And at school im sort of the less popular sort of person, and she is quite the opposite, anyone got any ideas on what i can say to her?
Hints/tips would be good.
Best answer will be chosenSome girl advice please?
Start saying hey to her at school.. be casual about it though. Start with just being friends and don't make it seem like it's difficult for you to talk to her in person.. that may freak her out. Just be like hey what's up? and maybe mention something you talked about online. From there you'll be able to feel out whether she is into you or not :)
Please best answer this if it helped :) thank you.Some girl advice please?
advice, do NOT tell her the way you feel on the internet
you need to start talkign to her in person
';randomly'; bump into her in the hall ways and say whats up
';randomly'; find her at lunch?
once you start talking to her in person, even if its just small talk (like hello, whatsup, how was your weekend, that class is hard) then you should ask her if she wants to hang out--in person
online you should ask her what classes she's in, and find a class you have together. in person you should ask her if she wants to study at the library after school one day.
basically you really just need to talk to her in person a lot before you say how you feel. trust me on this, its realy not as hard as it seems.
when you talk to her, you need to seem confident. dont make her seem like your nervous to talk to her, make it seem like youve talked to her for ages....just have a smile on your face. haha
goodluck
Well like everyone else has basically said...the worst she can say is no.
So I think if you want to eliminate the confusion and what not, your best bet is just to be blunt and either tell her over MSN or in person how you feel and she what her response is. Also if she isn't feeling you then just tell her that's cool you just thought you would take a chance and tell her you'll talk to her later and/or see her around.
Sure it's hard, but if you don't take that chance and just ask her you'll never know.
I'd ask her to hag out through msn, then actually meet in person, but away from school so neither of you have to deal with the pressure of being i different cliques. I wouldn't profess your feelings to her until you've hung out a couple times, and even then don't be too forward. Just make sure you meet! I had a texting relationship with a guy who goes to my school once, but it never turned into anything because we didn't meet in person soon enough. And don't worry about her being more popular than you. It's just high school. :) Good luck!
This may sound completely stupid but talk to her over MSN first. If you arent confident with asking her at school, then MSN is the best choice.
I had the same problem last year where i started talking to a guy from my school over MSN, but he was really shy to talk to me at school. I admitted i liked him over MSN and he admitted he liked me. He asked to meet up with more before the end of the holiday and we went out to the cinema. It never worked out with me and him because he was too shy. Just because she is opposite to you doesnt mean she shouldnt like you. Start talking to her at school to bulid your confidence starting with small things like 'hi' in the corridor then once you feel really confident, get her on her own and tell her how you feel. Good Luck hun
%26lt;3 awww dont worry first of all u dont have to be the popular to get noticed by a girl %26lt;3 second take a deep breath and confront her but friends become closer friends. show he labels dont matter popular or not u like her. When u get closer look in her eyes when she talks or when u talk . Treat her with respect ! Than when the time is right talk to her in person (not pc) and say will u go out with me :) she might say yes , she might say no . dont have to high expectations because with us girls u never know . best luck wishes %26lt;3
Talk to her on msn and ask her questions about herself (but don't make her feel like she's playing 20 questions). Make sure you meet her in person a couple of times, and then tell her how you feel. Whether she's popular or not shouldn't matter if she likes you, but don't jump straight in and tell her how you feel, as she may think you only like her because of her looks
good luck
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Ok, If she is Miss Popular at school, then she has a reputation to keep. High school is hard enough with passing, let alone relationships. If she didn't want anything to do with you she would be IMing you on MSN or anywhere. You;d be ignored. However, she is paying some type of attention to you. Peer pressure is tough, and when you come from a popular click, there's teasing from your friends on who you like, and whom you want to hang out with. The 'ignored' kids in school get a 'cool' reputation when they are seen with the 'cool' kids. The 'cool' kids are seen by their friends as 'weird'. So, there's a lot of tossups there. Take it slow. Maybe she wants this secret friendship to stay that way so she can keep the friendship. She'll thankyou for it later. Take your time, keep IMing, but don't seem pathetic, or desperate. Be strong and show her you're patient, and that the friendship is important to you. That you'll always be there for her whenever she feels like no one else is. No one has to know anything, and she'll feel secure in having a secret friend, who eventually may just end up becoming more by gaining her trust. Good luck!
when your at school just start off saying hi to her.. then try to start to get to know her more online.. find out what she likes... you could bring something up in a conversation... and if she starts responding a positive way... maybe ask her out .. if you find out something she likes.. even just movies or something.. take her to one she might like... partys are also good... if someones throwing a big party ... ask her if she'll go with you... its casual..lots of people.. less pressure.. might be a good way to get to know her more in person...
Try to talk to her every now and then at school. Don't worry about you both being opposite in how many friends you have or who you hang out with, because if she talks to you on msn then she must have some feelings for you right? Maybe you could do something nice and very gentleman for her at school to show that you care about her..
Hope This Helped!
Since she accepted talking to you on msn, I can tell that she might have a little interest ! you didn't give more information about your talks but you are the one to judge if she might accept the fact that you like her or not.. remember there is nothing as she is popular and am not, this is not the thing ! if you really really like her, take the risk and go tell her cause you won't regret it.. you'd either win it all or keep a friendship, so there is nothing here to lose.. good luck !
i think you just need to test the waters, by perhaps telling her she's a great girl and you're glad she is a special friend of yours, i think you'll get a nice respnse, simply because if she didn't like you she wouldn't email you. why not ask to meet for a cuppa as friends? doing things gradually will not be too pushy and will build up a closer friendship that is a great foundation for something more, good luck, you sound a nice guy x
Just be yourself. Don't try to be the cool person all of a sudden and try to keep her attention without being clingy. Smile at her often, and start to talk to her mildly at school. What's the worst thing that could happen? If she doesn't like you, there are plenty of other girls out there that I'm sure would like to date you. =]
over msn
tell her ';we should talk on the phone sometime';
and get her number.
Then once you guys talk on the phone and get to know eachother a little better, when you see her at school go say hi and give her a hug.
after a while of talking to her
just ask her ';who do you like these days?';
and when she asks you tell her that you like her.
good luck :)
dude. if u have her number, just call her up and ask her out to dinner. If she says she is busy just tell her to call u when she is available. If u can't talk to her in person at school, how do u think u will be able to talk to her on a date? U need to get comfortable around her if u want her. come on man. think about it.
i think u need to find a bit of confidence in yourself first mate. then talk to her at school, and gradually build them up into conversations, so that its not awkward. then u can tell her how u feel, because she'll know u more in person and b at least confident with who u r! so then its all up to her!
My advice is that if you are that unsure, go slow. Try to go from online to in person. Try going out for a soda/lunch or something or doing a school activity. When you feel confident enough to bring it up with her go for it. Good luck! Give this girl some credit she wouldn't be talking to you if she didn't at least like you.
1. dose she smile at u a lot?
2. dose she wave to u?
3.dose she stop u in the hall way and talk to u?
4. dose she talk to u period?
ok then ask one of ur friends to ask her if she likes u then if she starts looking at u and talks to her friends when ur friend walks away then yes....
keep talking to er on MSN.
start talking to her in life.
ask her out.
or just ask her out on MSN.
but in life would probably be better.
:)
Hope i helped.
-Courtney
you need to talk to her in person. bring up things you talk about online. you cant have a relationship over the internet. it doesnt work. find out if she likes you after you've actually had a normal conversation with her.
well if you care that much about her tell her how you feel, and if she blows you off because you are not popular forget about her she is not the right girl for you.
From one kinda girl to a nice guy.
Tell her how you feel.
At the end of the day. She says no! and thats that.
Dont be a coulda been!
tell her how you feel. and what is the worst that can happen? she says no? there are other people out there than just her. She should like you for you, and if she doesn't, shes not worth it!
keep holdin on.. try talkin to her in skool... c if she opens the conversation sometimes to know if shes interested.... iif shes not... dont bag on her
just tell her how u feel without being shy
Be yourself and have no fear cuz if you feel secure with yourself she'll like u even more. Trust me just say it cuz if u wait a long time you might lose her.
Good Luck
Try and get to her in person, make her see that your not afraid to be around her in person make he feel special and just be yourself... msn was a good choice to start things off.
Start talking to her in person, but make sure to keep talking on MSN ... Hopefully she'll be interested.
continue to talk to her over msn.. start by saying hi in school.. slowly work your way into conversations at school.. after a while ask her to hang out with u.. then take it from their
Just Keep Talking to her on msn
And Say hi to her in the corridor
talk to her more on msn and tell her you might have feelings for her.
just keep on talkin to her for awhile....keep it cool dont let her kno u like her too soon. good luck
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