I need girl advice (preferably from the mouth of a girl) ?

this girl I've been seeing says that she doesn't trust me when I say I love her and she wont give me any reason. I've been trying to convince her that I'm a good guy not bent on getting in her pants anytime soon, but she keeps saying that she just cant trust me just yet and I was wondering if anybody knows what I could say to truly make her believe that I truly love her or how long it will take for her to trust me





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Wooday277I need girl advice (preferably from the mouth of a girl) ?
Well, at least she's being careful. She just probably doesn't want to get her heart broken.


I think the best thing that you can do is tell her that you understand that she doesn't want to take things too fast and that your there to talk and help her. It will make her feel comfortable about you and make her open up more.. therefore making her trust you, and so on and so forth. Also, keep on reminding her that you truly lover and and would never do anything to hurt her.





Good luck :)I need girl advice (preferably from the mouth of a girl) ?
Some girls just have trust issues. I did when I first met my current boyfriend. It took me a hell of a long time for me to let my guard down, but I did.


You just have to be patient and not push her. Tell her you understand that you she doesn't trust you yet, and make sure you don't do anything that will slow down your progress. Just wait it out. There's not much else you can do. Just make sure you treat her right and she'll open up soon enough.
Obviously she has been hurt in the past to either not be too quick to trust or did you give her a reason for her not to trust you? I would stick by your word to her and dont go after sex everytime you're with her. Talk to her about what she wants out of a relationship. Make her feel like you really care about her by asking her opinion and when you spend time with her tell her that you like being with her and appreciate your time with her. Do something nice for her to show your love for her.
trust is something you have to earn in time. Women do not want to be rushed. maybe there's something in your history or her history that made her think you are someone not trustworthy. did you use to be a playboy? if not, then, probably, the issue is not with you, but her. maybe she's been cheated before by a guy who said he loved her.





anyway, if you really love her, you should be patient. your sincerity will be revealed in time. we, women see sincerity and appreciate it.





you could show it because words are not enough.sadly, unlike men, women want to be pampered with so many things.what makes her happy? give it to her to the best of your ability.show her you respect her by valuing her opinions and feelings. listen to what she says...and wait.
It sounds like she still needs time. Maybe you said I love you early in the relationship and she wasn't ready to hear that? Whatever you say to her make sure it is from the heart. You have to understand where she's coming from because not all girls are the same. It sounds like she still has her guard up and she may have some trust issues. And it isn't that she doesn't trust YOU, it's that she takes longer to get used to opening up to people she cares about. You just have to show her that you trust her and that she can trust you. She will come around, trust me :] You just have to be patient with her.
Some girls hate the word 'Love' in a relationship.....they just dont believe guys when they say it....just well...you have to let time tell her that you truly love her.





All the SMALL things count and the BIG things do too.


The smallest things you say and do to her and for her will tell her. How you act with her around your friends and how you act with her when it's just you two will show her alot.





have her around your friends every once in a while, ask her if she would like to go out and do things.





take her out to places for a surprise. Just dont do anything that might make her think that you want in her pants.





hope i helped. =D
There isn't really anything you can do. trust is built with time and that is exactly what you need to give her. she will have to come to trust you on her own. Until then, be easy going and try not to be to pushy with her. She has probably been hurt by a guy in the past and she obviously has trust issues. Like I said, give her time.


Good luck!
Try not to let it stress you out. She probably has had trouble with relationships with other men who have told her that they love her, but have obviously proved to her that they didn't. Just be yourself and give her time. Try showing her you love her opposed to telling her. Actions speak louder than words. One way to show someone that they can trust you is to make sure to always make good eye contact with them, and always be honest.
I'm the same with my boyfriend. I've been screwed over so many times in my life it's hard to trust him. You just have to keep telling her you love her and you have to point out little facts that make sense. My boyfriend always says I'm with YOU not some other girl so I obviously love you. Stuff like that.
You can't just make her trust you, or keep doing special things so that she will trust you, trust has to be earnt, and she will learn to trust you with time, just be yourself and she will gain trust in time.





Ask Phoebe.
Obviously she's been through a lot with relationships and stuff. You have to prove to her that you really mean it. She'll come around eventually, if you try hard enough. Show her you're not like all the other guys. Give it all you got. Good luck. :D
shes just been screwed over too many guys to believe you. just be perisitent and in time she will trust your words and her heart in your hands.





(and keep letting her know that your words are real and from the heart even tho she doesnt wanna believe it.)
I think u should just keep reminding her that you love her and show her ways that you are trust worthy, and soon she will probably see that u were telling the truth (u better be hahaha) and that u do love her
And you didn't do anything to make her think you are untrustworthy? Hmm...maybe she has been hurt before and you need to show her you won't ever hurt her. Good luck!
idk im a guy


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