There is this girl who is crazy about me, but I just feel friendship towards her. What do I do?I need girl advice, please, ladies.?
Tell her the truth there is nothing better than honesty,and if that dont work than there is nothing you can do.Dont lose a friend over she will meet someone else.I need girl advice, please, ladies.?
If you were friends before...you will need to sit down and really talk this out with her if you are wanting to remain friends or to sustain the friendship you currently have.
If you just met her and things aren't clicking then just tell her that you don't feel a connection romantically. She may be mad at first, but in the end she will appreciate your honesty.
If this is someone in a class or at work then try talking to her and if that doesn't work or see still acts as if she is still romantically interested, then just blatantly tell her that you are not interested and that there is absolutely no way you will ask her out. I know that sounds mean, but if she isn't really willing to listen to you when you nicely tell her, then that is really your last resort, next to hiding and avoiding her.
There is no winning in this situation. There are a million of my friends that have been in love with their ';best guy friend'; for years and they always assume he likes them because he talks to them. Its crazy but then again my current boyfriend was just a friend for years until I broke up with my ex and then look what happened? So its not like she is completely crazy for wanting or expecting something between the two of you. It happens all the time or so she probably thinks.
You're going to have to tell her. Just lay it down like it is. She'll tell all her friends what a jerk you are but eventually she'll get over it. I'm not saying she wont like you anymore because girls tend to be more obsessive than men but she'll at least pretend she doesn't. Which works right?
there's nothing you can do. she's just going to have to deal with it. what are you going to do- go out with her knowing you don't really like her. i doubt that. if she cant handle being your friend maybe you need to clip her all together. sever your ties. you dont need a headache or a loose cannon.
keep it that way.....if she bugs you too much, or tells you about how she likes you, just tell her how you feel. dont pretend to like her or lead her on, but dont be nasty to her either.....just keep being friends, hopefully she'll change her mind in time....
Take her out on a date and if you don't feel anything with her just be honest and tell her that you think of her more as a friend or little sister. that's a turn off. Honesty is best though.
Tell her. For real. It is going to hurt her more if you wait, so do it immediately. Trust me when i say that girls assume the guy likes her unless told otherwise.
Hope this helps?
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