support, second of all if you weren't too young to have unprotected negligent sex, youre not too young to have a baby. be a little wiser in your future decisions if you get out of this one, but if she doesn't have an abbortion, then you get what you diserve, you knew what could have happened, but you didn't care just so you could have a little self gratification, i know youre only human and only a guy but grow up you know what the consequences are oh and im 21 and have two children!!!!
You're not too young. You're 22! I'm 20 and I could handle having a child!





You may have a girlfriend, but she'll just have to live up to what you did. She's only a ';girlfriend';, so you probably won't be with her in the next 18 years, so don't worry about her. You need to live up to what you did.. you're not a child, so please don't treat this as if you are. If you don't want to be in this child's life, just pay child support. You don't have to see the child. I'm sure the child won't want to see you after you're considering telling the mother to abort him/her!
It's not up to you! If you don't want a baby don't have sex!





Be a man and deal with it!





I hope she hits you for a ton of child support!





The best thing you can do is pay the child support and get the hell out of her and the baby's life in any way but financial.





PIG!!!
Well its too late to turn the clock back. Have you talk it over with your parents and her parents. Perhaps you can consider the baby for adoptions. Usually the adopted kids they get very lucky first to be born and second is getting adopted by couples who really want and adore them.
sorry to say but u cant really make her do it ...its her choice ... why did u even sleep w her ?? if u had a girl friend .. maybe a baby could do u some good :) u never no .. hope things work out 4 ya ll
You cannot ';convince'; anyone to have an abortion .


You made the bed, now lie in it.
You don't convince her to do anything, it's her child too and she needs to make her own decisions. If you don't want a kid, keep it in your pants...
She and only she gets to decide if the child is aborted......personally I see it as murder. Furthermore if you didn't want a child you shouldn't have had sex. But now that you have, step up to the plate, be a real man and be a father to this child. And no I don't mean a just monthly check. Be the dad that this child deserves, that every child deserves. Children who have both parents in their lives tend to do better in many areas of their lives. I pray that you make the right choice and choose to be a real part of this child's, your child's life.
you're a piece of ****, ryan. guys like you make me happy i have a boyfriend who isn't a fuckin pig like you.
you both did it. she cant be the only one who pays for both of your mistakes. even if you will not stay with her you need to discuss and come to a conclusion regarding taking care of the child. you are the father. you and her brought that baby into this world. if she wants the abortion good for you both but if she wants to have it you cant really stop her. maybe speak to a lawyer if she is aware you do not want to be involved and she decides to raise the baby alone? (re: child support in the future)





use condoms.
way to man-up by planning to make an innocent baby pay for your mistake with his/her life. the girlfriend you're living a lie with would be so proud.
thats brutal. she would be selfish to keep the baby if you didnt want it. it would be the end of your social life if you have a kid so young. keep ya head up man and dont let these women get to you.
That's f'd up and very selfish. You don't have to be a part of this kid's life, as bad a that is itself, but you should not convince her to have an abortion if she doesn't want one! You could inflict years of guilt and regret on her, and of course it's not fair to the baby. I'm sure you were aware that sex can lead to pregnancy.
u r a f*ckin a$$hole. u should have that of that before u had sex with her. if she wants an abortion she will get one. my boyfriend wanted me to also and it isnt' that way to go. u just need to grow up and realize that she is having it no matter what u say and be a father and take care of it. if u had sex with that girl while u had this other girlfriend well than that is worse yet bc u cheated on her. if u got the girlfriend after having sex with the girl from work than if ur girlfriend loves u enough she will stay with u
It is her choice so you can't convince her. All you can do is tell her how you feel about it. Are you sure it is even yours? IF she slept with you, she might sleep with lots of people after a night of drinking.
Tough luck buddy, you did the deed now you have to suffer the consiquences!





I bet you werent running from her while you were getting your rocks off!! Now responsibility comes into it you want out? too bad stop acting like a child and take responsibility for your actions!! It's her choice not yourse!
You cant, its her choice! You were old enough to have sex, and now you are old enough to have a child. Grow up!
there is nothing you can do.


its her body, and at this point you really have no say in whether or not she should keep the baby or not.


maybe you can convince her of putting the baby up for adoption. because abortion is basically murder, and very wrong. a human life should never be taken away.


and maybe you should have thought about this before you went out drinking and hooked up with her.


hoenstly tho, at this point, talk to her tell her you need her to keep the pregnacy hidden and a secret from your current g/f i am sure she will understand, also talk to her about the adoption possibilities.


best of luck!